Remodeled Love

In this episode Jessica, Joe, and Dr. M discuss all the big and new changes in the polycule, regrets they have as content creators, and the fuckery of ignorant ass people. You can hear the rest of this episode and support Remodeled Love by joining our Patreon at www.patreon.com/remodeledlove. Plus you'll receive 3 years of exclusive content when you join! You can also subscribe on Spotify to receive access to all the exclusive podcast episode.

I've been waiting so freakin' long to tell y'all that, after 43 years of monogamous marriage, my in-laws (Dr. M's parents), have discovered the joys of swinging...and now they're both big ol' bisexual sluts having the time of their lives—in their 70s! And they sat down with me and my husband in our recording studio and spilled all the tea on their adventures, how they got here, and the expansion and growth it's required. Prepare yourself for an episode that's somehow as pumpkiny as it is DIRTY, and most especially, semiology expanding. *** Support us on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, ⁠⁠⁠Nuclear Fusion⁠⁠⁠, and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like ⁠⁠⁠Rituals for Connection⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠The Reluctant Polyamorist⁠⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love⁠⁠ on our ⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF RITUALS FOR CONNECTION

Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about:  *what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners), *what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgment, learning to pause...), *what Jes is learning in polyamory, which she breaks down to what she is learning through each of her partners:     >>with Joe: are we "just" gay best friends?      >>with Dr. M: learning to lean into my fear of my partner's expansion, which is really just fear of my own,     >>with Loverboy: (GASP. WHO IS LOVERBOY?? Find out inside this episode!) Most heatedly, they talk about the dreadful art of "Downplaying" after Joe accuses Jes of downplaying her connection with Loverboy. Downplaying in polyamory can be a really contentious topic. Downplaying can be: pretending that new connections don’t have a sexual or romantic vibe when they actually do, dampening one's excitement or hope about a new connection, dampening how you actually feel about a new connection, downplaying the possibilities of what may come, etc... This convo gets real and honest as fuck, and we're excited to bring y'all into the room with us and how we work through conflict/call each other out on our bullshit. Hear the rest of this episode, and receive access to all our exclusive episodes plus 2+ years worth of exclusive content on our Patreon: www.patreon.com/remodeledlove.

On this episode, the hosts talk about Ash's affair, qualifying for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and their favorite punctuation marks. They also discuss parenting, sex parties, and village growing pains.

This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.) It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at half mast in the preview photo, what it's like living with partners who have boundaries around how they help with the parenting, and what you do with the thumb you just pulled out of your lover's booty... There's also lots and lots of roasting of each other and this episode ended with everyone in tears from laughing so hard. Wanna hear the rest? Join our Patreon at a level you can afford and receive access to this episode and so much more.

The notorious Dr. M joins The Daylovers in this episode. They reflect on the best and worst year of their lives. They discuss monogamy and non-monogamy, their feelings about social media, navigating unexpected changes in a polycule, challenges and surgeries their toddler had, reflections on life's challenges and trauma, and finding a new house after a miraculous surgery.

When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion, before August 6th, and be a part of the beta program! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection, and The Reluctant Polyamorist, on our website!

In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the fuck is a Roth IRA.  Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon (www.patreon.com/remodeledlove).

You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this book, you’ll learn how to: Get what you need out of conversations with your partner with the Triforce of Communication, create Microscripts that will interrupt old patterns, diffuse tension, and form better communication habits, set up a regular RADAR check-in to support the long-term health of all of your relationships, determine your unique processing style, and how it may be clashing with your partner’s, process and reconnect after an argument with Repair SHOP, and more! Learn more about their book at www.multiamory.com/book. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering HozierGuests: Emily, Dedeker, and Jase of Multiamory *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at www.remodeledlove.com and in print/Kindle on Amazon! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: Patreon.com/remodeledlove …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through www.remodeledlove.com

Breaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--how to see them coming, how to lean into it, and how to stay conscious during the death.  Polyamory inherently forces the need to get good at breakups, simply by the nature of the fact that you end up dating so many more folks. Getting "good" at breakups is a powerful muscle to build on this path. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier Guest: ashe danger phoenix, Tenderfire Media *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com