The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
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Nov 29, 2024 • 1h 4min
SEX, SWINGING AND OPEN RELATIONSHIPS
Are you worried about meeting your relationship goals and expectations? Are you questioning if our current social norms, culture and values, including a monogamous marriage, will satisfy your personal wants, needs and desires? Join us with Sexologist, Dr Cat Meyer, as we discuss the options of different relationship styles that will open-up your marriage to explore alternatives like non-monogamy and polyamory which may serve as healthier relationship models for those who are seeking change.
Nov 22, 2024 • 1h 7min
TOPLESS TRAVEL – NUDE POOL SEXY FUN AND GAMES WITH PARTY MARC
Are you looking to experience the sexiest vacation ever? The most erotic and iconic vacations begin with open-minded guests and talented hosts who understand the particular mind-set of people in the Sexy Lifestyle. Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach in Jamaica with Party Marc from Topless Travel as we discuss how he gets the guests to open-up and explore their sexuality through music, games and his unique perspective on life.
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Nov 15, 2024 • 1h 2min
YONI MASTER FOR EROTIC MASSAGE
What would you do if your partner asked you for a yoni massage? Would you know what to do to turn her on in all her senses… mentally, physical and emotionally? Join us with Yoni Expert, YoniMaster Rick, as we learn everything there is to know about yoni massage. The who, the what, the when, the where, the why and the how, are all so interesting that you'll want to start your lessons immediately. You can actually change your relationship overnight by making her feel "alive" with erotic massage.
Nov 8, 2024 • 1h 4min
SEXY EROTICA TO STIMULATE YOUR SENSES
Do you appreciate talented people who can write great erotic stories that help couples spice up their sex lives? Would you consume erotica that encourages playful sexual fantasies with the goal of improving communication, while exploring your own boundaries and limits? Join us with Sexologist and Erotic Writer, Tiffany Chan, who uses her erotic intelligence and sexual knowledge to create content that includes kink education, couples coaching, and erotic writing. Her work is deeply rooted in embodiment, holistic principles, and empowering people to live authentically. GUEST: Tiffany Chan Tiffany Chan is sharing her unique experiences as a Holistic Sexuality Educator (CHSE), Sexologist, Intimacy Consultant and Model/Content Creator in two revealing new posts for her magazines Artistic Edge and Ink & Lavender-My Secret Diary. In Chan's Artistic Edge article, "Taking the Leap: How I Became a Kink-Affirming Sex Educator", has resonated deeply with readers. In this candid piece, Chan recounts her unexpected journey into the field of kink education, highlighting her early experiences with BDSM literature and how these stories influenced her path. She also shares the pivotal moments that led her to embrace her role as a sex educator, emphasizing the importance of consent and the challenges of navigating personal identity within the constraints of societal expectations. Ink & Lavender-My Secret Diary post "The Secret Life of a Content Creator…" pulls back the curtain on the often-misunderstood world of social media influencers. Chan discusses the behind-the-scenes effort required to create the perfect post, the financial realities that come with the territory and the emotional toll of maintaining an online presence. Her transparency offers a refreshing and much-needed perspective on the realities of content creation. "Writing these articles is an incredibly fulfilling experience for me," said Chan. "I've always believed that storytelling is a powerful way to connect with others, and these posts have allowed me to explore topics that are deeply personal and important to me. "In 'Taking the Leap' I was able to share my unconventional journey into kink-affirming sex education, something that's been a significant part of my life but isn't always easy to discuss openly. It was liberating to put those experiences into words and offer insights that I hope will resonate with others who might be on a similar path. "Similarly, with 'The Secret Life of a Content Creator', I wanted to shed light on the realities that many people don't see—the hours of work, the creativity and the emotional energy that go into each post. Social media can often feel like a curated highlight reel, but there's so much more behind the scenes. Being able to express myself creatively through these articles is something I truly cherish, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to engage with readers on such meaningful topics. My hope is that through sharing these stories, others will feel empowered to embrace their own journeys, no matter how unconventional they may be."
