

Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University
After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.What You'll Learn:What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)Communication and boundary strategies that actually workHonest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and eventsHow to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamicsPractical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationshipsFeatured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.Tap Follow and join thousands of couples exploring the lifestyle with confidence. .Connect with Us:Spicy Extras & Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityWebsite & Newsletter: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll Links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityshowBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity
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Jul 23, 2021 • 40min
BV and the "Whiff" Test - Bacterial Vaginosis in the Lifestyle
Want to send us a message? BV or Bacterial Vaginosis. It's a highly transmittable vaginal infection that you don't want to get while swinging. This episode covers: how to perform the "whiff" test, BV risks, why it occurs, contributing factors, things that help and how to get rid of it. SHOW NOTES:Whiff TestWhat is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)BV FactsWhy Does it OccurThings that Contribute to BVItems that Help your pHHow to Get Rid of BVGet Out of a Play SituationBacterial Vaginosis: https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/bacterial-vaginosisBacterial Vaginosis: https://www.cdc.gov/std/tg2015/bv.htm5 Fall Foods That Support Vaginal Health: https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/5-fall-foods-that-support-vaginal-healthProbiotics For Women's pH Balance: https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/probiotics-for-women-s-ph-balanceHow To Maintain A Healthy Vaginal pH: https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/vaginal-ph-balance#maintaining-vaginal-healthProbiotics for Vaginal Health: https://www.todaysdietitian.com/newarchives/0519p30.shtmlEffect of a Yoghurt Drink Containing Lactobacillus Strains on Bacterial Vaginosis in women: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29065710/ Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jul 9, 2021 • 32min
Dating Red Flags
Want to send us a message? In this episode we talk about "those" couples you want to avoid having sex with for the first time ...or ever again. We reveal some "red flags" that may pop up while getting to know them or even after you had sex with them. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jun 18, 2021 • 48min
Sexy Dating Profile Photos
Want to send us a message? Looking to boost your profile on any dating site? Take better pictures for your spouse? Get more Instagram followers? We have some tips for you!SHOW NOTES:Look natural, but composed Fun is sexySmileEnthusiasmFlirty not SluttyTechniques LightingTripodGet relaxedPosesDemonstrateSetting the moodAnonymityNO… Not that! These are things you should avoid References:https://www.brit.co/how-to-pose-for-photos/https://expertphotography.com/boudoir-poses/https://www.shootproof.com/blog/boudoir-photo-poses/ - Some great posesBoudoir Photography: Flow PosingHow to get a good bed photo Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

May 14, 2021 • 54min
Interview with Sexologist Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb
Want to send us a message? Interview with Certified Sex Therapist and Sexuality Coach, Rhoda Lipscomb! We talk about the unspoken Issue of erections challenges in men and orgasming with your swing partner. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Apr 30, 2021 • 43min
Scam Dating Sites
Want to send us a message? Follow us down the rabbit hole as we expose scam dating sites. Whether you're single or a swinger this episode may just save you a lot of suffering and time on the phone with your credit card company. Listen in as we walk through some great techniques for checking to see if the dating site you're about to sign up with may in fact be a scam. Show Notes:Rabbit hole of deceit!100 Sites of doom...What looks good may be really bad...Right clicky thing - "Search Google for image"Scam tracking siteshttps://datingspot24.com/tag/scam/Be aware of these companies:VodFunPayCintiletBlue Mouse LimitedDesdemona LimitedHubPeopleAugustine LimitedNetFanPix LimitedSOL Networks Limited Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Apr 2, 2021 • 40min
Loud and Proud or Just Plain Rude at a Swinger Party?
Want to send us a message? In this episode we respond to a listener email about loud orgasms and squirting at swinger events. Along with some of our tips, pros and cons we threw in a few stories. We want all our listeners to become more comfortable if you're a little vocal in the orgasm department, or you like it when sex gets wetter. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Mar 5, 2021 • 26min
The Three 'C's of Swinging
Want to send us a message? The 3 C's of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending a party.SHOW NOTES:Connecting / CourtingHomeSwinger PartyHotel - Planned v. SpontaneousRules / PreferencesCommunicatingCourtesy Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Feb 19, 2021 • 1h 6min
How to Give Great Cunnilingus: The Ultimate Guide to Going Down
Want to send us a message? Well, ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is… The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. Gentleman, get out your pencils and notebooks, it's time to brush up on your licking technique. SHOW NOTES: Why Have Oral Sex? Risks of Oral Sex Basics of Cunnilingus Vulva Anatomy Cunnilingus Communication Cunnilingus Positions Cunnilingus Techniques Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jan 29, 2021 • 29min
DTF or FWB - Let's Unpack This!
Want to send us a message? In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF. Friends With Benefits (FWB)Down To Foxy (DTF)The Nirvana of the LifestylePros and Cons of FWB v. DTF Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Jan 1, 2021 • 25min
Stamina Expectations and What Can I Do?
Want to send us a message? In this episode we discuss a few questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we've got a few tips to keep your "head" in the game…We address stamina expectations in the lifestyle, how to lengthen your stamina and how to take a break without disrupting the mood.What are the expectations for stamina while playing?How do you deal with recuperation time?What if I literally need to take a break?How can I lengthen my stamina? Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.


