Sex for Saints
Amanda Louder
As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
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Feb 7, 2025 • 15min
Episode 355 - Sexual Shame in Men
Dive into the depths of sexual shame in men, a powerful and often overlooked emotion. Discover how societal norms and upbringing influence this internal struggle, shaping attitudes towards sexuality. Explore how this shame manifests differently for men compared to women and its impact on intimacy and performance. The discussion also offers valuable strategies for healing, emphasizing the importance of awareness, therapy, and open conversations to foster healthier relationships and self-acceptance.
Jan 31, 2025 • 10min
Episode 354 - Preparing for Valentine's Day
Tips for shifting expectations and preparing your mind, body, and heart for connection. Clear communication strategies to avoid mismatched hopes. Practical self-care, visualization, and movement to spark desire. Ways to create emotional safety and small thoughtful acts that invite intimacy. Plans for meaningful solo celebration if your partner is not participating.
Jan 24, 2025 • 10min
Episode 353 - Unconditional Love in Marriage
Conversation explores what unconditional love in marriage actually means and how it differs from parent-child love. It contrasts acceptance with tolerating harmful behavior and highlights enforcing boundaries for safety. Topics include addressing emotional neglect, when love must be conditional, nurturing self-love, and balancing grace, accountability, and intimacy.
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Jan 17, 2025 • 12min
Episode 352 - Prolonging Arousal for Men
Discover fascinating techniques for men to prolong arousal and enhance intimacy during intimate moments. The discussion covers practical tips, medication options, and natural remedies. Delve into the psychological barriers that can hinder enjoyment and learn how to overcome them. This conversation promises to elevate your sexual experience and make every moment count!
Jan 10, 2025 • 19min
Episode 351 - Why Is She Not Attracted To Me?
A deep look at why attraction can fade in long-term relationships. It contrasts checking boxes with energetic presence. The conversation exposes validation-seeking and nice guy patterns that unintentionally repel. Practical shifts toward mature, grounded masculine energy and concrete actions to rebuild magnetism are outlined.
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Jan 3, 2025 • 12min
Episode 350 - The Difference Between Sexuality and Eroticism
A discussion about how sexuality differs from eroticism and why imagination and intention matter. Practical examples show how simple acts can shift from routine to alive. Tips on reviving curiosity, playfulness, and daily touches to rebuild connection in long-term relationships.
Dec 27, 2024 • 13min
Episode 349 - Objectifying Your Spouse
A conversation about desire and how longing can energize long-term relationships. They explore what counts as objectifying versus celebrating a partner. The discussion covers balancing physical compliments with emotional praise and using touch and consent to show attraction. Cultural conditioning and communication tips for speaking desire are also highlighted.
Dec 20, 2024 • 16min
Episode 348 - Sexual Surrendering
A conversation about what sexual surrender means and how to choose vulnerability in marriage. Practical examples show dropping routines, expectations, and performance pressure. Discussion covers letting go of judgment, boundaries of consent, and common obstacles like fear or trauma. Tips offered for gently encouraging a resistant partner and building trust over time.
Dec 13, 2024 • 13min
Episode 347 - Sexual Introverts vs Sexual Extroverts
They compare how introverts and extroverts approach sex, from preparation versus spontaneity to differing energy needs. They outline common friction in mixed pairings and the emotional toll of mismatched desires. Practical adaptations and routines are offered to bridge gaps. The conversation ends by celebrating how honoring differences can strengthen a marriage.
Dec 6, 2024 • 20min
Episode 346 - How To Get More Connection
Connection is vital in marriage, serving as the glue that holds couples together through ups and downs. The discussion emphasizes practical strategies for improving intimacy across different dimensions—physical, emotional, and spiritual. Techniques for setting mutual goals and sharing interests can strengthen bonds, while open communication enhances emotional connections. There's also a spotlight on the benefits of seeking professional support to navigate relationship challenges, fostering deeper understanding and closeness.
