The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Apr 7, 2021 • 47min
SWINGING WITH CAROL AND DAVID
If you are interested in the swinging lifestyle and want to know more about how we began our journey into the world of sexy open-minded folks, then join us with Sex and Relation Expert, Lianne Young, from The House of Ardent, as she interviews us for The Ardent Podcast. We cover all the bases from the female centric point of view and explain how swinging has made our couple stronger and sexier. Lianne was intrigued… and perhaps a little turned-on... by our sexy swinger stories and might one day find herself enjoying the freedoms we discovered in the swinging lifestyle.
Apr 2, 2021 • 1h 2min
NAUGHTY SEX WITH THE NEWLYWEDS
Do you believe in love at first sight? Have you ever had an immediate connection with someone that felt like destiny? What would you do if your perfect soul mate turns out to be a swinger? Join us with newlyweds, Victoria and Brian, who met on Match.com during the pandemic, fell in love instantly, and got married 6 months later... at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, as they share their love story and their journey into the swinging lifestyle as a new couple. The discussion quickly gets down and dirty as we get into the great sex we all had together in the playroom under the stars.
Mar 26, 2021 • 1h 3min
HEDONISM HISTORY - THEN AND NOW
With the upcoming celebration of the 40th anniversary of Hedonism II in November 2021, we are producing some special episodes that highlight the history of the world's most iconic adult playground. Over the months, we have been compiling stories from some of the life-long guests at Hedo and we've found out so much about Hedo's History. Join us with Wendy and Charlie, two 'long-stay' guests who have been visiting the resort for 30 and 40 years respectively, as they stroll down memory lane, sharing their perspective on the evolution of Hedonism II with respect to the property, staff, community, groups and of course the guests – then and now.
Mar 19, 2021 • 1h 2min
NOT ALWAYS IN THE MOOD - MEN, SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPS
Are you looking to find out more about men's sexual desire? Perhaps you are wondering if all men are supposed to have a high sex drive, crave sex and enjoy sex more than women? Why is no one is talking about men's emotional vulnerability with respect to sexual desire? Join us with Sex Researcher and Relationship Therapist, Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, Author of the book, Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships, as we bust a number of myths surrounding men and their desire and dive deep into how great sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions
Mar 12, 2021 • 1h 3min
RECLAIM YOUR SEXUAL CONFIDENCE
Are you feeling the pressures of being pulled in too many different directions? Kids, work, parents -- all demanding your attention with no consideration for you and your needs? In the midst of pleasing others, have you lost the one thing that makes you feel like you – your sexual confidence? Join us for a round table discussion with Sex Doctor, Dr Nancy Sutton-Pierce from Exotic Lifestyle Events and Erica Lemke-Pembroke, author of Feel Sexy Again, as we share our views on the common sex issues that women face as a result of being the emotional supporters and providers of others, at the expense of our own needs and desires. Find out how sex educators and sex coaches can help you reclaim your sexual identity and feel sexy again.
Mar 5, 2021 • 1h 1min
NON MONOGAMY - SEX AT DAWN
Have you ever wondered why we practice monogamy when marriages are breaking down more today than ever before? Is the key to a successful marriage sexual variety? Perhaps swinging with different partners can help keep it spicy… for some couples? Join us with Sex Educators, Kim and Brad, from Tantric Hearts, as we dissect the ideas of promiscuity, sexual desire and fidelity as presented in the book, "Sex at Dawn", by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha, and discuss how their ideas might explain the growing trend towards the swinging lifestyle.
Feb 26, 2021 • 60min
HEDONISM - LIFESTYLE ENTERTAINERS - STRIPPED NAKED
Are you looking for compatible people to party with while on vacation? As crazy as this sounds, some of the friendliest, most compassionate, and truly genuine people are in the open-minded Lifestyle. And these 'Lifestylers' love to travel... Especially to non-judgmental places like Hedonism II in Jamaica. Join us with Host Couple, Chelsea and Marc, as they open-up about their jobs as entertainers in The Lifestyle world and how they create parties everywhere they go, making everyone feel welcome and part of the group.
Feb 19, 2021 • 1h 4min
LESBIAN, FISTING AND ANAL SEX
Do you consider yourself to be sexually savvy when it comes to understanding and respecting all the aspects of the LGBTQ+ community? Or perhaps you need a little refresher course about some of the nuances? Join us with sex and wellness writer, Gabrielle Kassel, as she shares her knowledge and understanding of naughty sexual practices such as queer sex, anal sex, fisting and sex without orgasm. From mismatched libidos to re-defining sex, we get down and dirty with all the details.
Feb 12, 2021 • 1h 8min
PASSIONATE LOVE AND SEX
With all the stresses of COVID restricting our daily lives, are you finding it difficult getting into the mood for love and romance? It might take some creativity and innovation, but it is important to make the effort to find passion and intimacy. Your relationship will thank you for it. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Educator, Dr Ava Cadell, from the Loveology University, as we talk about love in the time of COVID. Relationships everywhere are at the brink of success or failure depending how we deal with intimacy and love during times of stress and strain. Find out how to bring out the best in each other this Valentine's Day.
Feb 10, 2021 • 14min
TALK NAKED - CHERIE DEVILLE, ADULT MEGASTAR
This is Carol and David's specially selected episode of the Talk Naked Podcast hosted by Laura Desiree. On this episode, Laura speaks to adult megastar, Cherie DeVille, as she pops her Instagram-Live Cherry with Laura and reveals all the exciting things that she's doing to keep her loyal fans entertained during COVID-19!
