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Mentioned in 37 episodes

The All-or-Nothing Marriage

How the Best Marriages Work

Book • 2019

In this book, Eli J. Finkel presents a groundbreaking investigation of marriage, showing that the best marriages today are superior to those of earlier eras.

He combines cutting-edge scientific research with practical advice, discussing the evolution of marriage from providing basic needs like food and shelter to modern expectations of love, companionship, and personal growth.

Finkel introduces 'lovehacks' and strategies for better communication and responsiveness, and offers guidance on recalibrating expectations.

The book is designed for anyone looking to improve their marriage, from newlyweds to empty nesters, and those considering marriage or remarriage.

Mentioned by

Robert Waldinger

William Costello

Mentioned in 37 episodes

Mentioned by

Paul Brunson

as the author of a book discussing the evolution of marriage and the pragmatic, romantic, and self-expression phases.

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Mentioned by Paul Brunson when discussing marriage satisfaction.

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Mentioned by

Esther Perel

when discussing what creates a sense of aliveness in relationships.

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Mentioned by

Louise Perry

when discussing modern marriage expectations.

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Mentioned by

Bari Weiss

as a book about the stages of marriage in American history.

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Mentioned by

Robert Waldinger

, referencing Eli Finkel's work on modern marriage expectations.

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Mentioned by

Vanessa Bohns

while discussing research on third-party perspective-taking in relationships.

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Mentioned by

Eric Barker

in the context of modern marriage, highlighting his research on happy marriages.

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Mentioned by Arthur Brooks, building on

John Delony

's point, as the author of work on marriage and its complexities.

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Mentioned by

William Costello

to illustrate the increasing pressure on marriage to fulfill multiple roles.

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