

No Show Dogs: Powered by ReliaQuest
Derin McMains
It's not about looking good, it's about being good. It's not what you say, it's what you do that matters most. It's about having the courage to step into your arena and do the work. ReliaQuest is a global leader in cybersecurity. Their focus on world-class performance continues to give them the edge to make security possible for some of the largest enterprises in the world. Recognized by Inc. Magazine as a Top 5 Podcast for Leadership and Wellness, No Show Dogs ReliaQuest Mental Performance Coach Derin McMains brings you conversations with world-class performers from some of the most visible arenas across sports and enterprises. Each episode uncovers the thoughts, habits, and strategies that fuel success—principles you can apply to leadership and business. Drawing on over 25 years of experience in professional sports as a professional athlete, baseball manager, and now mental performance coach, McMains shares practical tools and insights to help you think better to perform better in any professional or personal pursuit. No Show Dogs is powered by ReliaQuest. ReliaQuest makes security possible for some of the largest enterprises in the world, detecting and containing threats within minutes—anytime, anywhere—with its Agentic AI security operations platform, GreyMatter.
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Feb 5, 2025 • 10min
Run It Back: Pushing Through 'Chosen Suffering' with Gold Medalist and 5-time U.S. Olympian Billy Demong
"Run It Back" episodes highlight one specific principle shared by a previous guest, and offer you strategies on how to bring them into your arena.In this full episode published back on March 22, 2023, we learn how Nordic Combined U.S. Gold Medalist and 5-time Olympian Billy Demong chose suffering in his training to gain confidence on race day. ReliaQuest Director of Mental Performance Derin McMains shares four strategies on how you can push through those extra hours to gain that extra confidence.ReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.com

Jan 29, 2025 • 50min
Mining for Greatness with Tom Allison - Los Angeles Dodgers, Special Assistant, Scouting
With over 30 years of professional baseball experience in scouting, Tom Allison knows what to look for when it comes finding world-class talent. In this conversation with ReliaQuest mental performance coaches Dr. Nicole Detling and Derin McMains, Tom discusses lessons learned when it comes to discovering potential and leading global teams.You'll also hear him talk about:Role of character in long-term successHow the "Why" impacts performanceFailure is an opportunity, not an endpointReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comTom Allison LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tom-allison-a389781b9/Dr. Nicole Detling LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-detling-phd-cmpc-32b1809/Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662

Jan 15, 2025 • 49min
Building Great Leaders Through Followership with Lieutenant Colonel Dean Canham OBE - Head of The Centre for Army Leadership
Drawing from decades of military experience and cutting-edge academic research, Lieutenant Colonel Dean Canham OBE shares actionable insights on servant leadership, the power of followership, and the importance of self-awareness in growing as a leader. In this conversation with ReliaQuest mental performance coaches Derin McMains and Dave Maddock, you'll also hear them discuss:How EQ, SQ, and IQ form the foundation of effective leadershipExploring the tension between being liked and respectedSpeaking truth to powerReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comThe Centre for Army Leadership: https://www.army.mod.uk/support-and-training/our-schools-and-colleges/centre-for-army-leadership/Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662Dave Maddock LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davemaddock/

Jan 1, 2025 • 51min
Do Goals Really Matter? with Andy Riise - Retired US Army Lieutenant Colonel and Current NFL Mental Performance coach
As you set out to accomplish big things in 2025, what is your approach to ensuring you have success? Retired US Army Lieutenant Colonel and Current NFL Mental Performance coach Andy Riise joins ReliaQuest Mental Performance coaches Dr. Nicole Detling and Derin McMains to discuss how they’ve seen goals impact performance. Both positively and negatively. As each coach shares their experiences, you’ll begin to learn what strategies could work for you going forward.Here are a few things you'll hear Andy discuss in this conversation:Mission-driven approach to chasing successHow micro goals can drive consistent improvementInterplay between passion, purpose, and disciplineReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comSPECIFIC HIGHLIGHTS:7:52 – Limitations of SMART goals14:27 – Micro goal setting21:43 – Big goals25:04 – 4 phases of performance46:00 – Final Question: What were some of the things you were willing to do that others weren’t that has helped you have success up to this point?Andy Riise LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andyriise/Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662Dr. Nicole Detling LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-detling-phd-cmpc-32b1809/

Dec 18, 2024 • 15min
2024 ReliaQuest Bowl with Kalen DeBoer - University of Alabama, Head Football Coach
At the ReliaQuest Bowl Contract Signing Party, University of Alabama Head Football Coach Kalen DeBoer joined the "No Show Dogs" podcast to talk about his coaching journey and the leadership principles he follows to drive his program.Here are a few things you'll learn from Coach DeBoer in this episode:His evolution as a leader and coachValue of surrounding yourself with good peopleIdentity of the University of Alabama football programThe 2024 ReliaQuest Bowl features the University of Alabama Crimson Tide and the University of Michigan Wolverines. The game is being played at Raymond James Stadium in Tampa, Florida on December 31, 2024 at 12:00 pm EST. The game will be aired live on ESPN. Learn more about the ReliaQuest Bowl here: https://www.reliaquestbowl.comReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comDerin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662Kalen DeBoer Bio: https://rolltide.com/sports/football/roster/coaches/kalen-deboer/1571

