

Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University
After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.What You'll Learn:What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)Communication and boundary strategies that actually workHonest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and eventsHow to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamicsPractical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationshipsFeatured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.Tap Follow and join thousands of couples exploring the lifestyle with confidence. .Connect with Us:Spicy Extras & Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityWebsite & Newsletter: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll Links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityshowBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity
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Aug 9, 2019 • 56min
Best Swinger Apps and Sites: Tools for Connecting With Other Couples
Want to send us a message? In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers. We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful of swinger dating apps. These technologies, some of them geared specifically to swingers, offer a great way to get in-touch and stay connected with other people in the swing lifestyle. However, they do have their share of hiccups, and we share some stories about our adventures with virtual people.SHOW NOTESSwinger Site Email: Pros v. ConsSwinger Site Chat Rooms: Pros v. ConsSwinger Chat Apps: Kik, MeWe, etc.Swinger Dating Apps: Bumble, 3-Fun, etc.Text MessagingGoogle Images & PicFind Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jul 26, 2019 • 50min
Other Uses for Your Tongue - How To Talk To Swingers
Want to send us a message? Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle. How should you handle communications? Do you have a primary communicator? What is too much, or not enough? How do you switch from being a passive communicator to active?Swinging, just like dating is an approach game, knowing how to approach another couple and close the deal. This episode will help with those awkward swinger moments where you don't know how to turn someone down. Or more importantly how to pick someone up. We cover communication styles and etiquette, letting someone down, and how to close the deal.SHOW NOTESPrimary Communicator v. Group CommunicationGroup Fun!A lot v. A little Communication GhostingPassive CommunicationActive CommunicationAcknowledgeDeclineCounterFollow ThroughClosing The Deal! Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jul 12, 2019 • 51min
Talking Through Swinger Insecurities and Fears
Want to send us a message? Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship. With swingers it's critical, not only for your success in the lifestyle, but also for the success of your relationship. We talk about rules, topics, insecurities and fears in the communication process.SHOW NOTESThe Ideal ConversationRules of CommunicationLet's Talk About SexFears & Insecurities Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jun 28, 2019 • 18min
How to Build Your Dating or Swinger Profile
Want to send us a message? Your swinger profile, or your dating profile, will either make or break your chances with prospective play partners. . We have some tips for putting together a first-class profile that should make a great first impression. So sharpen your pencils, sit back, take some notes... It's class time!SHOW NOTESPurpose Of An Online PresenceThe Right Swinger Site For YouTo Swinger App Or Not Detailed DescriptionPreferencesPhotos - CurrentUpdate OftenProfiles, Profiles, Profiles Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jun 21, 2019 • 1h 18min
Bliss Cruise Review - Spring 2019
Want to send us a message? Today’s elective course is about the April 2019 Bliss Swinger Cruise. We’ll talk about what to expect, what to bring, and some sexy stories. Grab your sunscreen cause its a hot one. Let’s get sailing...SHOW NOTESBliss Swinger CruiseWhat to Bring Other Than ClothesWhat to ExpectMeet and GreetsDemonstrationsPool Parties and GamesPlayrooms: Types, Mood, Cleanliness, ProvisionsDining with Others Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jun 14, 2019 • 47min
The Pleasures & Pitfalls of Swinging
Want to send us a message? This episode discusses some of the benefits and downsides of the swinging lifestyle to help you figure out your reasons for joining in the fun. SHOW NOTESPleasures of Swinging: communicationmore sextechniquesbondingfunsex positionsconfidenceexperiencesexplorationemotional challenges.Pitfalls of Swinging flakesover indulgencedrugsemotional challengesanonymitydisappointmentexpectationsbad sex Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jun 7, 2019 • 51min
Swinger Terminology: The Complete Glossary of Lifestyle Terms
Want to send us a message? We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help spice up this lesson.While you could go searching across the internet for the definitions to these, we bring them to you in a nice delicious package.Here are just a few of the terms we cover:Vanilla Hunting UnicornCuckoldCuckqueenBi-curiousPlaySoft SwapFull SwapDTFKissing RuleSame RoomHall PassVoyeurismBarebacking Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

May 31, 2019 • 29min
How to Talk to Your Partner About Swinging: A Step-by-Step Guide
Want to send us a message? In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We'll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion has a positive impact on your relationship. Ideally, a good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up are necessary. We'll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation such as using porn, hints, turn-ons/kinks, or even podcasts 😉. We emphasize that this conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It's important to be empathetic, reassuring, and to listen to your partner's response, whether it's a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you're not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?Show NotesHow Do You Have That First Conversation?I'm Afraid To Say What I Am ThinkingWhat's Your "In"?Communicate, Communicate, CommunicateListening Skills Are CriticalBeing Okay With "No" Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

May 31, 2019 • 22min
Thinking about Swinging? Reasons To Swing
Want to send us a message? If you’ve ever thought about swinging and nonmonogamy you’re not alone. In this episode we discuss some of the many reasons couples begin their journey into this alternative lifestyle or hobby. Whether you’re just starting to think about swinging, or have been in the lifestyle for a while we hope that everyone will learn something new. SHOW NOTESHow Do People Get Into the Lifestyle? 20+ year relationship v. new relationshipSpicing it up – kids goneNo other sexual partners – desire for moreBeing bi: women/men – filling in the gapFix the marriage – not recommendedSexually adventurous peopleNon-Monogamy Feels NormalPleasing Others is ThrillingFlirtingLearning New Techniques Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

May 31, 2019 • 10min
Campus Orientation: A brief intro to the Swinger University podcast
Want to send us a message? Welcome to the Swinger University! Ready to learn? We're eager to pass on our experience and help you get a head start! Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.


