The Dildorks

They unpack the idea of the relationship escalator and why polyamory pushes back on its assumptions. They compare hierarchical versus non-hierarchical arrangements and practical impacts like living, money, and caregiving. They explore alternatives to marriage—creative projects, collaborations, collars, and public visibility—as ways to mark commitment.

Is porn addiction real? Is the NoFap community just a bunch of chastity fetishists? Are men okay? This week Kate chats with Kris Taylor, an academic from New Zealand who has studied porn addiction discourse and the NoFap movement, about all of the above and more. Origin Story | Masculinity | New or Old? | NoFap Research | Homoeroticism in NoFap | Women on NoFap | Giving Pleasure | Eroticizing Self-Denial | Dust Breeding | Barriers & Tension | Sexual Fantasy | Male Pleasure | Flure App | Porn Dependency | “No Porn” Rule | Fantastical Fantasies | Vibrators | A Cyborg Manifesto | Solitary Sex | Making Sex | Female Orgasm | Queer & Trans People | Future Research Directions Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

They explore how improv skills boost flirting, attention, and playful escalation. They talk about reading cues, when humor helps versus when it breaks tension, and using laughter to modulate arousal or ease nerves. They discuss laughter as breath-play, funny kink scenes, humiliation play boundaries, and the value of committing to a bit to deepen vulnerability and connection.

Watching porn while in a relationship can be more contentious than watching it while single; this week, we theorize on why that is, and answer listener questions about watching porn with partners. Is OnlyFans Cheating? | Economics | Insecurities & Anxieties | What Porn is For | Extreme Tastes | Watching Porn During Oral | Nothosaur Toys | Sharing Passwords | Porn Stars’ Appearance | Queer Porn with Straight Partners Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

They unpack what counts as romance versus everyday care and whether consistency can be romantic. They explore autism, aromanticism, and how cultural scripts shape expectations. They map romantic attraction, queerplatonic overlap, and new-relationship energy. They trade practical ideas like anticipatory service, surprises versus planning, spontaneous kisses, remembering preferences, and small thoughtful gestures.

In this engaging discussion, MB Bischoff, a technology and culture writer, joins spouse Kate Sloan to dive into the intriguing concept of a vibrator detox. They explore why Kate decided to pause her use of vibrators and the surprising effects this had on her sensitivity and orgasm quality. The pair wrestle with cultural anxieties surrounding sex toys while advocating for their positive aspects. They also share insights into manual stimulation techniques and reflect on how this experience redefines their relationship with pleasure and intimacy.

They answer listener questions about anal toys, long-term butt plug wear, and safe lube choices. They compare powerful vibrators, pressure-wave suction devices, and versatile wands. They discuss toys for AMAB and trans folks, micropenis and packer options, and realistic dildo materials. They debate toy cleaners, brand shifts in luxury toys, and the idea of running a sex shop.

Dive into the intriguing world of piss play, where taboo meets intimacy! Discover why this kink is arousing for many and the physical sensations involved. Learn practical tips for safe scenes and how to perfect peeing on command. The duo shares wild anecdotes, including spontaneous hotel-room moments and filming logistics. Explore the fascinating dynamics of bladder control, desperation play, and how fluid can heighten pleasure. From piss cocktails to role-playing scenarios, this episode is a playful journey into watersports!

Dive into a playful exploration of 2023's most enticing sexual fantasies! Listen as the hosts recount everything from alley extortion to workplace flirtations and cuckolding adventures. They discuss the thrill of public dynamics, revelations from Quora threads, and the art of mindfulness during intimacy. With goals like hosting a queer-inclusive play party and implementing a vibrator detox, the conversation weaves between personal experiences and broader themes of trust and exploration in sexuality.

Get ready for an exciting dive into the world of sex toys! The hosts share their top picks from 2023, including beloved brands and innovative designs. They explore the durability of the Magic Wand and uncover the versatility of paddles and vaginal plugs. Tune in for thrilling tales of cage play, chastity experiences, and memorable intimate moments. From strap-on logistics to playful roleplay scenarios, this discussion is both informative and delightfully cheeky!