The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Sep 20, 2024 • 1h 3min
MY LIFE OF LESBIAN LOVE, SEX, OBSESSION AND TORTURE
Have you ever experienced periods of self-loathing or even self-hatred? Are you still trying to come to terms with who you are or who you want be? Perhaps you were bullied, ostracized or abused as an adolescent and developed a negative attitude towards your self worth? Join us with author, Elizabeth Hendrick, who wrote EXODAI, A Shockingly Honest Memoir of Love, Obsession and Torture, as she explains how and why she had a long-term submissive relationship with a Japanese Dominatrix, in which she received sadistic torture – for the benefit of love. Not for the faint-hearted, this memoir describes what she experienced there and how she found her way back.
Sep 13, 2024 • 52min
SEX AND DATING TIPS AND TRICKS
Are you playing the dating game and always wondering what is the appropriate amount of time you should wait before having sex with a new partner? Join Sexologist, Dr. Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she chats with Laurie Gerber, a renowned relationship coach and co-president of the Handel Group. Together, they discuss new romantic relationships and the natural instinct to explore sexual connection with any new partner. Laurie shares her insights on the importance of self-awareness and communication in setting your own pace for intimacy, as well as navigating your partner's comfort level. Drawing on her vast experience in helping individuals and couples build healthy, fulfilling relationships, Laurie offers practical tips for assessing your own needs and boundaries and making sure you are on the same page as your potential partner. Whether you've just started dating or are looking to reevaluate your current relationship, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance on the intricate balance of timing and intimacy.
Sep 6, 2024 • 1h
BETTER ORGASMS WITH CANNABIS
Have you been suffering from orgasm difficulty in silence? Are you too ashamed to talk to anyone about it? Perhaps you think there's nothing you can do to help your situation? Join us with Orgasm Expert and Researcher, Dr Suzanne Mulvehill, founder of the Female Orgasm Research Institute, as she explains how her research with cannabis has proven to help women with Female Orgasm Difficulty Disorder (FOD). We discuss the need to open-up about orgasms and normalize the conversation in order to help these women, because the percentage of those suffering from orgasm difficulty has not changed in 50 years despite improvements in sex education, gender equality and sex therapy.
Aug 30, 2024 • 1h 2min
BEHIND THE SCENES AT A NEVADA BROTHEL
Wouldn't you love to be a fly on the wall at a high-end brothel and watch what goes on during a day in the life of a successful Courtesan? That would be so enlightening, educational and could help to normalize conversations about sex work. Join us as we chat with America's longest-serving female legal brothel owner, Madam Bella Cummins, who is the proprietor of Bella's Hacienda Ranch, a licensed brothel in Wells, Nevada. She has owned and operated the brothel for over 30 years and can speak at length about the ins-and-outs of legalized prostitution in Nevada and what it's like to manage one of these unique businesses. Bella is always advocating for sex workers including her current fight about replacing derogatory terms like 'prostitute' which perpetuate social stigmas and stereotypes which lead to further discrimination and marginalization of sex workers.
Aug 23, 2024 • 1h 1min
TOPLESS TRAVEL – REAL SWINGER STORIES – SEXY FOMO
Are you considering joining The Lifestyle community as a way of spicing up your sex life and strengthening your couple's relationship? Perhaps you're wondering if the thrill of the adventure fades over the years. Does The Lifestyle ever become unexciting and 'same-old'? Join us with a couple of long-time friends whom we met in The Lifestyle over a decade ago as we recount the stories from when we were newbies in The Lifestyle when every party, event or trip was hotter than the last one, and we all had SEXY FOMO. We get into the adventures and the sexy-fun times we shared together and the evolution of our relationships, our friendships and our experiences in The Lifestyle and end up examining where we're at today… how we keep it hot and spicy in our own ways.
Aug 16, 2024 • 1h 1min
REAL PORN STORIES - SADIE SUMMERS NAUGHTY NURSE
Do you ever wonder what motivates porn stars to expose themselves to judgment, shame, guilt, and objectification, even though their line of work is so much in demand, that there's never enough sexual content to satisfy the world's appetite for porn. Join us as we chat with Sadie Summers, the friendly neighborhood MILF, who returned to sex work after leaving the industry for the "wholesome" job of nursing, only to re-establish her previous identity as a porn star and embrace the role with an open minded and sex positive attitude… without shame or embarrassment.
Aug 9, 2024 • 1h 2min
DOMINATRIX ENABLES MEN WITH WRESTLING FETISHES AND MORE
For most of us who watched 'Billions', the opening scene was indeed an attention grabber. We saw the main character, Attorney General Rhoades, tied-up on the ground while a dominatrix stood on his chest with her stilettos. And like most people who watched this scene, we were shocked, mostly because we knew nothing about power exchange and the sub/dom relationship. Join us with Dominatrix, Agatha Delicious, a performer and content creator with a creative flair for the dramatic and unconventional, specializing in fetish productions that highlight a variety of erotic predilections. Men hire her for many different reasons, from wrestling and muscle worship to getting beat up or kicked in the balls. It's intriguing to learn about these types of fetishes and the role of a Dominatrix as a therapeutic release for men who need it, like AG Rhoades in 'Billions'.
Aug 2, 2024 • 1h 1min
HEDONOISM 101 – EXPECTATIONS AND EXPLORATIONS
Are you wondering what exactly happens at a sexy-fun resort like Hedonism II? Do you have pre-conceived ideas that include debauchery of the nth degree? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach, chatting with a seasoned swinger couple who are visiting Hedo for the first time, as they share their first impressions, from the moment they step off the bus and settle into their rooms, to exploring the resort, the beach, the pool parties, the food, the nightly entertainment and the after-hour options and honestly compare their first experiences with the hearsay and expectations they arrived with. On this episode, we explore the concept that it's never too late to re-think some ideas that no longer serve us, allowing our adventurous side to guide us into a more open mind set, where we are willing to accept new and exciting ideas that push our boundaries and enhance our lives. We find out how our guest re-invented herself and became a sexologist when COVID forced a career change. By opening-up to all the possibilities, releasing old ideas and embracing new ones, we can keep on surprising even ourselves.
Jul 26, 2024 • 1h 3min
INTIMACY, PLEASURE AND PASSION IN THE BEDROOM
Do want to be a better lover and add more passion, intimacy and pleasure into your relationship? Perhaps you've heard of the pleasure gap, and you're ready to do something about it. Join us with Intimacy Expert, Susan Bratton as we dive deep into the importance of great bedroom communication, including dirty talk and setting boundaries. We talk about understanding the pleasure gap and the difference between male and female arousal. Her depth of knowledge is enlightening and motivating because great sex isn't really that hard to achieve. We even find out more about her own personal sex life and poly relationships.
Jul 19, 2024 • 1h 2min
TOPLESS TRAVEL - REAL STORIES - I'M A BISEXUAL SWINGER
Ladies, are you confused about your feelings of bi-sexuality? Do you have fantasies about being with another woman? Perhaps you consider yourself bi-curious and you're looking for advice on how to act on those feelings. Join us on the Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we chat with Shannon and Frank from Pussy Cat Parties, where Shannon shares stories of her personal journey as a bi-sexual female. We get into the importance of masturbation, communication, negotiation and playroom etiquette. From body image to asking for what you want, we cover confidence, attitude and empowerment.
