Don't Listen To Us with Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody
Lemonada Media
Don’t Listen to Us is an advice show for advice-skeptics and wisdom-lovers, hosted by Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody, and their son Gideon. Legendary actor Mandy (The Princess Bride, Homeland, Criminal Minds) is the consummate entertainer who shoots from the hip, stage actress Kathryn is the thoughtful connector who sees all the nuance, and Gideon is the brave soul keeping them on track (or at least trying). Together, Mandy and Kathryn have 40+ years of marriage, 140+ years of life experience, and a series of viral social media posts where Gideon interviews them and watches both chaos and wisdom ensue.
They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.
They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.
Episodes
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Jan 21, 2026 • 41min
Apologies, Advice to Our Younger Selves and No Ties, Ever
When do you actually owe your family an apology? Also, Kathryn’s advice to her younger self and why Mandy doesn’t own a tie. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Head to MarleySpoon.com/DONTLISTEN for up to 25 FREE meals! Visit littlesaints.com to explore the cocktails and use code DONTLISTEN to get 15% Off Your First Order. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 14, 2026 • 40min
Risking It All to Become an Artist – and the Truth about Elmo
Delve into the quirks of daily life with a humorous take on pet peeves like celery. Explore the declining state of manners and the vital need for listening in today's world. Discover why pursuing a career in the arts isn't just a whimsical choice, but a pathway to freedom and community. Mandy shares a cringe-worthy yet endearing moment with Elmo, showcasing the nuances of performance anxiety. Plus, hear insights on creating new theatrical forms and the communal power of live theater!
Jan 7, 2026 • 36min
A New Year Without Resolutions And With Lots of Songs
New year, same pressure! The hosts debate the relevance of New Year's resolutions while sharing personal anecdotes and playful tech distractions. A listener's amusing bear advice sparks a hilarious discussion about bear myths and safety tips. Mandy and Kathryn dive into the complexities of forgiveness versus acceptance, urging deeper thought on personal growth. And don’t miss the generational slang game where they hilariously misinterpret terms like 'riz' and 'drip.' It’s a delightful mix of humor, insight, and family banter!
Dec 31, 2025 • 1h 14min
Introducing: Wiser Than Me with Julia Louis-Dreyfus
As we take a deep breath over the holidays, we wanted to share a wonderful conversation from Wiser Than Me with Julia Louis-Dreyfus and the incomparable Glenn Close. In this episode, Glenn reflects on growing up in the Moral Re-Armament cult, her iconic work in Fatal Attraction and the new Knives Out, and the tenacity, talent, and forgiveness that have shaped her life. She talks about the women who raised her, what becoming a grandmother has meant, and even shares an incredible story from the set of The Natural. If you want to hear more of Wiser Than Me, follow wherever you get your podcasts or head to: https://lemonada.lnk.to/wiserthanmefdSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 24, 2025 • 1h 12min
We Can Do Hard Things (feat. Mandy & Kathryn)
We’re taking a little holiday break this week so we’re sharing this wonderful, heartfelt, slightly chaotic conversation we had with our friends over on We Can Do Hard Things. We talk about how to make a marriage last without losing your mind, the holy importance of quiet, and how we can hold tight to our humanity while insisting on a more humane world. If you want to hear more of We Can Do Hard Things, follow it wherever you get your podcasts or on Instagram (@wecandohardthings) and TikTok (@wecandohardthingshow).See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 17, 2025 • 36min
What To Hang On Your Walls and a Surprising Taste Test
What to hang on your walls as a new homeowner. How to deal with failure. A story that embarrasses Kathryn. And, a listener’s powerful life advice we all need to hear. Oh, and someone tastes Becky’s treats! Guess who? Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT 📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs To give the gift of Ridwell, just head to ridwell.com/DONTLISTENGIFTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 10, 2025 • 42min
Why Don’t I Feel like an Adult? And Revising Holiday Traditions
Does anyone ever actually feel grown-up? Mandy and Kathryn sure don’t. Also: changing up holiday traditions, and the man who mistook an umbrella for a bear (the man is Gideon). To give the gift of Ridwell, just head to ridwell.com/dontlistengift.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 3, 2025 • 44min
Is Time Apart Healthy in a Relationship? We Weigh In
Why Kathryn wants you to say “pussy up.” Is time apart healthy in a relationship? A woman in a male dominated field asks about being herself. How long would you wait for someone? Oh, and “shake the mustard before you squeeze” and other parental sayings - including Mandy’s! It involves a body part. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. Go to ridwell.com/dontlisten to get $10 off your first pickup or mail-in kit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 26, 2025 • 38min
Thanksgiving Politics, Plastic Surgery & The Song that Defines Us
Navigating political differences at the holiday table, actors and plastic surgery, and how Kathryn fell in love with her white hair. Also: Mandy is grateful for liver. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 19, 2025 • 47min
Should Artists Use AI and Gene Kelly’s Best Advice
Should you tell a friend you think their job is unethical? Mandy and Kathryn disagree. A listener asks about using AI as a creative. Mandy and Kathryn play the role of their lives - AI bots. Find out what prompts they used. Oh, and Gene Kelly’s wife calls to chat about the famous dancer and actor’s final years and his advice to Mandy years ago.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
