Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University
After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.What You'll Learn:What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)Communication and boundary strategies that actually workHonest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and eventsHow to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamicsPractical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationshipsFeatured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.Tap Follow and join thousands of couples exploring the lifestyle with confidence. .Connect with Us:Spicy Extras & Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityWebsite & Newsletter: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll Links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityshowBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity
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Dec 27, 2019 • 53min
Unicorn Interview with Alexa - She Does What She's Told
Want to send us a message? We interview Alexa (because she does what she's told...), a lifestyle Unicorn. She will be sharing how she got started swinging, provide advice for the lifestyle, sharing her experiences and advice as well as some funny stories! SHOW NOTES:Frisky Unicorn – How to Get Started The Glitter Life of a Unicorn Regulars v. One-timersHow to Find a Couple Caged v. FreeRules of the Unicorn HornThe Dark Side of the Horn SafetyUnicorn Advice Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Dec 13, 2019 • 45min
Behind the Scenes of the Most Controversial Resort in Costa Rica
Want to send us a message? Ed and Phoebe document their first trip together out of the country and to a clothing optional, swinger resort! Come join the sexy swinger fun with Swinger University at a swinger resort takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica. Show NotesPreparation and PackingTravel Day - Oh My!Naked Swinger ResortThe JungleFabulous FoodPlayroom and the Toys!Sex at the PoolIncluded ExcursionsPool GamesHot Fun! Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Nov 29, 2019 • 1h 12min
Discover the Thrilling History of Swinging in Northern California!
Want to send us a message? An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle, with a combined experience of 50 years, documenting the history of swinging in the Northern California area, the fun, the challenges and the long term rewards. Show NotesHistory of swinging in the Northern California area over the past 40 years. TrendsChangesHow Gino & Ginger got started in the lifestyle.Stories: challenges and rewards.Advice Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Nov 15, 2019 • 39min
Halloween Swinger Hotel Takeover 2019
Want to send us a message? A review on a fabulous time at the biggest swinger Halloween Party in Northern California. Two nights of on-premise play with 800 sexy swingers having fun! Join us for dancing, swinging, sexy and sensual swinger lifestyle experiences. SHOW NOTES:Halloween Swinger PartyTwo Nights of Fun Pajama PartyHalloween PartyUnpredictable Play DatesSexy Times Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Nov 1, 2019 • 45min
Swinger Dating vs. Hit It and Quit
Want to send us a message? Dating couples in the swing lifestyle has advantages and disadvantages. Some couples prefer to hit and quit. Depending on your swing style, dating as a couple is more challenging than dating as a single person, because the dynamics are four times as complex. Getting four people to agree on a date, show up, experience a great vibe all around, and be on the same page…well, it gets complicated! Whether you put in the time or not, couple dating can be rewarding and so can hit and quit depending on your swinging taste.SHOW NOTESAdvantages to DatingBetter SexTips for SuccessTime ConsumingFirst Date - Never at you houseDisadvantages to Dating Off NightNo VibeHit and Miss One Night StandCheck ListHall PassHit and QuitGratitude and Thanks Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Oct 18, 2019 • 1h 26min
Adam & Belle Spill Their Tea on the Swinger Scene!
Want to send us a message? An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle since 2009 sharing how they started swinging, their funny stories about the lifestyle, advice and changes they have seen over time.Show NotesHow Adam & Belle got started in the lifestyle.Play style, boundaries, and how it changed over time.Funny storiesAdviceChanges seen in the lifestyle over time.Straight men comfortable with bi experiences.Trends: drug use, singles, culture, respect, diversity, taboo. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Oct 4, 2019 • 41min
Swinger Party Communication Skills
Want to send us a message? Have you communicated about how you are communicating for an event? We will cover pre-event communication, pep talk, non-verbal and verbal communication and signals. We share some of our favorite exit phrases we have heard over time and talk about how important it is to have a post-event conversation.Show Notes Pre-event Preparation CommunicationPre-event Pep TalkNon-Verbal SignalsVerbal PhrasesMissed Communication SignalsNon-verbal CommunicationPost-event Wrap-up Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Sep 20, 2019 • 57min
Anything But Clothes Swinger Party
Want to send us a message? A review of one of the fabulous swinger events in Northern California. A unique, sexy and sensual swing lifestyle experience that draws new and long-time swingers for dancing, and on-premise play.Getting Ready: "The first part about getting ready for any event whether a drink date or party, is to primp, prune and pluck." Setting the Scene: The Hotel and Event description Fun & Sexy Things: How our night went and some of the fun we had#allureslifestyle Show NotesABC Party: Hotel EventHandsome and Beautiful: Days in Advance! Get to Know Your NeighborsStaycation: Arrive EarlySetting the Scene: Dance, Boom Boom Room, S&M AreaSecurity/Safety/PrivacySexy Fun People Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Sep 6, 2019 • 59min
What REALLY Happens at Swinger Parties: The Honest Truth
Want to send us a message? In today's course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event. We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow. Attending your first swing event can be terrifying, exciting and fun. You will learn more about yourself and each other with each swinger event. So, cum inside….it's class time!Show NotesCost of Swinger Events: Clubs, House Parties, HotelThe Cost of Looking Good: Hair, Nails, Waxing, Tanning, Gym MembershipSitters, Uber and Hotel Our First Event: Yay Orgy!Expectations v. Reality: Going with the FlowSpontaneous v. PlannedSet BoundariesHave A PlanWork the Room!Language and RulesReconnectingAfterglow Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Aug 23, 2019 • 46min
What Really Goes Down at a Swinger House Party
Want to send us a message? A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends. We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another bed with some of our favorite sexy, swinger friends! We will describe the environment and re-create the mood to bring you into this fabulous swinger party!Show NotesHow We Met: Ken, Barbie, Greg and MarshaHouse Party InviteFun In The BedroomFun On The CouchesCoffee and Morning Sausage!Beers & Brats! Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
