

Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships
MJ Murray Vachon LCSW
Coping Skills for Midlife Stress and Anxiety in Family, Work & RelationshipsForget the midlife crisis—how about creating midlife calm? The anxiety and stress of this life stage can drain your energy, fuel overthinking, and make it hard to enjoy what should be the best years of your life. This podcast offers practical coping skills to help you reduce anxiety, manage stress, and rediscover a calmer, more confident version of yourself.In Creating Midlife Calm, you’ll discover how to:Be happier, more present, and more effective at home and work.Transform stress and anxiety into powerful tools that boost your clarity, energy, and confidence.Cultivate calm and joy through practical, affordable coping skills that help you handle life’s daily challenges.Join MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, a seasoned therapist with over 50,000 hours of clinical experience and 32 years teaching mental wellness, as she guides you to reclaim your inner calm. Learn to stay grounded in the present, navigate midlife transitions with clarity, and build emotional resilience using proven coping tools.Every Monday, MJ dives into real stories and science-backed insights to help you shift from anxious to centered—ending each episode with an “Inner Challenge” you can practice right away. Then, on Thursdays, she shares a brief follow-up episode that connects, deepens, or expands the week’s topic, helping you apply these skills in real life.Let’s evolve from crisis to calm—and make midlife your most balanced and fulfilling chapter yet. 🎧 Start with listener favorite Ep. 138 to feel the difference calm can make.
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Jan 16, 2025 • 11min
Ep. 120 3 Coping Skills To Decrease Overwhelm, Stress & Anxiety During The LA Wildfires & Mass Shootings
How do you navigate the overwhelming emotions that come with hearing bad news in today’s world?Without the right tools to process these challenges, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, or even numb. In this episode you’ll discover: A powerful three-step plan to process bad news while maintaining emotional balance.Practical tips for limiting and balancing your news consumption to protect your mental health.Inspiring ways to channel your energy into small acts of kindness, decreasing your anxiety and creating a positive ripple effect in your community.Take charge of your emotional well-being and discover how to manage bad news with calm and compassion—press play now! Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Jan 12, 2025 • 11min
Ep. 119 5-Minute Meditation to Ease Stress & Anxiety and Cultivate Compassion for LA Wildfires
Are you heart broken and overwhelmed by the wild fires in Los Angelos? What if a simple five-minute meditation could help you transform those feelings into calm and compassion?In this episode you’ll discover: A simple guided, five-minute meditation to calm anxiety and re-regulate your nervous system when bad news feels overwhelming.How to process difficult emotions like sadness and fear while creating space for inner peace.How to cultivate compassion and connection by sending healing thoughts to those affected, all while grounding your own well-being.Listen now to discover a simple and effective meditation that helps you navigate overwhelming emotions, bringing calm and connection when the world feels too heavy. Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Jan 9, 2025 • 14min
Ep. 118 4 Proven Coping Skills To Overcome Weight Loss Obstacles During Midlife
Do you find yourself constantly battling obstacles that make losing weight feel impossible?In this episode you’ll discover: How to stay focused on your weight loss journey, even in a world designed to tempt you.Creative, time-saving, and budget-friendly approaches to meal prep and healthy eating.Explore solutions for menopause and mental health related challenges so you can transform emotional eating into healthier habits.Listen now to empower yourself with proven strategies for overcoming weight loss obstacles and reclaiming your wellness journey!Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Jan 6, 2025 • 11min
Ep. 117 5 Proven Hacks to Achieve Midlife Weight Loss & Stop Feeling Stuck
Is weight loss your New Year’s Resolution? This episode gives you 5 Proven Hacks to help you stop feeling stuck and finally see real results.In this episode you’ll discover: How to shift from "needing" to "wanting" to lose weight and why this mindset change is crucial.Why setting realistic, manageable goals makes all the difference in long-term success.Find out how to enjoy your favorite foods while creating a sustainable food plan.Start your journey to a healthier, happier you by tuning in to this transformative episode now!Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Jan 2, 2025 • 11min
Ep. 116 Crush Your New Year Goal With This One Surprising Coping Skill That Decreases Stress & Anxiety
