Remodeled Love

In this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicious new elements to her relationship with her boyfriend...and quite possibly the most exciting development ever for Joe. The episode ends with Joe sharing his existential dread around the nature of higher ed, and Jes and Joe answer a lister question about seeking clarity in a relationship. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam.  There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training or accreditation for "coaches", the charging of money, etc.  But how does peer support actually work? Jes and Sam break down their backgrounds, how they personally show up in the peer support space, the issues they come across, how peer support makes these essential services accessible and inclusive, and why it's essential for anyone offering peer support to know their scope and have a fall out plan.  *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In this episode of Remodeled, Jes chats with a brilliant and diverse group of polyamorous men, some of whom you may recognize as popular content creators in the polyamorous digital sphere. Joining Mr. Daylover at the table is our good friend Wade (remember him from Season 1??), Albert of @Polymananswers & @Albah.Love (and Jes' comet partner in Sacramento), and Bear of @Bear.n.Fifi. Jes asks the guys what they've noticed as polyamorous men, as well as polyam peer support specialists, around the struggles of polyamorous and poly-curious men to recognize, feel, process, and receive help around the emotions that dudes must confront on this path. The group dives deep into some vulnerable and powerful intersectionalities, and unpack some of their own, deepest emotional struggles.  Topics covered include: toxic masculinity, race, sobriety, trans identities, demisexuality, bisexuality, power, control, fear, insecurity, and white supremacy, just to name a few.  This episode is a must-listen for, well, everyone. But especially for Dudes and anyone who loves them. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers enjoy deliciously upscale recording accommodations and talk about their new book, "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children". They offer a brief overview of their new book, and share a little of the behind-the-scenes process. Jes also shares some show feedback--mainly that folks really enjoy the episodes between the two of them, and Jes promises to return to more of a balance between those types of episodes and the interview style episodes featuring special guests (she still has 6 fantastic interviews on the back-burner she needs to get out, though...). They also introduce their new format for episodes featuring just the two of them: I. What's new with Remodeled Love (in this episode: their new e-book, and "Dudes with Feelings": a support group for polyamorous men) II. The Hot Goss (reflections on their respective love lives) III. ETIBHL ("Existential Thoughts I've Been Having Lately". In this episode: Jes talks about the housing crisis, and (CW) Joe talks briefly about gun violence).  IV: Dear Flabby (the advice column portion of their show where they answer a listener question. In this episode they answer a question about how to handle "moodiness" from your partner when you're getting ready to go on a date.) This episode is very funny, and informative, and they hope you enjoy it. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In this episode Jes chats with @coach_shor on the intersections of compulsory monogamy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory cis-ness, and fatphobia. And, as always, they dive into the semiotics of it all. Sponsor for this episode is the good folks from Beducated!: Click here or copy past this link (http://beducate.me/pd2206-remodeled-couples) to receive 65% off a yearly subscription, locked in for life! #RedefineFamily #RedefineLove #RemodeledLove ••• 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In this episode, Jes and Joe catch you the fuck up on their polyamorous lives. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE THEY GOT BACK ON THE APPS! They share some exciting new connections, some tragic lessons, and a hilarious anecdote that only polyamorous parents can truly understand. 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com

The podcast discusses the journey of a couple evolving into a non-sexual, polyamorous marriage. They explore the factors behind their evolution, such as asexual feelings, postpartum motherhood, and long-term relationships. They emphasize that their evolution does not represent all polyamorous married couples and share why they chose to stay married. The podcast also delves into the concept of non-sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and negotiating sex and desire in a polyamorous marriage. They express gratitude for their supportive community and encourage listeners to join.

Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers, a content creator and critic of the polyamorous community, discusses her backstory, polyamory origin story, and critiques of the community. They also talk about the challenges of being an artist in a space driven by likes and the importance of diverse voices in the polyamorous community.

[CW: Brief mentions of trauma, intimate partner violence, and sexual violence] In this episode, Jes chats with fellow Instagram content creator, Sydney Rae Chin. Sydney (they/she) identifies as a queer, non-binary, East Asian, anti-capitalist femme. They talk Sydney's critique of the social media space: the entrepreneurial culture, the problematic nature with some of the Polyam content creators, the lack of consent found in the space, and also what Sydney calls the "Survivorship Industrial Complex".  Sydney is stepping away from IG for a while, but you should follow them anyway @SydneyRaeChin. Additionally, you can tip them for their brilliance on Venmo @Sydney_Rae, and make sure to read their blog at sydneyraechin.com/blog. *** >> www.remodeledlove.com >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove >> Instagram: @remodeledlove >> Twitter: @remodeledLove >> TikTok: @HomesliceProductions 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS: Homeslice Productions

Dr. Antonia, a clinical psychologist specializing in ADHD and relationships, discusses the correlations between Polyamory and ADHD. They explore how ADHD impacts attraction to polyamory, difficulties in managing relationships, and the importance of understanding these connections. The podcast delves into topics like time management, polysaturation, and the need for novelty in relationships, shedding light on the challenges and dynamics of polyamory for individuals with ADHD.