In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Jacqueline Soule, a system disruptor who feels everything—literally. From experiencing orgasms on bumpy roads to planning her life around her menstrual cycle, Jacqueline shares how deep body awareness has shaped her life. We discuss how to be more mindful and make everyday moments more pleasurable, how she taught her kids about cycles and sex education, and what it’s like to navigate relationships with mismatched desire levels. Plus, she reveals what life is like without a negative internal voice—and how you can start silencing yours. Topics include:✨ Tips on becoming more in tune with your body✨ How to bring more pleasure into mundane daily moments✨ Why she plans her entire life around her menstrual cycle✨ Teaching kids about sex ed, body image & self-awareness✨ What it’s like to have no negative self-talk✨ Navigating a higher libido than your partner✨ The power of sensory awareness & pleasure If you’re curious about deepening your connection with your body, tuning into pleasure, and embracing your natural rhythms, this episode is for you!

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Amber Mallery, an award-winning sex educator and advocate for inclusivity in sexual health education, for an inspiring and candid conversation about sex, self-discovery, and prioritizing personal growth. (also see @bijoux_indiscrets) Amber shares her journey into sex education, her passion for fostering inclusive spaces, and how she navigates challenging but essential conversations around intimacy and relationships. They dive deep into their shared experiences giving workshops on Desire Cruises, discussing the unique dynamics of teaching about pleasure and empowerment in such a liberating environment. Amber also opens up about her decision to prioritize herself, how it’s impacted her life and work, and why self-care is vital for showing up fully for others. From breaking stigmas around pleasure to exploring new areas of intimacy safely, Amber and Alexa unpack everything you need to know to foster connection, confidence, and self-love in and out of the bedroom. Amber’s journey to becoming a sex educator Giving workshops on Desire Cruises and empowering others Why prioritizing yourself is vital for growth and connection Breaking down stigmas around sexual health and pleasure Tips for improving communication and intimacy in relationships Exploring kink and new areas of sexuality safely Creating inclusive, sex-positive spaces The importance of representation in sex education This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their knowledge, embrace pleasure, and live unapologetically.

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) kicks off Season 4 with an exciting conversation with Mario Cruz, Cruise Director for the famed Desire and Temptation Cruises. In this episode, we dive into the world of swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruises and explore what makes these experiences so unique, from themed nights and play spaces to fostering a respectful, consensual environment for newcomers and experienced swingers alike.Mario shares insider details about creating a safe space for exploration, including privacy measures for discreet guests, guidance for setting boundaries, and tips for easing into the lifestyle. We also debunk common myths about swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruises, discuss the vibrant themed dress codes, and explore the balance between a thrilling party atmosphere and a comfortable, inclusive environment.Mario’s stories from past cruises offer a glimpse into the memorable, funny, and heartwarming moments that make these journeys more than just about sex—they’re about connection, community, and unforgettable adventures. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode is full of insights, laughs, and practical advice for anyone considering their first swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruise.Topics include: What makes swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruises different from typical cruises Debunking myths about swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruises Privacy, boundaries, and consent onboard Themed nights and how wild guests get with their outfits Tips for first-timers and navigating nerves Beyond sex: the community, workshops, and relaxation aspects Memorable moments from Desire and Temptation CruisesJoin us as we set sail on an enlightening journey into the world of swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruises, where adventure and connection await!

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) welcomes Reed Amber, a multifaceted sex educator, sex worker, and co-host of the popular podcast Come Curious. In this episode, Reed opens up about her experiences and insights into sex work, body confidence, and intimacy. She shares her journey toward embracing nipple confidence, the challenges of vulva and labia diversity, and how growing up in a “naked family” helped her view normal bodies as healing and empowering. We delve into her private and professional lives, discussing how she balances intimate, private sex with her boyfriend and the content they create for OnlyFans. Reed shares her love for feet and tickle fetishes, breaking down the shame she once felt and how she now embraces her desires—right down to hosting tickle parties in London and experiencing orgasms from unique sensations like tickling or bladder pressure. Reed also reflects on growing up with an autistic mom who was open about sex, the joy and excitement she finds in sex work, and her thoughts on unfair UK laws targeting sex workers. She debunks myths about sex workers, discusses STI stigma and statistics, and opens up about her journey toward sobriety and how it has transformed her sex life, including attending sex parties sober. We also touch on her podcast Come Curious, how she met her co-host Florence (author of This Book Will Make You Feel Something), and how they navigate creative differences. Plus, Reed shares her evolution from being a “size queen” to reevaluating her preferences. Trigger Warning: This episode includes mention of childhood sexual assault. Topics include: Embracing nipple and vulva confidence Balancing sex with your partner vs sex for OnlyFans Growing up in a naked family and its healing effects Reed’s tickle and full bladder fetish UK laws targeting sex workers and their impact STI statistics and breaking down stigmas Sobriety and its effect on her sex life Foot fetish content creation and Reed’s joy in sex work Insights from the Come Curious podcast This episode is a powerful mix of vulnerability, joy, and breaking stigmas about sex, work, and identity. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠https://beducate.me/alexa40

