

High Capacity – Nervous System Regulation, Stress Management, Burnout Recovery, Somatic Tools, Anxiety, Boundaries, Overwhelm
Michelle Grosser – Inspired by Mel Robbins, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and Dr. Becky Kennedy
You've built a full life. The career, the family, the responsibilities, the goals — all of it. And the fuller it gets, the more stretched thin you feel.Not because you lack the discipline or drive to figure it out.But because your nervous system was never upgraded to match the life you've built. High Capacity is the podcast for ambitious women who are done just managing their stress and are ready to actually expand what they can hold. Hosted by trial attorney turned nervous system strategist Michelle Grosser, each episode unpacks the nervous system science behind why you feel maxed out, reactive, and depleted — and gives you real tools to expand your capacity across every area of your life.This isn't just about doing less. It's about becoming someone whose nervous system can hold more — more joy, more presence, more of the life you've worked hard to build, and more of the demands that come with it — without the low-grade stress that's become your new normal.Here’s what you’ll learn:- How to expand your emotional, stress, physical, relational, and joy capacity- Nervous system-based tools that work in real life, in real time- How to identify your Capacity Pattern — the specific strategy your nervous system defaults to when you're overwhelmed — and what it means for your stress, your relationships, and your daily lifeNew episodes every Tuesday and Friday.Tuesdays bring the nervous system science and tools.Hi-Cap Fridays give you one practical move to expand your capacity in the week ahead.Take the free "What's Your Capacity Pattern?" quiz: michellegrosser.com/quiz
Episodes
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Dec 19, 2023 • 28min
208 - Calm in the Chaos: 3 Strategies to Navigate Triggering Family Dynamics
I love the holidays... and they can often mean time around extended family that can be super triggering. So if you’re bracing for Aunt Edna’s constant commentary, grandma’s passive aggressive tone, and Uncle Bill’s parenting advice (ugh) - I've got you. Here’s the good news - there are things you can do to regulate your nervous system so that these challenging family dynamics don't set you off. Three things you’ll learn in this episode: How to resource yourself before stepping into triggering situations so your nervous system is best prepared How you can set healthy and loving boundaries around time with extended family Ways to regulate when you notice yourself becoming activated in social situations TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Dec 15, 2023 • 47min
207 - Time Management Essentials for Moms with Anna Dearmon Kornick of It’s About Time
Do you ever feel overwhelmed with all the things you have to do and don’t know how you’re going to fit everything in? We all have the same number of hours in a day, but why does it feel like some people are better at getting things done? In today’s episode, Anna Dearmon Kornick, time management coach and host of the podcast “It’s About Time - A Podcast about Work, Life and Balance” joins us to lay out her guide to effective time management. The truth is that sometimes the calendars and the pretty planners aren’t enough. Join in as Anna shares the tools and tips we need for home and work, so we can optimize how we use our time. Three things you’ll learn in this episode: Three tools every mom needs in her time management tool box Why time management goes beyond the pages of your planner Where to start if you want to better manage your time To connect with Anna, head to: Instagram: @annadkornick Website: annadkornick.com Book: Timemanagementessentials.com TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Dec 12, 2023 • 24min
206 - 3 Science-Backed Strategies to Reduce Overwhelm This Holiday Season
Is anyone else feeling the pressure to do all the things over the next few weeks? With everything we have going on over the holidays, it makes sense that our nervous system can slip into a state of overwhelm. But here’s the thing about throwing our hands up in frustration - fixating on overwhelm gives our power away. Where our focus goes, our energy flows, right? Let’s take that power back. In today’s episode you’ll learn 3 effective science-backed strategies to reduce holiday overwhelm. These are mind-body solutions you can put into practice right now so that you can enjoy the next few weeks with peace and presence. TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Dec 8, 2023 • 36min
205 - Sober-ish: How to Change Our Thinking About Drinking with Colleen Kachmann
For years, I was convinced that my happy hour cocktail was what I needed to take the edge off a long day. I thought my glass of cabernet in the evening helped me get a good night’s sleep. But as I learned about the nervous system, I realized that a lot of what I believed about alcohol simply wasn’t true. In today’s episode, Colleen Kachmann, a Sober-ish Master Recovery Coach, reminds us that it’s never really about the alcohol. It’s about our ability to manage our mind and take care of our body. Through her transformative strategies for emotional sobriety, Colleen guides us to embrace our inner strength, feel secure in ourselves, and trust our intuition. Ultimately, she invites us to explore how to feel safe with ourselves - with or without a drink in hand. Three things you’ll learn in this episode: How alcohol actually affects our brain, body, and nervous system How emotional sobriety equips us to deal with life as it is, rather than how we think it should be Why emotional disconnect is the root cause of brain fog, uncertainty, & lack of focus To connect with Colleen, head to: IG: @recoverwithcolleen Website - Recover With Colleen It's Not About The Alcohol Podcast TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Dec 5, 2023 • 28min
204 - You’re Not Lazy! The Science-Backed Reason You Procrastinate and 3 Nervous- System Hacks to Get Motivated
When was the last time you had a whole list of stuff you needed to get done, but you couldn’t motivate yourself to do it? You kept thinking about it, but couldn’t bring yourself to take action. When we find ourselves procrastinating, it can be super frustrating. So, why do we procrastinate? Some of the answers lie within the wisdom of the nervous system. In today’s episode, you’ll learn what’s likely happening in your body and subconscious mind when you procrastinate and I’ll coach you through 3 simple hacks to help bring yourself out of a state of procrastination and into feeling motivated and taking action. TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Dec 1, 2023 • 43min
