How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating40:12 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four practical steps to feel more attractive and magnetic than ever. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start dating amazing women.Listen now and transform your confidence!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Confidence is like chocolate, money, and fresh air: You can never have too much of it."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:22 - Empower YourDating Journey: The 4 Pillars of Confidence03:34 - Dating Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Your Worth07:32 - Redefining Attraction: Embracing Your Unique Self08:58 - Belief in Action: Driving Towards Dating Success12:42 - Defying Stereotypes: Embrace Your Unique Qualities15:53 - Empowering Self-Image: Embrace Your Authentic Worth18:40 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically24:16 - Building Abundance: Elevate Your Dating Options28:36 - Thriving with Dating Abundance Mindset31:17 - Letting Go of Outcome and Embracing Process34:31 - Dating with Certainty: Letting Confidence Lead the Way26:13 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt with women, and how to do it with natural confidence and authenticity, to create real connections.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"When you flirt with true authenticity, you're giving women the gift that they most want: the real, best you!".-Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:48 - The Right and Wrong Ways to Communicate with Women03:02 - Waiter Persona: Navigating Over-the-Top Communication06:43 - The Power of Being Present and Genuine09:24 - Avoiding Supplicating Pitfalls: Mastering Dating Channels13:20 - Authentic Attraction: Beyond Supplication and Cockiness17:48 - Genuine Connection over Performative Acts19:14 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically21:12 - Real Talk: Forging Genuine Bonds in Dating23:10 - Building Trust: Authenticity and Shit Detectors24:38 - Breaking Barriers: Honesty and Connection in Dating26:19 - Story Swapping: Crafting Memorable Conversations29:47 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or steely self-confidence when you talk to your crush. Listen now and give women what they REALLY want: a feel-good experience with your most attractive, authentic self.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett "Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell BarretFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters: 00:22 - Introduction01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance37:43 - Outro

So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:05 - Introduction05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro

You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:36 - Introduction01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes22:35 - Outro

Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.Listen now, to make your next date great.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions27:53 - Outro

If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:14 - Introduction04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals22:35 - Fear & Failure: The Road to Dating Success24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence28:34 - Outro

Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:13 - Introduction01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication04:48 - Emotional & Romantic Expressions in Dating07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective33:02 - Outro