

Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University
After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.What You'll Learn:What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)Communication and boundary strategies that actually workHonest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and eventsHow to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamicsPractical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationshipsFeatured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.Tap Follow and join thousands of couples exploring the lifestyle with confidence. .Connect with Us:Spicy Extras & Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityWebsite & Newsletter: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll Links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityshowBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity
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Dec 11, 2020 • 34min
Crossing The Line in The Lifestyle
Want to send us a message? How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after. SHOW NOTES: Why Does It Happen? Uninhibited: chemical, libations, hormones Miscommunication: verbal, non-verbal, codes Not on the same page: conservative, enthusiastic Temptations by another Unconsidered situation Innocent reason Nefarious reason Unknown reaction How Do You Come Back? Growing Opportunity Compassion Communication Responsibility Appreciation Re-establish trust: understanding, step-back, reconnect, communicate, patience, needs, new rules, clarity, priorities Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Nov 13, 2020 • 33min
How To Get A Second Swinger Date
Want to send us a message? How do you get a second swinger date with a couple? We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident!SHOW NOTES:Post Game Wrap-UpTimingFormula: Texting & IRLExamples: IRL, Cruise, Hotel TakeoverFollow Up Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Oct 23, 2020 • 32min
Condoms for your Lifestyle Fun
Want to send us a message? Not all condoms are safe for every BODY. We discuss how condoms are different in regards to: additives, chemicals, latex sensitivities, lubricants, flavors, colors, and sharing! Condoms in the lifestyle tend to be plentiful, and sometimes free, but are they right for you!SHOW NOTES:Types of CondomsFemaleMaleSpermicidesLatex vs. Non-LatexSizesLubricationSharing Sustain Natural Ultra-ThinLOLA Ultra-Thin LubricatedDurex Real Feel Avanti Bare Polyisoprene NonlatexLifeStyles SKYN Original Nonlatex CondomLifeStyles SKYN Extra Lubricated Nonlatex CondomsTrojan Natural Lamb skin to Skin Latex-Free CondomFC2 Internal CondomGLYDE Ultra Thin PremiumLovability CondomsUnique Plus Latex-FreeTop Rated Condoms Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Oct 9, 2020 • 37min
15 Reasons Swinging is Better than Dating
Want to send us a message? Everyone likes to rave about single life, especially after getting out of a long-term relationship. We decided to flip this around and offer 15 reasons why staying together, but swinging is better than a single life. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Sep 25, 2020 • 1h 1min
Desire Resort Research: Temptations vs. Desire Maya vs. Desire Pearl Compared
Want to send us a message? A review on Swinger Resorts: Temptations, Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl. This review compares and contrasts the differences between the resorts by: demographic, food, entertainment, cost, resort size and percentage of swinger opportunity.SHOW NOTES:TemptationsDesire - Riviera MayaDesire - Pearl Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Sep 11, 2020 • 48min
The Allure of Masturbation Revealed!
Want to send us a message? Masturbation is normal, natural and integral to our health and well-being. This episode covers the importance of masturbation, sharing it with your partner and addressing some of the negative perspectives in society. We also share some interesting stories of masturbation while swinging and historical facts you will find fascinating!SHOW NOTESWhy Do It?Who Does It?Negative Perspectives in SocietyInteresting FactsMasturbation While Swinging Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Aug 28, 2020 • 34min
Find Your Perfect Night Out Look: Top Women's Club Wear Picks!
Want to send us a message? Clothes make the swinger... Swingers love to dress up and dress sexy! We discuss the why swingers love it, where to get it, and how to get comfortable wearing nothing but tape or paint!SHOW NOTES:Sexy Outfits Are NecessaryComfort LevelWhere to Shop https://www.venus.com/default.aspxhttps://www.yandy.com/https://warriorwithindesigns.com/collections/new-arrivalshttps://badstarlove.bigcartel.com/https://www.electriqueboutique.com/https://www.lingeriediva.com/http://seductionextreme.com/https://www.3wishes.com/sexy-costumes/https://www.hunkemoller.co.uk/https://www.milanoo.com/https://www.fashionnova.com/https://www.aliexpress.comhttps://www.wickedweasel.com Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Aug 7, 2020 • 59min
Ladies - More Than Just Your Mouth... Please!
Want to send us a message? Learning how to perform fellatio that both people enjoy depends on good communication with your partner, body comfort, education, techniques, an open mind, and enthusiasm! We have combined years of experience, notes, books, research, blogs and chatroom information here for your listening pleasure. Just remember…. A blow job is so much more than just putting it in your mouth. SHOW NOTESBlowjob? Why?Do What Feels Good To YouCommunication Set the MoodCleanlinessFlavor of Cum = DietManscapingGag ReflexPreparation PositionTeasingTechniquesGetting Started Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jul 24, 2020 • 30min
Discover the Ultimate Tips to Safeguard Your Swinging Secret!
Want to send us a message? How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you're bound to trip up, and there's a better way. We help you come up with an alibi and share our 5 tips on talking about your adventures in swinging without outing yourself.SHOW NOTES:People IN your businessQuestions from co-workers/friends/familyExamples for each scenarioOur 5 TipsTIPS Take vanilla photos to share with friends and family.Schedule some vanilla activities.Stay close to the truth - fine line.Get your story straight (Think about your alibi ahead of time.)Know your connection. (Person/couple you are talking about.) Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jul 10, 2020 • 43min
Kissing is SO Good
Want to send us a message? The benefits of kissing…not only is it good for your health, increase connection with your partner, kick things off in the bedroom, it may also help you pick your next swing partner! We cover fun facts, why people kiss and 5 kissing techniques.SHOW NOTESFun FactsHealth AspectsTechniquesReasons We KissBook: The Art of Kissing by William CaneInterview: NPR with William Cane and Alex Chadwick where William talks about the Liposuction Kiss. https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=1484903Bonus! Here are the results of our kissing survey: Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.