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Genevieve LeJeune, CEO and founder of Skirt Club, a revolutionary space for bisexual women and those curious about exploring their sexuality. Skirt Club has become a global phenomenon, hosting play parties in 36 cities worldwide, empowering women to embrace their desires in a safe and inclusive environment. In this episode, we dive deep into the story of how Skirt Club began as a response to the lack of spaces for bisexual curiosity and how it quickly grew into a vibrant community for women. Genevieve shares what a typical Skirt Club party looks like, how inclusivity is prioritized with clear criteria for who is welcome, and the unique challenges women face when approaching other women in these spaces. We also discuss: The common issues that arise during these parties and how they’re addressed. Why it has been difficult to find women investors to help scale the Skirt Club app. How Skirt Club promotes sexual liberation and creates opportunities for female empowerment. The role of men in Skirt Club’s vision and events. If you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community, curious about female sexuality, or just interested in how women are breaking barriers through sexual exploration, this episode is for you. Join us for a candid conversation about creating safe spaces and empowering bisexual women to embrace their identities. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexasbed

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) dives into the fascinating world of professional domination and kink-aware therapy with Miss Veronica Viper, a seasoned dominatrix and therapist. In this episode, Veronica shares her journey through an unconventional upbringing in different countries, her first experiences with pegging and consensual choking at 16, and how working as a stripper led her to find her true calling as a domme at age 19. We explore her training process, the diverse range of clients she serves—including surprising numbers of women, queer, and non-binary individuals—and the unique custom requests she’s received. Veronica also opens up about her work as a kink-aware therapist, the creative objects she’s used in sessions, and her tips for anyone looking to start their journey in professional domination. Plus, we bond over our shared hatred for overhead lighting and discuss how creating the right environment can make or break an intimate experience. Topics include: How Veronica became a professional dominatrix First-time pegging and exploring kink as a teenager Training as a domme and handling her first clients The unexpected diversity of her clientele Creative tools and methods in her sessions The intersection of therapy and kink awareness Tips for aspiring dominants A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: ⁠ ⁠https://beducate.me/alexa40off

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Zoe Atiko, the creative force behind @reignofsovereignty, a groundbreaking harness fashion movement. Zoe shares her journey from burlesque and hat-making to creating fluid, inclusive designs inspired by her experiences in Berlin.We delve into how Zoe’s queerness and dedication to empowering others shape her work, as well as her philosophy of seeing bodies as monuments and rejecting the idea of imperfections. She explains what it’s like working with her, the meaning behind her movement, and her goal to inspire confidence and comfort in all who wear her designs.Topics include: How Berlin inspired the Reign of Sovereignty movement The evolution from burlesque and hat-making to harness fashion Harness fashion as a tool for empowerment and fluid expression Zoe’s queerness journey and its reflection in her designs Creating safe and comfortable spaces for clients Why bodies are monuments and imperfections don’t existJoin us for an inspiring conversation about fashion, identity, and the power of self-expression.A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 40% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:⁠https://beducate.me/bedwithalexa

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) delves into the world of paid companionship and intimacy with Arik Brückner, CEO and co-founder of CHOICE—a groundbreaking platform designed to provide safe, transparent, and stigma-free services. Arik discusses how CHOICE is redefining an often misunderstood industry, focusing on safety measures like ID verification, behavior guidelines, and post-meeting feedback systems to foster trust between providers and clients. Arik opens up about his entrepreneurial journey, from bootstrapping a SaaS business to its successful exit, to his inspiration for creating CHOICE in Switzerland. We explore the challenges of destigmatizing paid companionship, the ethical considerations involved in building such a platform, and the role of technology in making human connection safer and more accessible.Tune in as we unpack misconceptions about the industry, discuss the importance of open communication, and explore how CHOICE bridges the gap between companionship and meaningful intimacy. If you’re curious about the future of companionship in the digital age, this episode is a must-listen! Topics include: What paid companionship and intimacy really mean- The safety and verification process on CHOICE- Ethical challenges in the intimacy industry Arik’s background and journey to founding CHOICE Destigmatizing conversations about intimacy services How CHOICE is using technology to redefine trust and safety A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/blfalexa

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Emma Sayle, the trailblazing Founder and CEO of Killing Kittens. In this episode, they discuss Emma’s upbringing and her first experiences with sex that helped shape her journey. Emma shares how Killing Kittens was born and what sets it apart as a women-led, sex-positive space. They explore what attendees can expect at a Killing Kittens event, from who is welcome to where play happens and why single men aren’t allowed. Emma also shares exciting details about their upcoming cruise in 2026 and the vision for the future of the Killing Kittens brand. Whether you're curious about attending, want to understand the philosophy behind it, or are fascinated by Emma's journey of empowerment and breaking taboos, this episode is packed with insights you won’t want to miss. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/60alexa

In this episode, Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with award-winning sex educator, trans activist, and author Dee Whitnell to discuss their unique journey through gender identity, activism, and self-discovery. Dee shares their experience growing up queer, their initial hesitation around exploring relationships with vulva-owners, and how they met their partner, a trans man, who helps them navigate safe spaces and supports them on tough body-image days.We discuss Dee’s views on handling hurtful misgendering and how they’ve reached a place where it no longer impacts them as much. Dee also opens up about their advocacy work and the movement “Trans Kids Deserve to Grow Up,” inspired by the alarming rate of trans youth who struggle with societal acceptance.Join us as we explore Dee’s thoughts on separating art from its creator, such as the Harry Potter series, given the transphobic views of J.K. Rowling. Dee also sheds light on the limited rights for non-binary people in the UK and how parents can support children in coming out. Finally, we dive into de-centering penetration in sexual intimacy and why Dee is experiencing some of the best sex of their life.Whether you're interested in allyship, queer terminology, or redefining sexuality, this episode brings a fresh perspective on identity, activism, and love.A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:⁠⁠https://beducate.me/alexablf