The Parenting Coach Podcast

Ann Kelley (she/her) is a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy and relational work. She runs a clinical practice in Austin, Texas, and is a podcaster, writer, educator, and speaker. Dr. Kelley spent years supervising specialized trauma-informed therapy programs and was an expert in courts and media outlets. She co-authored "Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World" (HarperCollins, 2024), with her partner, Sue Marriott. In this episode: Co-regulation and co-dysregulation in our relationships (not just parent-child)How our childhood and history affect us (and what we can do about it) You’re not “stuck” in your attachment, how developing and growing happens (our brains and nervous systems are plastic)Connecting back to our heart and our feelingsOur nervous system is a result of our childhood and can change over the lifespan De-pathologizing our reactions and bringing presence into the tough moments. Connect with her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/therapist_uncensored_podcast/Website: https://therapistuncensored.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/austinshrinks/Podcast: https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes-2/Get started on this work through a daily mindset practice from Coach Crystal- Journal HEREWork with Crystal 1:1: www.coachcrystal.ca/miracle or in group: www.coachcrystal.ca/creationroomGrab your copy of Crystal’s Feelings Wheel here: www.coachcrystal.ca/wheel Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The Holidays can be hard. In past years I’ve dealt with intense soap-opera-esque family drama (we would have made a great reality TV show years ago). I wish I had the tools and awareness back then that I have now, but everything came in the timing it needed to. So, if you’ve stumbled across this podcast, maybe this is the timing that these ideas needed to come to you too. Links I mention in this episode: Moving through Frustration Meditation HERE, Intuitive Journaling HERE, Group Intuitive Coaching for 2025 HERE, 1:1 Coaching in The Miracle Year HERE. Other podcast episodes HEREIn this episode: Emotional regulation is feeling safe to feel any emotion in your body (not avoiding, resisting or acting out). Helping others through uncomfortable emotions by increasing your capacity for feelingsEmotions are messages that are trying to be seen and heard: tools for listening through words and listening through the body. ---Join me in my new 1:1 coaching container for 12 months, and see what kind of life you can create through intuition, manifestation and trust: www.coachcrystal.ca/miracle Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

