The Dildorks Standard Practice
Apr 10, 2024
A lively chat about what counts as realistic standards versus being labeled "too picky." They tackle leagues, rejection, and how chemistry can surprise expectations. Conversation covers evolving preferences, monogamy versus polyamory, and when standards become harmful. Practical talk on boundaries, wish lists, and spotting fetishization rounds out the discussion.
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Use Your Relationship Baseline
- Know what you want and be willing to reject things that don't match your needs, even if you're dating casually.
- Use existing secure relationships to clarify what matters and raise your standards accordingly.
Polyamory Creates Precise Standards
- Polyamorous people may have both lower bars for entry and more precise relationship roles, so their standards can be simultaneously broader and clearer.
- Billy argues poly folks often know what they want and can articulate specific roles for partners.
Expand The Pool To Find Chemistry
- Broaden your dating pool by questioning whether preferences (height, body, job) are socialized rather than fixed.
- Seek representation and diverse exposure to learn new patterns of attraction.
