

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice Kamau
Clearer, not Louder Podcast (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast) is a podcast about discernment, the power of the voice, and the intersection of how the two impact you and the world around you.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
Episodes
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Jun 4, 2020 • 24min
58. Racism, Trauma, & Spirituality
Speaking from my truth & my heart. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 28, 2020 • 15min
57. Ways Our Ego Tells Us Lies About Ourselves
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about some of the ways our ego tells us lies about who we are. We discuss how some of these lies develop from our childhood. Often times, we feel as though we are broken, as though something is inherently wrong with us, and as though nothing good will ever come our way. We think these lies are our truth when in reality, they are actually lies that come from our ego. Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 21, 2020 • 19min
6 Sneaky Ways Codependency Shows Up as Perfectionism
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 6 sneaky ways codependency can show up as perfectionism. Perfectionism is a coping mechanism often developed from childhood that helps us feel a sense of control and a sense of worth. The truth is our worth is not in what we can produce or how we can produce it. Listen to this episode to discover more about perfectionism and how to release it as a form of self-love and inner child healing Check out https://trybetterhelp.com/selflovefix to save 10% on your first month of online therapy/counseling through better help professional counseling (Sponsored by Betterhelp). Click here to get your FREE ticket to the Choose Yourself Summit (it's virtual!) May 18-22 (or visit https://www.ashleybeaudin.com/summit?via=beatrice) Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 14, 2020 • 17min
55. 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound. A "mother wound", in this episode, refers to the emotional damage that you may experience as an adult as a result of having had a relationship with an emotionally abusive, narcissistic, and/or emotionally unavailable parent. We talk about the signs and as always, we talk about how important it is to validate, love, & affirm yourself & your truth, despite it all. Click here to get your FREE ticket to the Choose Yourself Summit (it's virtual!) May 18-22 (or visit https://www.ashleybeaudin.com/summit?via=beatrice) Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 7, 2020 • 18min
54. How to let go of Negative & Self Critical Thoughts
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk negative and self-critical thoughts! We talk about how childhood trauma & narcissistic trauma can influence our thought patterns and how most of our thoughts are just that- patterns. We an AMAZING way to let go of negative & self critical thoughts and we discuss how you are not alone & you are not crazy, there's totally a way to break free from this! Can't wait to see you on the other side! Click here to pre-order my new masterclass: How to Stop Negative & Self-Critical Thoughts (Available May 10th, 2020!) (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Book of the Month: Loving The Self Affirmations: Breaking the Cycles of Codependent Unconscious Belief Systems by Lisa A. Romano Please don't forget to rate & review! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 30, 2020 • 32min
53. 10 Signs You Grew Up with A Narcissistic Mother
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 10 signs you grew up with a narcissistic mother. This is not a complete list as there are many other signs but, these are some of the most common signs you may come across. You're not going to want to miss this eye-opening episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 23, 2020 • 25min
52. Quarantine Special: "Why Do I feel so Obsessed and Attached to Them?"
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about feeling "obsessed" with that potential partner, or that person you are "talking to", or even that person you have been ghosted to (hey what happened to them and why are they ignoring me?) we go into DETAIL about why we panic, why we get obsessed, and why we want more from those that give us less. Hint: it's not you, it's the pattern of thinking you were raised with. Are you ready to dive deep into this topic? I'll see you on the other side! xx Beatrice Please don't forget to rate & review! Check out https://trybetterhelp.com/selflovefix to save 10% on your first month of online therapy/counseling through better help professional counseling (Sponsored by Betterhelp). Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 16, 2020 • 31min
51.Inner Child Healing with Alyssa Lia Mancao
Hey girl! In this episode, we have a special guest, licensed psychotherapist Alyssa Lia Mancao. During this episode, Alyssa and I chat about inner child healing work, trauma, and how to deal with it all especially, during the quarantine. You are not going to want to miss the gems she drops in this episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Special guest: Alyssa Lia Mancao, licensed psychotherapist Alyssa's IG: @alyssamariewellness Alyssa's email: info@alyssamariewellness.com

Apr 9, 2020 • 16min
50. "Over it" How to Deal with Anger & Confrontational People
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about dealing with angry and confrontational people, how to deal with our own anger when we feel offended and/or attacked, and how to respond to the narcissists in our lives who try to elicit reactions out of us. In this episode, we also explore the ego and how our ego relates to our reactions and responses to the situations and things that upset and frustrate us. Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 2, 2020 • 14min
49. "Satisfied" Learning How to Appreciate Life
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about being satisfied with the present moment. Are you feeling uneasy during this quarantine time and feeling as though you want to be anywhere but right here? Feeling stuck in a rut and wanting to escape your current reality? Check out this episode today! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Book of the month mentioned: Vibrate Higher Daily by Lalah Delia Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com