My healing journey included a ton of books, research, guides, teachers (and time) that all dropped in just when I needed them (less of self-help and more of a community project I guess!). I don’t even recognize the self that I was 5 years ago- negative attachment patterns, emotional dysregulation, indecision and overwhelm. But even when I had changed so much of that 2-3 years ago, I was still stuck in “hustle” and tapped out of my own inner wisdom. Time doesn’t heal all wounds- but time spent healing, heals. And my favourite reminder before you listen in: Healing is remembering… you aren’t broken. You never were. Healing is the process of coming back to that Truth. Join me in my new 1:1 coaching container for 12 months, and see what kind of life you can create through intuition, manifestation and trust: www.coachcrystal.ca/miracle (I’m also closing down my one-off open coaching session hours starting in January. I have several still open for December HERE). In this episode: What my own childhood and teenage-hood looked like (and how I was driven by people-pleasing and external validation, without knowing it)My parenting and relationship journey: small shifts to big shifts, and how I saw a 180-degree difference in my kids’ behaviours too. How CBT and thought-work based modalities only took me so far, the further inner work was needed to see real change (like how I don’t EVER yell anymore, without trying!) Moving from hustle, marketing strategy and tactics and self-doubt in my business to intuition, manifestation and trust (everything is working out for my good). Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What is possible in a year? How much have you changed over the last 1 year, 5 years, or 10 years? What else is possible? The part of healing that we talk about often is deconstruction around what’s keeping you stuck and moving through that… but the other half is CREATION- making possible the kind of life you want, especially the seemingly impossible things. I share my formula for creation, so you can join me for your own Miracle Year (or coach with me through your Miracle Year HERE).   Join The Miracle Year HERERead more about non-possession HERERead more about Pretas/Gaki (The Hungry Ghost) HEREAmber Smith’s Quiet Wealth book HEREIn today’s episode: The formula for creating impossible-sounding things in your lifeStaying in gratitude and appreciation, while creating moreNon-attachment and non-possession from Buddhist philosophyWhat the miracle year is all about, and how to create your own miraculous yearBody, mind and soul: what do you want to create? (un-shaming your body, your food, your exercise, your relationships, your money creation, your business growth and your faith) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On this podcast, we love to talk about shame-free everything… It’s easy to see how our parenting can trend toward shame, and I hope listening in has helped that change in little (or big) ways. If you grew up in a home where your body and food choices were a main focus and commented on often, you may wonder how to raise your child differently. Ditch the food and body shame in this episode with Nicole Cruz, RD, and me. Join our Shame Resiliency Seminar HEREGet started on this work through a daily mindset practice- Journal HEREJoin the next round of The Shame-Free Parenting Movement: HEREListen to the bonus episodes on the podcast: www.coachcrystal.ca/blogConnect with Nicole: HEREWebsite HEREIn today’s episode: What words around food, eating, and bodies create shame in our childrenHow we were raised affects how we interact with our food, and feeding ours kidsHow to teach kids to listen to their bodies How to manage things like allergies or food intolerances in a shame-free and fear-free wayHow kids are naturally intuitive when it comes to eating and foodAbout Nicole: Nicole Cruz founded Nourish Together, a shame-free approach to family nutrition that instills food and body trust. As a Registered Dietitian and mom of three, she combines her personal and professional experience to help parents raise confident eaters who can enjoy a variety of foods, listen to their body cues, and avoid obsessing over sweets or other ‘treats’. She believes that a healthy relationship with food is the foundation for lifelong ‘healthy’ eating — and when we nourish together, we bring more joy and less stress to the table! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When we’re triggered by our kids and trying to keep our cool… more is going on in our unconscious mind than what we are aware of. When we have the tools to work through what’s going on under the surface, we can more easily show up as the shame-free parents that we want to be (and wish we had). Connect with Melissa: IG HERE, Website HEREJoin our Shame Resiliency Seminar HEREGet started on this work through a daily mindset practice- Journal HEREJoin the next round of The Shame-Free Parenting Movement: HEREListen to the bonus episodes on the podcast: www.coachcrystal.ca/blogIn today’s episode: What’s really triggering us (so much more than just words)Hypnosis tips for parents (to use on ourselves in the midst of heavy times)Calming the nervous system within, so we can help our children calm theirsHow those around us live up to what we expect from them (and how shifting that can change them too)Melissa Tiers is a multi-award-winning author, lecturer, keynote speaker and hypnosis trainer. She is the founder of The Center for Integrative Hypnosis, co-founder of The Ethical Coaching Collective and creator of Coaching the Unconscious Mind. Melissa has earned three IMDHA Pen and Quill awards for her books, “Integrative Hypnosis: A comprehensive Course in Change”, “Keeping the brain in mind: Practical Neuroscience for Therapists, Coaches and Hypnosis Practitioners” and “Integrative Hypnosis for kids and teens: Playing for Change.” Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Do you want to uncover how shame might be showing up in your relationships and life? It likes to hide in the sneakiest of places… feeling the need to correct others, getting defensive during arguments, passive-aggressive social media comments, and scrolling your phone for hours every evening. How is shame underneath all of that? Come and find out by tuning in to today’s episode to hear a coaching call in action- and use what you hear for your own inner work. Join our Shame Resiliency Seminar HERE **NOTE: Date changed to Feb 2025Get started on this work through a daily mindset practice- Journal HEREJoin the next round of The Shame-Free Parenting Movement: HEREListen to the bonus episodes on the podcast: www.coachcrystal.ca/blogIn today’s episode: How shame can keep us stuck from relating to others in a way that feels good to us.How to notice when shame is under the surface of something bothering usHow to dig deep and find the shame, call it out, and move through it (shame resiliency)Our brand-new shame resiliency seminar for coaches, therapists and counsellors. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

That not-enough-ness feeling that we all feel is called shame, and we can’t run from it, avoid it or hope it will stop showing up for us. Shame is under the surface of our biggest triggers- and working through it will bring big change to your relationships, big emotions and life. Join our Shame Resiliency Seminar HERE ** Date changed to Feb 2025Get started on this work through a daily mindset practice- Journal HEREJoin the next round of The Shame-Free Parenting Movement: HEREToday you’ll hear: How shame is under the surface of big emotions or “triggers”What to do to move us and our clients through shame (shame resiliency)You’ll hear a coaching experience in real-time, as I help a mom move through frustration at her kids fighting and getting overwhelmed around food issues in her kids.Our brand-new shame resiliency seminar for coaches, therapists, and counsellors.  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr Dan Siegel, a child and adolescent psychiatrist and Mindsight Institute director, shares brain-based parenting ideas. He discusses left vs right brain connection, the hand model to visualize regulation, naming emotions to create space, mirror neurons and emotional sponging, and how to support teens’ drives while building the upstairs brain.

Our birth stories are inextricably linked to other areas of our lives, and as we recognize our own birthing stories (whether for good or bad) and choose to rewrite them, it can add confidence and peace to our parenting and motherhood. Nicole Lawrence is a mother, writer, visionary, and host of the podcast, Re:birth, with a mission to alchemize birth stories & the stories we bring to motherhood into fertile soil for evolving our mothering and our lineage. In this powerful episode we share: How our birth stories impacted us for good or bad How to re-write our stories (and recognize the impact they may have had) Nicole shares some beautiful stories of women who have re-written their stories and how it changes things for them How to prep for your upcoming birth on a soul level (and what your birthing plan can include to help this) Connect with Nicole: WEBSITE or IGConnect with Crystal: Join the next round of The Shame-Free Parenting Movement: HEREGet started with teaching your child emotions, free feelings wheel HEREFind your parenting personality (and get tips specific to it) by taking the quiz HERECheck out all my fun parenting courses and programs here: www.coachcrystal.caGet tips, insights and support daily through IG right HERE Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.