Don't Listen To Us with Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody
Lemonada Media
Don’t Listen to Us is an advice show for advice-skeptics and wisdom-lovers, hosted by Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody, and their son Gideon. Legendary actor Mandy (The Princess Bride, Homeland, Criminal Minds) is the consummate entertainer who shoots from the hip, stage actress Kathryn is the thoughtful connector who sees all the nuance, and Gideon is the brave soul keeping them on track (or at least trying). Together, Mandy and Kathryn have 40+ years of marriage, 140+ years of life experience, and a series of viral social media posts where Gideon interviews them and watches both chaos and wisdom ensue.
They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.
They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.
Episodes
Mentioned books
Mar 25, 2026 • 36min
A Pet Psychic Reads Our Dog
Ever wonder what your pet actually thinks of you? We sit down with an Animal Communicator and Pet Psychic who reads Becky, our dog. Let’s just say, we may never look at Becky the same way again! Plus, Mandy’s surprising story of when he was offered The Princess Bride. Oh, and what we really (maybe) would’ve done if acting didn’t work out. Please note - We record these episodes in advance so we don’t always get to respond in real time to what’s going on in the world. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. For a limited time, go to Care.com and use code DONTLISTEN for 20% off your initial subscription or Senior Care Advisor Plan.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 18, 2026 • 40min
What Do Our Dreams Really Tell Us?
This episode exists because of you! We’re diving into some of the weirdest, funniest, and most unexpectedly moving listener messages we’ve received lately—and one letter absolutely devastates Mandy and Kathryn. Also: some highly questionable dream interpretation and an unscientific ice cream taste test: dairy vs. alternative milks in a frozen dessert death match. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. For a limited time, go to Care.com and use code DONTLISTEN for 20% off your initial subscription or Senior Care Advisor Plan.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 11, 2026 • 34min
Kitchen Turf Wars: Why Couples Fight Over Cooking
If you’ve ever argued over the “right” way to load a dishwasher, this one’s for you. A special episode…in the kitchen! Kathryn and Mandy test a listener’s famous potato recipe. Chaos ensues. Plus, why turf wars in the kitchen are so common. Oh, and are hot dogs sandwiches or tacos? Please note - We often record these episodes in advance so we don’t always get to respond in real time to what’s going on in the world. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/offer/DONTLISTEN for 45% off your first order and free delivery. For a limited time, go to Care.com and use code DONTLISTEN for 20% off your initial Care.com subscription or a Senior Care Advisor Plan. Rachel’s famous potato recipe: It’s important to use yellow or gold potatoes - smaller is better but any yellow potato is fine. First, preheat oven to 425F. 1) quarter the potatoes and then halve the quarters if they are on the bigger side / you want largish bite sized pieces 2) put them in a pot of water and add a good amount kosher salt 3) boil, stirring here and there, till tender but not falling apart - 5-10 min depending on size 4) drain then put back in pot - let them dry out a few minutes and then shake them around in the pot - you don’t want them wet for the next step 5) put potatoes on a sheet pan and coat very well with avocado or grapeseed oil and kosher salt - don’t skimp on either! 6) roast for 10 min then flip potatoes around so crispy bottoms are on top 7) roast till desired amount of golden crispiness - Usually another 10 minutes 8) serve, splashed with a bit of sea salt and pepper, and amaze your friends and family!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 4, 2026 • 31min
Listen Now: Happier with Gretchen Rubin
Mandy, Kathryn, and Gideon are off this week, but they didn’t want to leave you without something special in your feed. So we’re sharing another Lemonada show that we think you’re really going to love. Happier with Gretchen Rubin is hosted by the #1 bestselling author of The Happiness Project and Better Than Before, and it gets personal in the best way. Gretchen shares practical, totally manageable advice about building better habits and creating more happiness in your everyday life. It’s thoughtful, smart, and actually doable. In the episode you’re about to hear, Gretchen talks about why it can be powerful to “go for the no” instead of avoiding rejection and failure. She also shares a few great same-day book recommendations and a simple hack to make your email way more efficient. If you like what you hear, you can find more episodes of Happier with Gretchen Rubin at https://lemonada.lnk.to/happierfdSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 25, 2026 • 46min
Toxic Parents, Immigrant Stories and Weird Hobbies
How do you set boundaries with difficult parents? A question about letting go of what you didn’t get in childhood reveals something sweet about Mandy and Gideon’s own relationship. Plus: Mandy and Kathryn share their immigration stories, Mandy gets a trainer, and Gideon upsells a very questionable new hobby. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/offer/DONTLISTEN for up to 25 FREE meals!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 18, 2026 • 43min
The Awkward Phase of Dating No One Talks About
This episode is for the theatre nerds. We see you! It’s also for anyone who has ever wondered how to navigate bodily functions in a new relationship. So, everyone. Plus, a moving segment on being your own cheerleader. Oh, and Kathryn brings back the word respair. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/offer/DONTLISTEN for 45% off your first order and free delivery. Go to quince.com/dontlisten for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 11, 2026 • 46min
Is Love Enough? And Other Valentine’s Day Questions
Does a good relationship require more than just love? Can you be happy without romantic love? And if Gideon loved a robot, would Kathryn mind? Some Valentine’s Day questions about eros (and philia, and pragma, and philautia…). Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/offer/DONTLISTEN for 45% off your first order and free delivery. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 4, 2026 • 49min
W. Kamau Bell on How To Parent In Uncertain Times
We’re joined by a special guest - comedian, director, dad W. Kamau Bell! We talk about parenting during this difficult time and all things Chicago (including a potential long lost cousin). Oh, and Gideon attempts to pry an old family secret from Kathryn. Can he do it? Please note - We often record these episodes in advance so we don’t always get to respond in real time to what’s going on in our country. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/offer/DONTLISTEN for 45% off your first order and free delivery. Check out Little Saints and discover your Magic Hour. Visit littlesaints.com and use code DONTLISTEN to get 15% Off Your First Order. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 30, 2026 • 1h 1min
Introducing: What's The Plan? from Indivisible
Erica Chenoweth, Harvard professor and leading researcher on nonviolent mass movements, joins to explain the strategic logic of large-scale protest. She discusses what makes mass opposition effective, the power of one-day protests versus sustained organizing, noncooperation tactics, and how movements can shape political pressure and cultural outreach.
Jan 21, 2026 • 41min
Apologies, Advice to Our Younger Selves and No Ties, Ever
When do you actually owe your family an apology? Also, Kathryn’s advice to her younger self and why Mandy doesn’t own a tie. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/DONTLISTEN for up to 25 FREE meals! Visit littlesaints.com to explore the cocktails and use code DONTLISTEN to get 15% Off Your First Order. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