203 - Is Your Brain Causing You Pain? A Mind-Body Approach to Chronic Pain, Anxiety, and Depression with Christie Uipi
If you’ve ever struggled with chronic pain, anxiety, or depression, you probably know how frustrating it can be when you’re experiencing real pain and symptoms, but the doctors tell you that your labs are all within “normal” range. Mainstream medicine is only beginning to recognize the powerful role of the brain in the development of chronic pain, anxiety, and depression, but decades of research and clinical experience have demonstrated its pivotal role in recovery. In today’s episode, we’re joined by Christie Uipi, a psychotherapist specializing in the treatment of chronic pain, anxiety, and depression. Christie is the founder of The Better Mind Center and a key collaborator on the development and research of the Pain Reprocessing Therapy treatment modality. If you’ve experienced the gap between research and practice that has left you cycling through traditional symptom-management treatments that don’t bring relief, this episode is for you. As a recovering pain patient herself, Christie is passionate about the field of mind-body medicine, and committed to changing the way that chronic pain, anxiety, and depression are traditionally treated and understood. Three things you’ll learn in this episode: The mind-body approach to healing anxiety and chronic pain Personality traits that may indicate a dysregulated nervous system How trauma and nervous system dysregulation can increase chronic pain & anxiety To connect with Christie, head to: Instagram: @better.with.christie Website: https://bettermindcenter.com/ The Way Out Book TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Nov 28, 2023 • 27min
202 - How Do You Deal With Stress? Discover Your Coping Strategy by Understanding the 4 Different Stress Responses
There are 4 main stress responses - do you know yours? Let’s face it - life can be stressful. Even if we’re intentional about identifying and reducing our stressors, we can’t eliminate all stress from our life. So whether it’s parenting, work, the holidays, or something else in life bringing about a season that feels stressful, understanding how you respond to stress is really helpful. In today’s episode, we’ll explore the 4 different stress responses so you can discover your coping strategy and learn to better manage stress. TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Nov 24, 2023 • 40min
201 - How to Support Your Mind, Body, & Soul to Recover from Burnout with Amber Dawn Wellness
Declare it with me - “I am not going to burn out this holiday season!” It’s a powerful declaration, but in order for it to come to life, we’ve got to understand the symptoms of burnout and how to protect ourselves against it. In today’s episode, Amber Dawn, a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner (NTP), Restorative Wellness Practitioner (RWP), and Health Coach, teaches how we can avoid burnout and depletion in parenthood. Amber and I discuss the main causes of parental burnout, simple strategies to help avoid nutritional depletion, and how we can recover from burnout without feeling overwhelmed. Being a mom doesn’t mean you have to be burned out. So if you’re ready to feel less exhausted and start feeling better today, this episode is for you! Three things you’ll learn in this episode: Simple strategies to help prevent and recover from burnout Practical ways moms can increase energy and reduce stress Daily habits that have a big impact on your health and wellbeing To connect with Amber, head to: IG: @amberdawn_wellness amberdawnwellness.com TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Nov 21, 2023 • 25min
200 - The Science of Gratitude: Can a Gratitude Practice Regulate & Rewire the Nervous System?
Did you know that gratitude can lower stress, promote relaxation, and help you regulate your emotions? To be honest, for a long time I had a gratitude practice where I’d quickly jot down 3 things I was grateful for every morning, but I didn’t feel like it made much of a difference in my life. My gratitude practice didn’t have much of an impact because I didn’t understand the science of gratitude. I didn’t know that I needed to embody gratitude for it to regulate my nervous system and rewire my brain. In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to incorporate a simple daily gratitude practice that will help regulate and re-wire your nervous system. You’ll also learn 10 different benefits to your health and nervous system of having a daily gratitude practice. TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

Nov 17, 2023 • 37min
199 - Taking Ownership For How You Feel with Amanda Walker, Master Life & Performance Coach
Do you have big dreams and goals, but life seems to be getting in the way and you end up feeling overwhelmed with it all? Or maybe you’ve started something new - a resolution, routine, or habit - and then that critical voice chimes in and the imposter syndrome hits and your confidence fades? In today’s episode, Amanda Walker, a certified Master Life & Performance Coach and host of The Best Damn Coach podcast, explains how we can take action and align our big dreams with our personal values and priorities. Amanda shares wisdom on how to overcome imposter syndrome, take ownership of our emotions, and grow in awareness of our mindsets. Three things you’ll learn in this episode: How to overcome imposter syndrome How to achieve results without feeling unbalanced How to identify the red flags of victim mentality To connect with Amanda, head to: Instagram: @awalkmyway Website: amanda-walker.com “If you can get that triad - thought, feeling, action - if you can find support or slow down enough to create practices for these, it’s a game changer. It literally changes everything that you do. You see the world through a different lens.” TAKE THE PERSONALITY PATTERN QUIZ! ASK MICHELLE A QUESTION! REGULATION RESOURCES BOOK A FREE 30-MINUTE CALL WITH MICHELLE FB COMMUNITY: The Calm Mom Collective JOIN ME ON INSTAGRAM: @michellegrosser.coach “I love The Calm Mom Podcast!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing our show! This helps us support more women, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!


