How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates.Listen now, and flip the Coin of Self-Assessment, so you can stop hating dating, and start having more fun, more confidence, and more great dates.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Stop judging yourself. Be kind. With every date, you either win or you learn. And learning will lead you to love."-Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:19 - Flipping the Coin of Self-Assessment in Dating Interactions04:38 - The Power of Positive Self-Assessment in Dating06:09 - Confronting the Inner Critic: Battling Self-Judgment in Dating07:30 - Boost Your Confidence and Improve Your Dating Life11:45 - Conquering Self-Doubt: How I Overcame My Inner Critic in Dating12:19 - One Game-Changing Tip for More Genuine Connections15:18 - The Value of Self-Assessment: Unearthing Genuine Emotions16:34 - Cultivating Positive Self-Perception in Dating19:58 - Constructive Self-Assessment: A Crucial Lesson in Dating22:33 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this.In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone into a date-generating machine, listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"No fish photos allowed on your dating profile. She wants to date you, not the captain from 'Jaws."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:28 - Solving Online Dating Struggles: Tips and Tricks05:59 - From Desperation to One Match: A Journey09:03 - Rock Bottom as a Turning Point09:52 - The Marketing Mindset: How Online Dating Really Works11:16 - Dating App Gender Imbalance: Challenges for Men15:06 - Southwest Airlines' Transparency and Marketing Insights17:13 - Cracking the Code: How Women Navigate Dating Apps19:43 - Tinder Filters: Women's Perspective20:30 - Tinder Tips: Engaging with Photos and Bio24:36 - Mastering Online Dating: The Power of Portraits28:42 - Elevating Your Profile: Professional Dating Portraits29:53 - Dress for Success: Outfit Choices in Online Dating31:39 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women.Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Good texts before a date are like movie trailers -- they build buzz and get her excited for the main event."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction00:55 - Transforming Lackluster First Dates into Spark-Filled Connections04:19 - Unlocking the Art of Flirty Texting Before Your First Date08:37 - Creating Excitement with Fun and Engaging Texts11:45 - Building Anticipation: Preparing Her for a Memorable Date14:26 - Light-hearted Delays: Turning Lateness into Playful Banter16:29 - From Jackass to Awesome: How Vulnerable Stories Win Hearts19:25 - "Opening Hearts: The Magic of Raw and Real Storytelling23:10 - Fun and Connection: Games That Elevate First Dates24:51 - The Magic of Eye Contact: Staring Contests and Romance27:31 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going.It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells you how to harness the power of decisive action, so that you can make the kind of bold, attractive moves that women love.Listen now to become a man of action… and find your future girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"To go from feeling lonely to finding love, use your secret weapon: decisive, courageous action"- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction01:20 - The Power of Decision: Overcoming Uncomfortable Actions04:20 - Encouraging the Leap into Uncomfortable Territory08:37 - The Power of Taking That First Step: James' Success Story11:29 - James' Approach: Facing Discomfort Head-On14:35 - Conquering Approach Anxiety for Fearless Dating19:28 - How I Went from Shying Away to Taking Romantic Risks22:49 - Redefining Dating: Stepping Up to Take Risks24:52 - Dancing with Confidence: A Fearless Dating Experiment26:22 - Fearless Dating: Making Decisions That Change Everything28:46 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch!And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date.No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 7 tested ways to confidently go for—and get!—that first kiss with a woman, in a romantic way she’ll love. Plus, he reveals how to know when you have the green light make your move, as a true gentleman.If you want your next date to end with a steamy make-out, then listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“You likely won't lose her interest by going for a kiss and not getting it. You WILL lose if you want to kiss her but you let fear stop you from trying." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 – Introduction01:46 - The First Kiss: Key to Progressing Romantically03:26 - The Magic of First Kiss Moments in Dating07:06 - Overcoming Doubt and Finding the Confidence to Kiss08:54 - Regret and Redemption: Making Up for Missed Moments12:19 - Turning Sparks into Flames: The First Kiss Strategy14:44 - Reading Her Signals: When to Go for the Kiss17:56 - Making the Right Move: When to Lean In20:39 - Boldness Pays Off: The Impact of a Confident Kiss25:19 - Going After What You Want: Doug's First Kiss Story35:12 - Avoiding the Annoying Make-Out Couple Trap37:16 - Balancing Passion and Temptation: The Kiss Frequency39:07 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence.Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares some of his favorite ways to make sparks fly with women, whether you’re on a first date, chatting at a social event, or texting your latest crush. Tired of getting stuck in the Friend Zone? Listen now and get in the Flirting Zone!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Speak your deepest, most honest truth. Women love it when a man has the courage to be authentic." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 – Introduction01:06 - Attraction Mastery: Man to Woman Communication03:21 - Navigating the Friend-to-Friend Channel on Dates07:04 - Breaking Free from Transactional Interactions10:06 - Unexpected Charm: When Wit Takes the Lead14:01 - The Magic of Emotional Nakedness in Dating18:10 - Playful Banter: Flipping the Seduction Script22:02 - The Charismatic Pathway: Using Stories to Connect24:52 - First Date Gold: Choosing the Right Embarrassing Story26:53 - Your Best Dating Weapon: Self-Deprecating Stories28:12 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good.The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shows you how the “3 Times Rule” can get a girl to go from ghosting you to dating. So listen now.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"The 3 Times Rule will get attractive women to stop ghosting you and to start chasing you."- Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:01 - Ending Ghosting and Getting More Dates06:59 - Navigating Rejection with Resilience in the Dating Scene08:41 - Turning Setbacks into Comebacks13:23 - The Art of Fun Approaching: A Story of Resilience17:54 - The Crucial Role of Resilience in Dating and Life20:02 - Gerald's Resilience: From Flat to Flirty22:53 - Overcoming Addiction: A Client's Journey to Fitness27:39 - Texting Challenges: Resilience and Charm in Dating34:39 - The 'Three Strikes' Rule: Mastering Dating Persistence37:14 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women.Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women.In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett helps you smash out of the toxic “man box” you may be trapped in, so you can be free to express your most authentic, masculine and also feminine self.It’s time to ignore toxic “pickup” creeps and embrace your best, most authentic self. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes“Vulnerability is being so unwilling to NOT look cool that a woman thinks, 'Wow, this guy is SO cool!' - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:20 - Introduction03:03 - How Masculine and Feminine Energies Fuel Attraction07:07 - The Dream Combo: Being Strong Yet Soft in Love and Life09:43 - The Power of Kindness: Why Compassion is the New Sexy12:37 - Beyond the Alpha Male Stereotype14:29 - Why Women Love a Man of Many Sides19:10 - The Courage to Not Care How Manly You Look26:13 - Cultivating Emotional Depth in Relationships21:08 - Coping With Disappointment and Finding Humor in It30:56 - Outro

Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off26:27 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com

It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactGET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3Quotes"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell BarrettFeatured in the episodeConnell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating TransformationWebsite: https://datingtransformation.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformationChapters00:00 - Introduction03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating40:12 - OutroProduced by Heartcast Mediahttps://www.heartcastmedia.com