

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice Kamau
Clearer, not Louder Podcast (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast) is a podcast about discernment, the power of the voice, and the intersection of how the two impact you and the world around you.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Mar 26, 2020 • 18min
48. "Filters" 5 Ways Codependency Affects How You See Others
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about people-pleasing. Where does people-pleasing originate from? What are some of the signs? What can you do about it? We cover all this and much more! Please don't forget to rate & review! Check out https://trybetterhelp.com/selflovefix to save 10% on your first month of online therapy/counseling through better help professional counseling (Sponsored by Betterhelp). Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack ***10% of proceeds from Inner Child Healing Affirmations & Guided Meditations purchases from March 18 2020- April 1 2020 goes to the Sacramento Food Bank to help provide meals to families during this difficult COVID-19 Quarantine Time**** Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Mar 19, 2020 • 16min
47. "I'll be There" Signs You May be a People Pleaser
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about people-pleasing. Where does people-pleasing originate from? What are some of the signs? What can you do about it? We cover all this and much more! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack ***10% of proceeds from Inner Child Healing Affirmations & Guided Meditations purchases from March 18 2020- April 1 2020 goes to the Sacramento Food Bank to help provide meals to families during this difficult COVID-19 Quarantine Time**** Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Mar 12, 2020 • 16min
46. "Oh I am Jealous" Working Through Jealousy
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about jealousy. Where does jealousy come from? What is the root of jealousy? How do you move past jealousy? How do you work through jealousy? We address all this and more in this week's episode, you don't want to miss it! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Mar 5, 2020 • 19min
45. "The Truth" Seeking Validation & Validating Yourself
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about validation. Why do you feel like you need validation? How do you release the need for validation? Why do you seek validation? In this episode, I address all these questions and much, much more? Please don't forget to rate & review! Book of the Month: If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on the Spiritual Path by Charlotte Karl Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Feb 27, 2020 • 16min
44. "All the Way Up" How to Build Self Esteem
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about all things self-esteem: how do you build it? Where does your sense of self-esteem come from? Why is it so difficult for me to get rid of low self-esteem? In this episode, I go over all these questions and more! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Feb 20, 2020 • 21min
43. Q&A's: Confidence, Positive Thoughts, Overthinking & More!
Hey girl! In this episode, I answer YOUR questions! The questions were drawn from your entries in an Instagram post over at selflovefix Tune in as we discuss your questions on confidence, journaling, astrology, toxic roommates, and much more :) Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Feb 13, 2020 • 32min
42. "Dear Mama" How a Wounded Relationship with Your Mother can Affect the Self
Hey girl! In this episode, we chat about the effects of a difficult relationship/abusive relationship with the mothers in our lives. You are not going to want to miss this as we explore the effects this relationship can have on our self-esteem & ways of relating to the world AND tips on how to begin healing from the wounds of the broken relationship. Tune in to listen now! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Feb 6, 2020 • 15min
41. "Take Care" Nighttime Routines, Insomnia, + Self Care
Hey girl! In this episode, we chat about the importance of a night time routine on the healing journey + the ways in which a nighttime routine can help keep insomnia at bay + stress LOW. You are not going to want to miss the details! Tune in to listen now! Book of the month: You Were Born For This by Chani Nicholas Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Jan 30, 2020 • 21min
40. 10 Signs of a Toxic Friendship + One Year Podcast Anniversery!
Hey girl hey! Today we are celebrating the one year anniversary of the Self Love Fix! (Official date is January 31, 2020 to be exact :) and in this episode, we chat about the 10 signs of a toxic friendship. We talk about some of the not so obvious signs that our friends may not have our best interest in mind and ways that we know our friends do. Tune in to listen to all the details! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to pre-order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Jan 16, 2020 • 14min
39. "Unconditionally" Do They Love You or Do They Love Who They Want You to Be?
In this episode, we chat about love- more specifically unconditional love and what it means, how it's different from conditional love, and why it's important to have unconditionally loving relationships both romantically and platonically. This one is a must-listen for sure! Please don't forget to rate & review! January 16, 2020 is the last day for pre order: Click here to pre-order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com


