The Dildorks Skilful Self-Love
May 7, 2024
In celebration of Masturbation Month, the hosts dive into listener questions about self-pleasure. They explore practical cleanup tips and the infamous 'cum box' phenomenon. The conversation touches on those pruney fingers during solo sessions and offers solutions like lube and finger cots. Fantasizing from another’s perspective is examined, alongside beginner advice for using toys. They also tackle the line between porn use and addiction, plus the benefits of a mindful routine for nightly indulgence. It's a lively, informative discussion full of tips and tricks!
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Prefer Silicone Lube To Prevent Wrinkling
- Switch to silicone-based lube if water-based products leave fingers overly wet and pruney.
- Silicone lubes sit on the skin and reduce absorption, preventing the wrinkling effect.
Stop Guilt Over Masturbating To Your Video
- Accept masturbating to your own videos as a valid arousal tool and a way to relive pleasure.
- Challenge self-critical shame and treat self-made erotic material like any other erotic stimulus.
Seeing Yourself Can Enhance Arousal
- Seeing yourself in erotica can activate mirror neurons, making the experience feel real and arousing.
- Viewing yourself through a partner's perspective can validate traits they like and increase desire.