Nov 1, 2024 • 1h 5min
SEXUAL WELLNESS - TESTOSTERONE AND MANOPAUSE 101
Gentlemen, do you ever wake up in the morning after another sleepless night and not recognize the person in the mirror? Perhaps you see less hair, more wrinkles and a bigger waistline and feel sluggish, moody and generally less sexy? Are you wondering if this is just a matter of getting old or could it be something more serious? Join us with Urologist, Dr Judson Brandeis, author of The 21st Century Man, as we dive deep into the symptoms and treatment of andropause (male menopause) and the consequences of declining testosterone levels and the benefits of hormone replacement therapy for men.
Oct 25, 2024 • 1h
TOPLESS TRAVEL – SEXY SIDE-KICK, SENSUAL AND CONFIDENT
Are you the kind of person who loves to party, but also loves to make sure everyone else is having the same great time that you are? Are you open-minded and willing to grow with new experiences including sexual exploration? Join us at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we chat with Sexy Sarah, a new hostess for Topless Travel Events as she experiences her first time at Hedo and also, her first time working with the legendary, Party Marc. We learn about the past experiences that brought her to be selected as the next sexy side-kick to the king of partying. From the sexy pool parties, to the catamaran cruise and all the crazy antics, she shares details of what it's like to host a Topless Travel event.
Oct 18, 2024 • 59min
WHY GOOD SEX MATTERS STARTS WITH THE BRAIN
Do you feel like you have not reached your sexual potential? Perhaps our cultural ideas about sex and pleasure are affecting your overall health and happiness. Join us with Neuroscientist and Sex Therapist, Dr Nan Wise, author of Why Good Sex Matters, as she explains scientifically how sexual pleasure affects our wellbeing. She emphasizes that good sex is not just a luxury. It's not just a cherry on top. Good sex matters. Orgasms matter. Pleasure matters. Take it from a neuroscientist. Check out Nan's new book on Sex: Why Good Sex Matters
Oct 11, 2024 • 1h
SEXUAL WELLNESS – SIZE MATTERS
Does size matter? For many people, this question brings out a resounding "Hell yes!" And for many penis owners, it's a matter of length and girth. And for that reason, penis enlargement procedures have become more sought after than ever before. Join us with Dr Joel Pash, CEO of Upsize Clinic, specializing in penile enlargement procedures, as we talk about cosmetic enhancements, injectable fillers, devices, and drugs. We find out which procedures work, which ones are safe and why men want/need them. Whether you have erectile dysfunction, pyrones disease, or just looking for easier and harder erections, the availability of safe and sustainable solutions is real, making this "upsize" industry growing as we speak.
Oct 4, 2024 • 1h 1min
KINKY FETISHES AND POWER EXCHANGE
Do you ever wonder why you have specific kinks? Do you feel uncomfortable discussing your kinky fantasies with your partner or close friends? Perhaps you want to add some kink into your boring sex life. Join us with Kink Expert, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, a Psychologist and Sex & Intimacy Coach, as she explains the ins-and-outs of the kinky lifestyle and why many people's sex lives are driven by sub/dom relationships and other fetishes. We talk about opening up relationships to explore deeper, more meaningful intimacy and to heal from past sexual trauma
Sep 27, 2024 • 48min
THE INS AND OUTS OF STRAP-ON SEX
Are you curious about strap-on sex and the intimacy and connection it can provide you and your partner? Do you need expert guidance on how strap-on toys can empower you and enrich your sex life? Join Dr Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, and Sex & Relationship Coach, Cherish Amber, discussing the sensual world of strap-on sex, the complexities and joys of strap-on play as they delve into topics that range from the emotional aspects of strap-on intimacy to the technicalities of harness selection and usage. Cherish's approach to clarity, communication, consent, and connection provides invaluable insights for those looking to deepen their sexual experiences and understand the transformative power of shared pleasure. Whether venturing into this territory for the first time or looking to enhance your current practice, this episode promises to educate and inspire. Get ready to challenge the myths, embrace the learning curve, and celebrate the diversity of sexual expression with Cherish's compassionate and informed perspective.