Dec 4, 2024 • 39min
The Impact of Leadership on Performance with Cameron Brate - Tampa Bay Buccaneers, Retired NFL Player
Retired Tampa Bay Buccaneers Tight End Cameron Brate's journey from undrafted free agent to Super Bowl champion is filled with lessons we all can learn from and apply to our own pursuits. Not only will you learn about Cameron's perseverance and adaptability, this conversation also underscores the critical role of effective coaching and leadership in enhancing individual and team performance. In this conversation with ReliaQuest mental performance coaches, Dr. Nicole Detling and Derin McMains, you'll hear Cameron discuss:Paradox of goal-settingHow leadership impacts developmentSmall improvements over time lead to big changesReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comSpecific Highlights:2:00 - The NFL was NOT the goal8:11 - Pushing through the doubt10:02 - How coaches impact performance18:47 - Rapid fire questions around the QB's he played with30:48 - When Tampa Bay drafted another Tight End in the first round34:22 - FINAL QUESTION: What were the things you were willing to do that others weren't that helped you have success?Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662Dr. Nicole Detling LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-detling-phd-cmpc-32b1809/

Nov 20, 2024 • 33min
Mindset with Brian Murphy: Bias for Action
Founders are consistently confronted with making tough decisions and taking bold actions. And it’s those bold actions that actually move the needle. ReilaQuest Founder and CEO Brian Murphy talks about how his bias for action has helped him scale ReliaQuest from bootstrap startup to a global company working with some of the largest enterprise brands in the world.In this conversation with ReliaQuest mental performance coach Derin McMains, you’ll hear Brian Murphy discuss:How a bias for action drives momentum and fosters innovationAccepting the big challenges that come from chasing big goalsBalancing action with reflectionReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world.Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comSpecific Highlights:9:24 – Bias for action11:08 – Taking action in the face of pain18:43 – It’s supposed to be hard22:34 – When the bias for action backfired28:34 – Looking back and being able to laugh at the adversityBrian Murphy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianmurphyreliaquest/Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662

Nov 6, 2024 • 52min
Thriving in a World of Critique with Adrian Fry - Ballet West, Principal Dancer
Discover the dedication, discipline, and mental resilience required to excel in the demanding world of professional ballet. Adrian Fry, a celebrated principal dancer with Ballet West, shares his unique journey from small-town beginnings to commanding the stage, offering a glimpse into the rigorous schedule and the competitive and critiquing culture of ballet.In this conversation with ReliaQuest mental performance coaches Dr. Nicole Detling and Derin McMains, you’ll hear Adrian discuss:Developing mental resilience to perform consistentlyNavigating competitive and collaborative environmentsMental skills needed to combat perfectionismReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comSpecific Highlights:6:34 – The background of the culture of ballet10:45 – There is no formula to get promoted14:23 – Competitive and collaborative environment23:33 – Dealing with correction and criticism33:15 – How to make monotonous things feel new36:13 – Importance of choosing your perspective46:30 – FINAL QUESTION: What were the things you were willing to do that others weren’t that has helped you have success?Ballet West website: https://www.balletwest.org/Dr. Nicole Detling LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-detling-phd-cmpc-32b1809/Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662Thumbnail image by Beau Pearson

Oct 23, 2024 • 40min
Egoless Clarity with Kevin Corrigan - University of Notre Dame, Lacrosse Head Coach
Back-to-back National Champions. Over 350 career wins. 37 years at the helm. University of Notre Dame lacrosse head coach Kevin Corrigan knows what it takes to build and sustain a culture of champions. Coach Corrigan shares invaluable insights that transcend the world of sports and resonate deeply with business leaders and professionals looking to take their teams to the next level.In this episode with ReliaQuest mental performance coaches Derin McMains and Dr. Nicole Detling, Coach Corrigan discusses:Instilling unwavering beliefHow egoless clarity instills accountabilityFostering a culture of belonging and accountability on and off the fieldReliaQuest exists to Make Security Possible, allowing security teams to detect and contain threats within minutes — anytime, anywhere. Our GreyMatter technology connects with customers’ existing tools and infrastructure to drive greater visibility and automation without the need to centralize data or standardize technology. Built on over a decade of experience, ReliaQuest is the only cybersecurity technology company at scale, at the enterprise, that makes the customer the platform. With over 1,000 customers worldwide and 1,200 teammates across six global operating centers, ReliaQuest delivers security outcomes for the most trusted enterprise brands in the world. Learn more at: https://www.reliaquest.comCoach Kevin Corrigan: https://fightingirish.com/coach/kevin-corrigan-2/Dr. Nicole Detling LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-detling-phd-cmpc-32b1809/Derin McMains LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/derin-mcmains-m-s-m-a-cmpc-09158662

Oct 9, 2024 • 47min
No Stone Unturned with Jacob Fleck - Professional Golf Caddy
Professional golf caddy Jacob Fleck shares his experiences and offers insights on being a strategic advisor in the most pressure-packed environments. He talks about caddying on the PGA Tour, LIV Golf, and in the Olympics, and dives into the unique dynamics between golfer and caddy.In this conversation with ReliaQuest Founder and CEO Brian Murphy and mental performance coach Derin McMains, business leaders and entrepreneurs will learn about:Nuances of being a strategic advisorManiacal attention to detailHumility’s role in getting a little better


