

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Jun 3, 2022 • 1h 5min
SEXUAL VARIETY TO SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE
Do you find your sex-life to be lack-luster, boring, repetitive, and predictable? Are you looking for new ways to change-it-up and spice-it-up? Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman, as we dive deep into the importance of variety when it comes to sex. Whether you are interested in sharing fantasies, trying new sex toys, or opening-up your relationship to include others, Dr Stacy has the best advice on how to add some spark and fire-up your sex-life… tonight.

May 27, 2022 • 59min
TOPLESS TRAVEL – SEXY SWINGER PARTIES AND EVENTS
Are you wondering what it is like to join a Lifestyle-friendly party or travel event? Perhaps you are curious about hanging out in a sexually charged environment with lots of open-minded people? Join us on location from Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica with Host Couple of Topless Travel signature events, Jessica and Justin, from My Frisky Business, as we talk about creating sexy-fun parties for swingers and other open-minded people… and how they integrate their sexy parties into their own sex lives. Getting together with compatible couples while on vacation creates life-long friendships and lots of great memories.

May 20, 2022 • 1h
SEXY SELF-CONFIDENCE AND REAL BODIES
Are you looking for ways to increase your self-confidence, in and out of the bedroom? That's great, because we all know that self-confidence is one of the biggest sexual turn-ons. Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as they engage in an honest conversation about self-confidence and celebrate real bodies. Because everyone struggles with parts of their bodies they don't like and we all have pre-conceived ideas in our heads about what we 'should' look like. By debunking some of those ideas, we could start to embrace our bodies instead of being ashamed of them.

May 13, 2022 • 59min
BUCK ANGEL - THE MAN WITH A PUSSY
Are you interested in learning more about how transgender folks have been struggling to be heard, and seen, for so many years? It's a topic that is quickly becoming a hot button debate. Join our good friend, Bobbi Bidochka, from Love and Sex with Robots, as she welcomes Transgender Porn Star, Buck Angel, onto our show to get his professional and personal opinion on various touchy topics like: responsible and healthy approaches to sex change, reducing the harmful impact of sexual shame, the sex lives of transgender and transsexuals, cannabis and sex, social media and cancel culture.

May 6, 2022 • 1h 6min
TOPLESS TRAVEL - SEXY TRAVEL STORIES WITH SHELLEY AND JOE
Have you ever experienced a sexy-fun vacation with open-minded people and made life-long friendships? Perhaps you are just looking to get away and explore your sexuality with your partner to strengthen your couple. Join us on location, on board the Bliss Cruise, with husband and wife team, Shelley and Joe, co-owners of Topless Travel, as we get into sharing sexy stories and details of Topless Travel vacations and events, from the Bliss Cruises, to Hedonism II in Jamaica, to Desire in Cancun and a whole lot more.

Apr 29, 2022 • 1h 5min
REJUVENATE YOUR SEX LIFE
Have you ever considered a treatment that combines lifestyle medicine with hormone optimization, healthy-aging and cosmetic gynecology? It sounds like a mouthful, but it sure covers a lot ground for a population who want to stay sexually healthy and fit to fuck at any age Join us with Ob/Gyn, Dr Shyrlena Bogard, as we discuss her two specialties, Lifestyle Medicine and Sexual Health, and how we can keep ourselves happy, healthy and horny by eating well, keeping physically active, and managing our stress levels, our hormone levels, our sleep patterns and our relationships.

Apr 22, 2022 • 1h
THE ORGASM GAP AND GREAT SEX
So ladies… do you have a hard time achieving that ultimate bliss of excitement that leaves your body screaming for more? A study found that 39% of women say that they can only orgasm through masturbation compared to only 6% of women who orgasm during penetration!!! Also, 20% of women say they don't orgasm at all. What's up with that? Join Stephanie & Fox with Sex Therapist, Cayte Castrillon, from Communicayte.com, as they discuss the troubling statistics of the "Orgasm Gap" between men and women, and what they can do to ensure great sex is had by all.

Apr 15, 2022 • 1h 7min
SWINGER DOCTORS SHARE THEIR SWINGER STORIES
Are you still a little hesitant to explore ways to open-up your relationship? Perhaps you just need a little more credible information about how to live a Sexy Lifestyle that supports your couple style and also strengthens the great sex life you already have… Join us as we chat with Kae and Ben, a couple who are both medical doctors, who have been in the swinging lifestyle for over a decade and now are passionate about sharing all the information they have discovered to make your experience in the lifestyle positive and fulfilling.

Apr 8, 2022 • 1h 1min
TOPLESS TRAVEL - EXPLORING YOUR SEXUALITY ON VACATION
Are you looking to party and travel with sexy-fun and open-minded people? Getting together with compatible couples while on vacation creates life-long friendships and lots of great memories. Join us with a sexy couple who are guests at Hedo for the very first time, as we discuss how they opened-up and began to explore their sexuality as they aged and especially when their kids were grown and on their own. Their first Hedo experience was the pinnacle of what they are looking forward to -- a healthy, spicy sex-life -- for the rest of their lives.

Apr 1, 2022 • 57min
ORGASMS AND SEXUAL EMPOWERMENT
Are you feeling a little unsure about how to spice things up and get more out of your sex life? Perhaps you want to explore your kinky side but you're worried that your sexual desires are not in line with your personal morals and... What will people think? Join us with Author and Award-Winning Sexologist, Dr Gloria Brame, who is living proof that eroticism and intimacy can be harnessed for better health and emotional wellbeing. Whether it has to do with kink, solo play, polyamory, or other lifestyles, Dr Gloria's goal is to normalize alternative sexuality and help you find your true sexual identity and embrace it.


