Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!
Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy!
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Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy!
SomethingMessy.com
or email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com
WATCH HERE!
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Jan 22, 2026 • 54min
Decentering the Male Gaze: How to Be Attractive for Yourself and Unlearn Eurocentric Beauty Standards w/ Atsuko Okatsuka
Comedian and actress Atsuko Okatsuka joins Brandon for a hilarious and heartfelt episode with a wild two-part messy story. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 19, 2026 • 17min
MESSY BONUS: Dating With Intention
Nina Parker expands upon her idea of dating with intention. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 15, 2026 • 54min
What to Do If You’re Ghosted, Calling Out Abuse in a Friend’s Relationship, and Setting Healthy Boundaries w/ Nina Parker
The one and only Nina Parker, Emmy-nominated TV host and fashion designer joins Brandon for some tea before getting into the real heart of the conversation. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 12, 2026 • 21min
MESSY BONUS: Dealing With The Butt & Being Fired
Hosts of the Dads & Daddies podcast share their messy stories (and advice) that didn't make it into the main episode. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 8, 2026 • 57min
How to Be a Confident Dominant Partner in the Bedroom, Navigate a Friend’s Addiction, and Support Sobriety w/ Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow
Hosts of the Dads & Daddies Podcast, Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow join Brandon for an intimate discussion that gets Brandon hot and bothered, before diving into a Messy Mail covering addiction and more. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 5, 2026 • 9min
MESSY BONUS: Dressing As Cartoon Characters
Who isn't into a little roleplay on Date #4? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 18, 2025 • 55min
Normalizing Intimacy Conversations w/ Jessica Stahl
Cartoonist, creative director and sexual-wellness advocate, Jessica Stahl, joins Brandon with her own important acronym around pleasure communication. Then, she and Brandon dive into boundaries, self-respect and how to learn that you're worth trusting. Plus a second Messy story for the road. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 15, 2025 • 10min
MESSY BONUS: A Gay Anomaly
Brandon finishes the messy story from last week by explaining the "sex accident." Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 11, 2025 • 1h 18min
Through The Storm w/ Jordan E. Cooper
Jordan E. Cooper, playwright, actor, and director joins Brandon to share his experience with his new play OH HAPPY DAY! which then turns into a deep conversation on finding yourself and your place in the world. While there's no Messy Mail today, Jordan certainly brings some thoughts on some messy opinions. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 8, 2025 • 13min
MESSY BONUS: This Thanksgiving, I Was The Turkey
Brandon shares a messy story that gives a new meaning to Thanksgiving stuffing. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
