
The Dildorks Hard-Won Wisdom
Apr 23, 2024
Celebrate Kate's birthday with insights on sex, dating, and relationships! Discover how masturbation can be a self-care ritual, and the impact of New Relationship Energy. Dive into the dynamics of long-term partnerships that prioritize emotional work. Learn about the importance of friendships in romantic contexts and how fatigue can influence choices. The hosts explore fantasies, S/M, and address jealousy in non-monogamous settings. Plus, get tips on effective flirting and the art of metacommunication!
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Rethink Long-Term Living
- Consider nontraditional long-term setups like living apart but partnering closely.
- Choose relationship structure that fits your needs, not cultural expectations.
Long-Term Shows Your Growth Areas
- Long relationships surface personal issues to work on; that exposure is a feature.
- Deep intimacy forces psychological growth when masks fall away.
Friendship Is Relationship Work
- Friendships require effort and can be as deep as romantic ties.
- Expect hard conversations and intentional maintenance in close friendships.






