The Dildorks

Dr. Carol Queen, Good Vibrations staff sexologist & Antique Vibrator Museum curator, discusses the iconic Magic Wand vibrator's impact on pleasure, social media, and closing the orgasm gap with other guests. They explore the history, criticism, societal perceptions, and empowerment associated with using the Magic Wand, advocating for female sexual autonomy and normalization of vibrators for enhanced satisfaction.

Dive into the captivating history of the Magic Wand vibrator, a cornerstone of feminist and queer culture since 1968. Discover its evolution from a simple product to a symbol of empowerment. Listen in on fascinating interviews with influential figures in the sex-positive community. The discussion highlights the intersection of consumer culture and feminism, and explores the emotional impact of sex toys. Unveil personal connections and the transformative power of pleasure through compelling stories. Get ready for an enlightening journey through sexuality and self-love!

Explore the thrilling yet daunting changes in kinky power dynamics. Discover how individuals navigate their shifting roles, from dominance to submission, and the emotional boosts they can bring. Delve into the joy of discovering new desires through attentive partnerships and the importance of clear communication. Learn how to embrace vulnerability, ask the right questions, and redefine boundaries in relationships. The journey of switching can unlock deeper intimacy and self-discovery, challenging conventional ideas about power.

In celebration of Masturbation Month, the hosts dive into listener questions about self-pleasure. They explore practical cleanup tips and the infamous 'cum box' phenomenon. The conversation touches on those pruney fingers during solo sessions and offers solutions like lube and finger cots. Fantasizing from another’s perspective is examined, alongside beginner advice for using toys. They also tackle the line between porn use and addiction, plus the benefits of a mindful routine for nightly indulgence. It's a lively, informative discussion full of tips and tricks!

What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences. “What is Sex Like?” | Flow State | Internal vs. External Factors | Social Anxiety | Sleep No More | Attention | Moments | Hospitality | Disney | Ambiance & Headspace | D&D Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

Celebrate Kate's birthday with insights on sex, dating, and relationships! Discover how masturbation can be a self-care ritual, and the impact of New Relationship Energy. Dive into the dynamics of long-term partnerships that prioritize emotional work. Learn about the importance of friendships in romantic contexts and how fatigue can influence choices. The hosts explore fantasies, S/M, and address jealousy in non-monogamous settings. Plus, get tips on effective flirting and the art of metacommunication!

Traveling with a partner can ignite passion or spark conflict. Discover how hotel sex is transformed by new environments and stress relief. Explore travel as a compatibility test, revealing habits and stress responses. When should you take your first trip together? They debate ideal timing and the importance of solo activities. Learn practical questions to ask pre-trip and how to handle travel-induced arguments. Plus, hear about navigating work events while maintaining relationship boundaries!

A lively chat about what counts as realistic standards versus being labeled "too picky." They tackle leagues, rejection, and how chemistry can surprise expectations. Conversation covers evolving preferences, monogamy versus polyamory, and when standards become harmful. Practical talk on boundaries, wish lists, and spotting fetishization rounds out the discussion.

They explore a range of size kinks from giantess fantasies to vore and eating imagery. The conversation contrasts emotional littleness with explicit age play and examines height and weight variation in attraction. They dig into how power, gender, safety, and physical techniques shape scenes that make someone feel large or small.

This week we’re joined by Addison Finch, the artist who created our new logo! We talk with him about how the art came together, plus his work as a tattoo artist. Dildo Nerds | New Logo | Listened to Every Episode | Fifty Shades | Favorite Part | Separate Personas | Piercing | Tattooing | Alt Culture | Traditions vs. Colonialism | Flash Art | Kinky Tattooing Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.