

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Oct 6, 2023 • 53min
SEXUAL INTIMACY AND DESIRE
Are you too busy for a social life, never mind a sex life? Is your daily grind creeping into your private time? Perhaps sex is becoming less of a priority in your busy schedule. After a while, we get used to having less sex – not that we like it – but we accept it. Until… one day we realize that it's been months since our last sexual encounter. If you want to turn this around then join us with Sex Therapist, Dr Katie Schubert, as she reveals the key ingredient to staying sexy in your relationship. We take a hard look at how to rebuild sexual intimacy and why you should want to get the "sexy" back into your sex life by reigniting desire within your couple. It's all critical to our sense of well-being.

Sep 29, 2023 • 59min
ERECTILE FITNESS AND A HEALTHY HEART
Do you ever wonder why you or your partner wakes up with morning wood every day… and what it means when you don't? Are you looking for answers to your questions about healthy erections? Join us with Erection Expert, Dr Elliot Justin, Founder and CEO of Firm Tech Inc, which is his latest venture promoting sexual wellness by focusing on keeping men firm and fit for a lifetime. Dr Elliot has developed a specialized cock ring that acts as a pressure monitor to measure the firmness and duration of erections during sex and throughout the night while sleeping. We dive deep into the science behind erectile fitness and how it relates to cardiac health and overall fitness.

Sep 22, 2023 • 60min
TOPLESS TRAVEL - THE CLIT AND BETTER ORGASMS
Are you aware of the pleasure gap between men and women? Wondering why men have orgasms almost every time they have sex and yet women don't? Ladies!! If you are not experiencing mind-blowing, body-rippling, can't-help-screaming-out-loud orgasms, then you need to listen to this episode… and take notes. Join us with Dr Laurie Mintz, Author of "Becoming Clitorate", as we discuss why Orgasm Equality matters – and how we get it.

Sep 15, 2023 • 1h 5min
SEX AND CANNABIS - MENOPAUSE RELIEF
Are you suffering from symptoms of menopause? Wondering if cannabis can help with some relief? Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual as she chats with Sex Therapist, Dr. Shannon Chavez all about the fascinating world of menopause and cannabis. Discover how cannabis can offer relief from the unique challenges that menopause brings, from hot flashes to sexual health. Dr. Chavez combines her expertise in sexuality and cannabis to shed light on the potential benefits, risks, and best practices cannabis, offering valuable insights for those navigating the transformative journey of menopause.

Sep 8, 2023 • 59min
SEXUAL AND ROMANTIC INTIMACY
Have you ever wondered why some relationships feel shallow and lacking in depth, while others bring us a profound sense of belonging and understanding? Do you want to learn how to cultivate deeper connections and experience greater joy in your relationships? If your answer is yes, then you're in the right place! Join Dr Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy with Intimacy Expert, Beth Darling, as they get into the different types of intimacy! Intimacy goes far beyond the realm of romance, and it touches every aspect of our lives. Whether it's our relationship with ourselves, our friends, or even our coworkers, understanding the different ways we connect and build meaningful bonds opens up endless possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment. If this resonates with you, stay tuned as we dive into the 5 kinds of intimacy, uncovering the secrets to creating deeply fulfilling connections that will transform your life.

Sep 1, 2023 • 59min
FIT TO FUCK WITH NAUGHTY GYM
Are you looking for ways to have better sex, longer sessions at more frequency intervals? If you're huffing and puffing during sex, with sweat dripping off your forehead, you may already know that you need to improve your cardio game. But, that's always easier said than done. Join us with Fitness Experts, April and Scott, from Naughty Gym as we talk about the best ways to get "fit to fuck" even if you've never jogged a mile in your life. If you want your body to continue to be an amazing source of pleasure, you have to provide the care and feeding required to maintain and nourish your body. It's that simple! You may be surprised to find out how small changes can go a long way to improving your sex life when you're motivated by pleasure.

Aug 25, 2023 • 59min
TOPLESS TRAVEL - SEXY-FUN STORIES FROM A HOST COUPLE
Are you curious about what happens behind the scenes of a lifestyle vacation through the eyes of the organizers and host couples? Perhaps you want to know how they contribute to the wellbeing of their group and help make your trip the most erotic sexy vacation ever. Join us with host couple, Jessica and Justin, from My Frisky Business as we review the background details of their most recent Topless Travel event at Hedonism II in Jamaica. We cover everything from the role of the host couple, to playroom etiquette and the dos and don'ts for first timers through their personal experiences and sexy-fun stories. You'll begin to understand why traveling with a group has its advantages, even if they have been to the resort before.

Aug 18, 2023 • 1h 2min
REIMAGINE SEXUALITY – AI, SEX TECH AND ROBOTS
Are you curious about the future of sex and the role of SexTech in our lives today and the decades to come? Can you imagine a world where people will have real relationships with robots including companionship and sex? Join us with Bobbi Bidochka, co-chair of Love & Sex with Robots, as we discuss her upcoming Academic Conference, Reimagine Sexuality. In our round-table discussion we review some of the topics that her expert presenters will be covering in the conference and share our opinions on why those topics are vital to our growth and understanding about human sexuality, and how SexTech and AI will revolutionize our sexual experiences and change our perceptions about sex and sexuality forever.

Aug 11, 2023 • 1h 10min
SEX AND CANNABIS - MAKE SEX EASY PROSTATE PLEASURE
Are you curious about how cannabis can be used to enhance our understanding of ourselves and the world around us, revealing some of its profound benefits for embodiment, presence, and attunement. Join Ashley Manta from Cannasexual and Relationship Coach, Dr Charlie Glickman, as they delve into the world of cannabis embark on a transformative journey, exploring the ancient wisdom and modern science behind this remarkable plant's ability to heighten our sensory perception, connect us with the present moment, and deepen our self-awareness like never before. Through intimate conversations with experts and personal testimonials, we unravel the secrets of how cannabis unlocks the gates of mindfulness and allows individuals to explore their bodies in ways they never thought possible. From this we venture into a topic often shrouded in taboo: the surprising benefits of cannabis for anal play. Brace yourself for an open and honest discussion, shedding light on how cannabis can play a role in elevating prostate stimulation (and so many other things!) Join Beducated.com, the #1 online platform for sexual health and happiness, and save 40% off the annual membership with coupon code: SEXYLIFESTYLE Click this link NOW: https://beducate.me/pd2329-sexylifestyle

Aug 4, 2023 • 1h 1min
MAKING PORN WITH AN INTIMACY COORDINATOR
Are you curious about ethical porn and what they do differently during the shooting process in order to get the different perspective of pornographic scenes that they are aiming for? Perhaps you are looking for a more female centric porn style for your own sexual entertainment. Join us with Sexology Girl, Avril Louise Clarke, the Intimacy Coordinator for Erika Lust Films, as we get a behind the scenes look into the filming of ethical porn, from how to stay hard and premature ejaculation, to condom rules, squirting and prepping for anal sex. We cover it all!


