The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Jul 28, 2023 • 60min
SEX AND OPEN RELATIONSHIPS
Have you ever wondered what makes people want to open-up their marriage? Perhaps you are having discussions about how you too can get on the band wagon of having consensual sex with other compatible singles and couples. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Holy Richmond, as we get into our favorite topics, open relationships, consensual non-monogamy and polyamory. We talk about why people are opening-up more today than ever before. And, Dr Holy reveals some of her best tips and tricks to help couples open-up their relationships successfully and ensure their primary relationship stays solid while their connection grows with extracurricular sexual experiences they fantasize about.
Jul 21, 2023 • 1h 3min
TOPLESS TRAVEL – SEXY TRAVEL TIPS AND TRICKS FOR NEWBIES
Are you and your partner interested in joining The Sexy Lifestyle community, but you don't know where to begin or how to integrate yourselves? Perhaps you've been invited to a travel event, and you are looking for more information about what you can expect. Join us with Party Organizers, Shannon and Frank, from Pussycat Parties, as they share their advice on how 'sexy travel newbies' can feel comfortable exploring their own sexuality within a group of open-minded folks, whether or not they want to share their partners, be exhibitionists or simply watch the sexy fun as voyeurs. We cover the most common dos and don'ts that help couples enjoy their first experience at a lifestyle resort with guidelines that will translate into sexy fun and lasting friendships.
Jul 14, 2023 • 1h 1min
SEX AND CANNABIS – MASTURBATION AND BETTY DODSON
Do you feel shame and embarrassment around masturbation? Are you having difficulties talking about masturbation with your partner or even your friends? Well, you're not alone. Most of us are taught to experience sexual pleasure in "stealth mode" – as quickly and silently as possible. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual as she talks with Sex and Relationship Writer, Ryn Pfeuffer, discussing how cannabis can be a powerful ally in shedding shame and feeling more present and embodied, especially for those who feel self-conscious about their bodies and their pleasure. By the end of the episode you'll understand the legacy of feminist icon, Dr. Betty Dodson, how to incorporate cannabis into your masturbation practices, and feel more comfortable using allies like toys and lube to enhance your experience.
Jul 7, 2023 • 57min
A TOUCH OF KINK AND BDSM
Are you still intrigued by the kinkiness of Fifty Shades of Grey? Perhaps you are looking for more credible information about the kink and BDSM lifestyle? Join us with Film Producer, Todd "Max" Carey, as we dive deep into his newest documentary, "Touch Kink" which provides a glimpse into the real world of the Dominatrix, the Sub, the Slave, and the Newbie. This film provides an honest reflection of a community that is widely misunderstood, judged and shamed for their practices, and presents a candid point of view for those who are genuinely intrigued to open up discussions about kink, and ask questions like: "Would we? Could we? Should we?"
Jun 30, 2023 • 1h
SEXUAL AND RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE
Are you questioning the security of your long-term, sexual relationship? Is it currently lacking luster and excitement, causing you to worry that your partnership is in peril? If only we could learn how to have open dialogue about maintaining deep and meaningful connections with our lovers. Join us with Sexologist and Sex Coach, Dr Stacy Friedman, as we broach the subject of how to maintain our sexual relationships to ensure stability and viability over time, to overcome the waning "honeymoon phase" where the sexual chemistry is at its peak, and ramp up the "couple phase" to include more connected sex, as we bond and learn to honor and cherish each other, as we move towards true love.
Jun 23, 2023 • 1h 3min
TOPLESS TRAVEL – ROCKIN' AND ROLLIN' ON THE BLISS CRUISE
Do you consider yourself open-minded enough to mingle with a swinger group… without judgment? Perhaps you're curious about The Lifestyle and want to watch vicariously from afar? Join us from The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, chatting with two of the on-board entertainment groups, KINGS OF QUEEN, a popular Queen cover band, and SAVANNAH JACK, who performed on the Bliss Cruise to a standing-room-only, sexy, open-minded crowd… and crushed it! After their work was done, they got to experience the Bliss Cruise at its most decadent best… for the rest of the week, and they had lots to say about it.
Jun 16, 2023 • 1h 2min
TRIPLE X FOR BETTER SEX
Do you struggle with sexual communication? Are you interested in exploring your sexual desires safely with your partner but are unsure where to begin? Join Dr. Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she interviews Jack Polo, creator of Triple X Playground, the "Best Adult Sex Game Ever!" ™. TXP has created a naughty adult playground where "You Set the Environment, We Take It There" ™. This holistic tool is designed to help couples with those unfulfilled moments waiting to be unleashed, by providing the most exciting fantasies to reach the highest levels of climax while bridging the gap of communication, building trust, and creating stronger bonds in any adult relationship free of judgment and awkwardness.
Jun 9, 2023 • 1h 5min
SEX AND CANNABIS – ANAL PLAY AND ALL THE INS AND OUTS
Are you curious but squeamish when it comes to anal play? Perhaps you're afraid that it might hurt, or that you might hurt your partner. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual, together with award winning author and sex educator, Tristan Taormino, the 'Anal Queen' herself, as they discuss how cannabis can be an incredible ally when it comes to reducing discomfort that might arise during anal play. Its analgesic properties can help calm the nerves, making the whole experience more enjoyable and stress-free. You will find out how communication and consent are key when exploring any new territory, especially when it comes to anal play, and how cannabis can help you embark on a journey of pleasure, intimacy, and exploration like never before.
Jun 2, 2023 • 60min
SWINGING THROUGH THE AGES
Is consensual non-monogamy a lifestyle that you find perplexing? Are you confused about the terminology and the nuances of various styles of sexual expression that include other people and other couples? Join us with Dr Edward Fernandes, aka Dr Ziggy, researcher and expert on Ethical Non-Monogamy, as we tackle the history and evolution of swinging, open relationships and polyamory. The differences and similarities of the various alternative sexual lifestyles are as intriguing as the reasons why people have consensual extra-marital sex and relationships, according to the research.
May 26, 2023 • 1h
SEXUAL WELLNESS - CONSIDERING COSMETIC SURGERY?
Have you ever considered having a nip 'n tuck procedure to enhance your body or restore it to its former shape? Perhaps you're done with your baby-making years and you want your old body back. Do your sagging boobs and pouchy tummy make you feel less sexy in bed? Join us with Dr Karl Schwartz, from Clinique K, talking about the Mommy-Make-over and other cosmetic procedures designed to restore and enhance the body as an important step in the journey towards self-confidence and psychological well-being and a better, more substantial sex life --- creating the kind of beauty on the outside that serves as a pillar for developing inner beauty and sexual empowerment.
