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A deep dive into a high-stakes consensual non-consent kidnapping scene at a secluded kink gathering. A seemingly ordinary family man describes planning logistics, vetting consent, and executing a staged abduction. The story covers physical tactics, filming, emotional release, and reflections on facilitating intense play.

Listeners hear frank talk about sexual compatibility when physical size affects pleasure. Practical, slow approaches to trying anal and using toys get discussed. Conversations explore polyamory, memoirs about open relationships, and navigating sexting and friend‑zone dynamics in nonmonogamy. Multiple‑orgasm experiences and whether one can have too much sex also come up.

A first-person recounting of an MMF threesome: how it was proposed, consent negotiated, and logistical details. A step-by-step play-by-play of what happened sexually, from spanking to pizza afterward. Reflections on performance anxiety, meds, and the emotional dynamics of watching two people together.

A woman asks how to set boundaries after a dom demanded constant power exchange while she juggles kids and caregiving. A married man worries he may never kiss his wife again and wonders about seeking makeout intimacy elsewhere. An evolutionary biologist discusses whether kissing dates back to early primates and shares a bizarre kink story from the animal kingdom. A listener brags about extremely high orgasm counts.

A candid recounting of trying urine play for the first time and how the scene actually unfolded. A frank look at why someone explores kink later in life and how confidence and timing matter. Honest discussion of communication, boundaries, and aftercare when a scene goes wrong. Reflections on how smell and sensation can create lasting aversion despite respectful behavior.

Listeners wrestle with the fallout of the Epstein revelations and how trauma can blunt desire. A man describes an odd condom-related erectile problem that sparks practical advice. Conversations explore guilt around age-gap kink and the ethics of consent. A trans comedian reflects on confronting misogyny and performance. A woman preparing to leave an abusive marriage seeks encouragement and hope.

Vanilla. Straight. Cis. Monogamous. How could this story possibly be sexy?A monogamous couple tried a dual massage in a foreign country. Mirrors on the ceiling. Pillows on the bed. Jacuzzi. Steam room. At first they wondered if they were allowed to have sex. They were. Hear the tale! If you have a story you think everyone should hear, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there's also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive. A bisexual woman took the plunge and came out to her conservative Catholic mother. Although her mother didn't completely melt down, she has a ways to go before she reaches acceptance. What will it take to move her mother into the light? Our guest this week is Intimacy Coordinator Yehuda Duenyas. He and Dan talk about what an Intimacy Coordinator does, and whether they should be required on a movie set. How a director's prompt can sometimes be as vague as "They Have Sex" and it's up to the IC to flesh out how that should look to the audience. How portraying scenes of abuse can be wrenching for sensitive male actors. And of course, Dan has Yehuda answer a couple of sex questions too. A little of this conversation is on the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum. Finally, is it possible for a man to both come and pee at the same time...in his girlfriend's mouth? Sadly, this is not a theoretical question. Ask Dan ANY kind of question. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now,  get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, media darling and creator of the It Gets Better Project. A tireless advocate for ethical conduct within relationships, queer rights, and sexual freedom with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

They designed, engineered and built their own fuck box. Dan's question: "So did you upholster it?" Hear all about it, how it fit into the sex party and whether they enjoyed it or not. Do YOU have a perverted tale to tell? Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.

A lively mix of frank sex talk and practical tips about poppers, queer BDSM dynamics, and safer play. They cover tricky logistics like condoms in group situations and why UTIs happen. A long chat digs into making anal sex work with very large partners and the risks of too many partners. Quick-fire calls include slipping penises and recovering from breakups.