

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!
Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy!
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Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy!
SomethingMessy.com
or email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com
WATCH HERE!
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Dec 8, 2025 • 13min
MESSY BONUS: This Thanksgiving, I Was The Turkey
Brandon shares a messy story that gives a new meaning to Thanksgiving stuffing. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 4, 2025 • 54min
The Journey is The Goal w/ Lío Mehiel
Recently starring in the hit movie, After The Hunt, Lío Mehiel joins Brandon to share their experience in growth and feeling good in their place in the world. Messy Mail leads into a discussion of leaving toxic friendships and Lio helps finally settle the age-old debate: Is a harvest bowl the same as a salad? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 1, 2025 • 12min
MESSY BONUS: Being the Poster Child of HIV
This week's conversation with Hernando Umana was so packed full of goodies, we just had to give you some more. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 27, 2025 • 1h 1min
Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana
Hernando Umana, actor, entrepreneur, activist and Brandon's close friend, joins the pod to share one of the wildest Messy stories we've ever heard. Plus, some reminiscing and lighthearted fun before diving into the heavy topic of living with HIV. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 24, 2025 • 14min
MESSY BONUS: Give Me A Minute
Long-term relationships of any kind can be tricky, so Franchesca Ramsey shares her experiences in opening communication even when you can't respond right away. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 24, 2025 • 2min
Tell Me Something Messy Presents: HIGHKEY!
Heyyy Messy Mob! Check out this trailer for HIGHKEY! ✨ RuPaul’s Drag Race winner Yvie Oddly and culture critic Ryan Mitchell host HIGHKEY! — a boldly queer LGBTQ+ podcast where pop culture, chaos, and surprisingly real conversations collide. It’s like being a fly on the wall for the most unhinged, hilarious, and heartfelt side convo at the party — with past guests like Laverne Cox, Rico Nasty, Bob the Drag Queen, and Lena Waithe, and more queer icons on the way. Welcome to the party — BYOB, pull up a chair, and settle in because this one’s just getting started. Listen and watch full episodes on YouTube @highkeyhere and wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: @highkeyhere TikTok: @highkeyhereWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 20, 2025 • 57min
You're A Divorcee Who Doesn't Believe In God w/ Franchesca Ramsey
Franchesca Ramsey, actress, writer, comedian, and social justice advocate, joins to show to share her stories of love, loss and recovery. Her messy story is one for the record books, which leads to a fantastic conversation about being open and communicative with lovers, friends and family. And no episode is complete without some hilarious messy mail. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 17, 2025 • 12min
MESSY BONUS: Let Your Uncle Kidnap You
This hilarious conversation with Jay Jurden didn't make it into the main episode, but it sure made its way into our hearts. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 13, 2025 • 51min
Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden
Jay Jurden, a comedian and writer celebrated for his Hulu special, brings his humor to the discussion on gender identities in today's society. He shares insights about how comedians approach sensitive topics, particularly regarding trans women, and the ethics of comedy. The conversation dives into the joy of laughter, authenticity on stage, and advice for first-time orgy-goers. With playful banter and unique games, Jay's wit shines as he tackles the ups and downs of relationships and the messiness of attraction.

Nov 10, 2025 • 22min
MESSY BONUS: There's A Line With Family
Brandon shares a story of their first night out on this New York trip, and some bonus clips from their conversation with Durand on male intimacy. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Live in NYC! Join Brandon Kyle Goodman for Messy Q+A and Live Recording with Heaux Church and Ars Nova on Nov 13th. Get tickets at [link] with code MESSY for $15 off.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


