Savage Lovecast After Action Report #20
Mar 13, 2026
A candid recounting of trying urine play for the first time and how the scene actually unfolded. A frank look at why someone explores kink later in life and how confidence and timing matter. Honest discussion of communication, boundaries, and aftercare when a scene goes wrong. Reflections on how smell and sensation can create lasting aversion despite respectful behavior.
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First Time Piss Play After BDSM Exploration
- Trina, a mid-40s cishet woman from northeast Boston, tried piss play for the first time to explore submission.
- She had prior BDSM experience with impact play, light bondage, and clear communication with the partner before this session.
Kinks Known Early But Acted On Later
- Trina knew her kinks for years but delayed acting on them until her 40s because she lacked courage and confidence.
- She attributes trying new sexual things now to increased self-confidence and not giving a shit about judgment.
Build Trust With Gradual Impact Play
- In prior sessions the partner used open-handed spanking, a paddle, a mild strap, and light bondage while checking boundaries ahead of time.
- Those scenes involved clear pre-text communication and consensual impact play that built trust for more exploration.