

Coaching Real Leaders
Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins
We all want to get to the next level of our career, but so many of us get stuck. Longtime leadership coach Muriel Wilkins takes you inside real-life leadership coaching sessions with high performers working to overcome professional challenges and grow as leaders. Listen in on real conversations and leave with new insights and practical guidance for your own career. The views expressed on this podcast are those of its hosts, guests, and callers.
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May 11, 2026 • 36min
Ask Muriel Anything: Productivity, Layoffs, and Visibility
Listeners get rapid-fire leadership advice on breaking rigid team silos and pacing cultural change. The conversation covers leading through layoffs and communicating team morale upward. Practical tactics for balancing productivity with people development are offered. The hosts also explore patterns behind impulse quitting and using learning as a compass for career decisions.

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Apr 27, 2026 • 51min
How Do I Help My Boss Without Doing Their Job For Them?
A leader struggles with blurred boundaries: wanting to help her manager but wondering if she is being asked to do their job. They explore how style and expectations create tension. Practical moves are discussed for discovering what kind of help the manager actually wants. The conversation centers on testing assumptions, proposing solutions, and deciding whether to take on the work.

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Apr 13, 2026 • 44min
Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Dave Stachowiak
Dave Stachowiak, leadership coach and podcaster who helps leaders through career inflection points. He discusses consistency through small habits. They explore whether a manager might be holding your growth and how to test that. They cover defining clear, measurable non-negotiables. They talk about leading when priorities from the C-suite keep shifting and anchoring your team with a nobler motive.

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Mar 30, 2026 • 48min
How Can I Move Forward When My Company Won’t Promote Me?
Erica, a longtime healthcare leader aiming for C-suite roles, shares her career stall after decades at one organization. She discusses being passed over for external hires, wrestling with loyalty and family, and weighing relocation and retirement. The conversation focuses on choosing trade-offs, accepting discomfort as growth, setting timelines, and prioritizing happiness as a decision guide.

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Mar 16, 2026 • 29min
Introducing: Ask Muriel Anything
Listener questions drive a rapid-fire session on sponsorship, including how to find and ask for influential advocates. Co-founder tensions get unpacked with curiosity, observation, and impact-focused language. A clear framework for recovering from major workplace mistakes is shared. Practical approaches for surfacing feedback and rebuilding trust round out the conversation.

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Mar 2, 2026 • 50min
How Do I Get Buy-In From My Boss?
A new marketing leader wrestles with misaligned expectations as sales-centric thinking threatens her growth plans. The conversation teases how unspoken assumptions, quiet execution, and lack of visibility can derail strategy. Listeners hear practical moves for checking assumptions, building executive alignment, and preparing multiple plans once clarity emerges.

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Feb 16, 2026 • 2min
Coming Soon: Season 11
A coach returns with unscripted conversations about leaders facing pivotal moments. Topics include gaining visibility and influence inside organizations. There are candid talks about choosing between career advancement and personal happiness. A new twice-monthly format and an Ask Anything series are also announced.

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Dec 1, 2025 • 41min
Do I Really Want to Be CEO?
A leader finds herself unexpectedly in a CEO role and grapples with whether it's the right fit. The discussion digs into the difference between what she wants and what she feels capable of achieving. Personal obstacles like procrastination are explored, along with how curiosity can be leveraged as a strength. They talk about defining personal success and the importance of celebrating small victories. Ultimately, she decides to test her capabilities while reframing responsibility as both a challenge and a motivator.

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Nov 17, 2025 • 47min
How Do I Manage My Former Peers Now That I’m Their Boss?
A newly promoted manager grapples with the complexities of leading former peers. He shares experiences of friction with longer-tenured colleagues and the struggle to balance accountability with rapport-building. Insights on adapting leadership styles reveal how different motivations require tailored approaches. They delve into interpreting feedback and the importance of maintaining professionalism while inviting personal connection. Practical strategies are shared for handling resistance and fostering a positive team environment, leaving the leader feeling more optimistic about his role.

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Nov 3, 2025 • 52min
How Do I Handle So Much Organizational Uncertainty?
A seasoned leader faces uncertainty as her company shifts direction. She explores her value in a changing landscape, navigating the transition from generalist to specialist. Together with her coach, she identifies short-term goals to regain clarity and strategizes ways to leverage her institutional knowledge. With a focus on building networks and documenting her journey, she contemplates whether to lean into new challenges or step back. Ultimately, she’s equipped with actionable steps to tackle the unknown and define her future career path.


