

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!
Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy!
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Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy!
SomethingMessy.com
or email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com
WATCH HERE!
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Nov 6, 2025 • 1h
Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr
Singer-songwriter Durand Bernarr joins the show to discuss what intimacy means for men, specifically between male friendships. But first, Brandon and Durand dive into some particularly spicy messy mail about sleepovers and dating. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Live in NYC! Join Brandon Kyle Goodman for Messy Q+A and Live Recording with Heaux Church and Ars Nova on Nov 13th. Get tickets at [link] with code MESSY for $15 off.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 3, 2025 • 13min
MESSY BONUS: Reflecting On Breakdowns
Brandon shares a story about a previous connection, and they and Sophia discuss the gift / curse of the times we live in. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 30, 2025 • 1h 7min
Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush
Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Work In Progress podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/work-in-progress-with-sophia-bush/id1479711891Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 23, 2025 • 53min
This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe
World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 20, 2025 • 7min
MESSY BONUS: Who Puts Your Heart At Ease?
A life-long friendship is hard to find, but so special when you do. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 16, 2025 • 1h 1min
Sometimes Love Isn’t Broken, It’s Just Not Enough w/ Devere Rogers
Brandon welcomes comedian, actor and bestie Devere Rogers, who comes in hot with a messy take treading in dangerous territory: Brandy and Monica concert tickets—are we being priced out of nostalgia? The love letter to the R&B queens turns into a discussion about the way legacy, value, and accessibility intersect in pop culture. Then a listener wants to know where the line is drawn between liberation and overindulgence, and another needs advice for complimenting their filthy rich lover. Finally, Devere and Brandon make one last mess with a listener stuck in that unsettled place—a relationship that checks every box but still doesn’t feel right. More about Devere: https://www.instagram.com/itsdevererogers Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 13, 2025 • 9min
MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like
New York versus LA d*ck.Where do you all stand on the debate? Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 9, 2025 • 1h 5min
Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi
Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby! More about Erica: https://www.ericachidi.com/ Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 2, 2025 • 1h 15min
How Facing Mortality Inspires Better Art w/ Abbi Jacobson
In this captivating discussion, Abbi Jacobson, celebrated actor, writer, and co-creator of Broad City, shares insights on art and mortality. She emphasizes that not every creation needs to be a masterpiece, advocating for the joy of making art for its own sake. Abbi dives into her latest projects and reflects on how facing mortality enhances creativity. Together with Brandon, they explore the importance of discussing death openly, revealing how it can enrich our experience of life and inspire deeper artistic expression.

Sep 26, 2025 • 1min
Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer
Season Two of Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman is here. Every Tuesday, Brandon invites you into bold, hilarious, and vulnerable conversations that celebrate imperfection and honesty. From Emmy winners to everyday changemakers, guests open up about the messy truths behind identity, relationships, family, career, and self-discovery. With new video episodes and bonus minis every Monday, Season Two promises unfiltered joy, humor, and heart.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