Are your New Year’s resolutions setting you up for failure? Do you want to find a new way so you don’t give up on you? In this episode you’ll discover:1. Why focusing on one goal with a clear timeline boosts your chances of success.2. How the power of moderation can help you set achievable goals and create lasting change.3. How moderation creates space for flexibility, kindness, self-compassion, and curiosity fueling your momentum.Press play now to uncover how moderation can transform your New Year’s resolutions into meaningful, sustainable habits that bring lasting success.Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Dec 30, 2024 • 15min
Ep. 115 Overcome Fear and Anxiety & FINALLY Achieve Your New Years Resolutions With This Surprising Coping Skill In Midlife
What if the real reason you struggle with New Year’s resolutions isn’t a lack of willpower? In this episode you’ll discover:1. Why fear of failure-not willpower- sabotages your goal and how to break free this New Year2. Practical tools to sit with discomfort, rewire your brain, and turn fear into possibility.3. A way to visualize your success through “mental movies,” a powerful technique to build confidence and clarity and decrease your anxiety. Listen now to learn how befriending your anxiety can unlock the energy and focus you need to crush your goals this year!Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Dec 26, 2024 • 12min
Ep.114 The 6 Minute Year End Review: That Will Change Your Life & Decrease Midlife Stress & Anxiety
Have you ever stopped to celebrate what you’ve done right this year to decrease anxiety and increase calm? In this episode, a six- minute reflection will help you :1.Discover how reflecting on small, intentional changes can significantly decrease your stress levels and increase your mental clarity.2. Evaluate your coping strategies by their effectiveness, time investment, and impact on your well-being.3. Gain practical insights for setting achievable and meaningful goals for the New Year based on what truly works for you.Press play now to uncover the tools you already have and prepare for a calmer, more intentional New Year. Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Dec 23, 2024 • 15min
Ep. 113 4 Coping Skills for Managing Stress, Anxiety and Grief in Midlife During the Holidays
Are the holidays bringing more heartache than joy this year? Discover practical ways to honor your grief and find moments of calm amidst your pain. Holidays can be emotionally overwhelming, especially if you’re grieving the loss of a loved one or supporting someone through terminal illness. In this episode you’ll discover: 1. How to tune into your inner voice and trust it to guide your unique grieving process. 2. Why doing less can actually bring a bit of peace during the holidays. 3. Meaningful ways to honor your loved one while still giving yourself permission to rest and heal. Listen to this episode to gain compassionate guidance and practical coping strategies that will help you move through the holidays with grace and authenticity.Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Dec 19, 2024 • 22min
Ep. 112 3 Practical Coping Skills to Decrease Stress & Anxiety To Navigate Toxic Family Dynamics During the Holidays
Do you struggle to stay safe while spending time with toxic family members this holiday season?The holiday season often brings families together, but for those with toxic relationship patterns in their family, it can also bring tension, conflict, and emotional strain. In this episode you’ll discover: 1. How to identify toxic behaviors and distinguish them from hurtful but resolvable actions.2. Three powerful coping skills that offer protection and safe connection during family gatherings. 3. Actionable strategies to navigate family events with less stress, maintain your emotional balance, and prioritize your safety.Listen to this episode now to arm yourself with the tools you need to approach toxic family dynamics with clarity, confidence, and peace this holiday season.Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.

Dec 16, 2024 • 18min
Ep. 111 3 Midlife Coping Skills for Family Stress & Anxiety During the Holidays
Do family gatherings sometimes leave you feeling hurt or upset? Wondering how to keep the holidays joyful while handling tricky dynamics?The holiday season often brings people together, but it can also resurface old family dynamics and lead to hurtful interactions. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. The key difference between hurtful and toxic behavior and why it matters.Learn three essential coping skills to handle hurtful comments and actions without escalating conflict.Understand how intergenerational dynamics can influence family interactions and how to approach them with empathy.Tune in now to master simple strategies for responding to hurtful moments and ensure your holiday gatherings stay merry and bright! Send us Fan Mail****About the Host:MJ Murray Vachon LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 48,000 hours of therapy sessions and 31 years of experience teaching her Mental Wellness curriculum, Inner Challenge. Four years ago she overcame her fear of technology to create a podcast that integrated her vast clinical experience and practical wisdom of cultivating mental wellness using the latest information from neuroscience. MJ was Social Worker of the Year in 2011 for Region 2/IN.Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.


