The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
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6 snips
Apr 25, 2025 • 23min

240: 1 Easy Trick To Fix 95% Of Your Wife’s Irrational Upsets and Complaining in 60secs Flat

Explore the secret cause behind 95% of your wife's emotional upsets and complaints. Discover how a simple shift in approach can enhance your relationship. Instead of rushing to fix her problems, learn to offer emotional support by acknowledging her feelings of being unloved. Humor and affection can be powerful tools in navigating her emotional turmoil. Transform your role into that of a legendary husband by focusing on connection rather than solutions!
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Apr 18, 2025 • 47min

239: 4 Simple 1-5min Daily Habits to Evoke Your Wife’s Primal Love and Trust Responses

Most husbands listening in will try new suggested strategies of conscious relating when with their Queens.  This is brilliant and has a massive power in it. Yet, sometimes the new attempts don’t have nearly the positive effect you’d love! Enter the untapped world of high-leverage daily training habits for priming your nervous system. This episode gifts you 4 simple daily habits (1-10mins max) to give you the most juicy and powerful message to transmit through your body geared towards evoking the most spectacularly positive response in your Queen. Interested? Of course you are! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
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Apr 11, 2025 • 1h 9min

238: 3 Steps to Confident Self-Mastery of Masculine Leadership in Marriage

Self-mastery is the essence of great masculine embodiment in men. There is no arena more important to embody self-mastery as a man than that of married life. Our legacy depends on it. Without a precise grasp on what self-mastery in masculine leadership is built on, you will always struggle to manifest freedom and fulfilment in married life. Get ready for laser-focused clarity on how to embody masculine self-mastery your Queen will find irresistibly attractive. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
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Apr 4, 2025 • 1h 9min

237: When You’re Being A Great Guy But She Still Treats You Like Crap…Do This

One of the most frustrating things every husband experiences is when you show up at your wonderful best and your Queen treats you like crap. The clearly good intentions of your attempt to do/say something of deep meaning gets trampled on by your Queen’s confusing and crazy irrationality.  These moments habitually get stuck in a right-vs-wrong storm of disconnection. This episode introduces you to a revolutionary approach that will help you alchemise these moments into opportunities for you to develop unshakeable connection and trust in marriage. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now
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10 snips
Mar 27, 2025 • 40min

236: The Code To Let Your Queen Viscerally Surrender Into Trusting You’ll Never Ever Leave Her Or Stop Loving Her

Discover the crucial role of belonging cues in fostering emotional safety and trust within marriages. These subtle signals, rooted in our unconscious, can transform a relationship from challenging to dreamlike. The discussion also explores how grief can deepen our understanding of love and legacy, emphasizing the importance of nurturing authentic connections. Tune in to learn how to cultivate a marriage that thrives on meaningful communication and emotional intimacy.
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Mar 21, 2025 • 38min

235: A Dalai Lama Mind Hack To Magically Generate Rapid Clarity and Calm in any Marital Conflict

Most husbands will admit that, albeit they love their wife, they find marriage the ultimate challenge to their sense of inner peace.  The often joked “Can’t live with her, can’t live without her”, points to this seemingly universal crux in married life for men. Yet, one simple mind hack allows husbands go from massive psychological resistance to re-entering flow with their wives in no time at all. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
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Mar 14, 2025 • 44min

234: The Secret To Stop Your Wife from Always Arguing Against Your Rational Perspective

The eternal conundrum for husbands: You listen to her speaking about an upsetting issue, you find a problem-solving fix you know will end her suffering…….and she never wants to listen to what you’ve got to say!!!!  And she even has the audacity to claim you weren’t listening!!! This episode will let you know the secret in how to prepare your Queen for receiving your beautiful gift of masculine, black and white rationality. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
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Mar 7, 2025 • 1h 38min

233: 4 Steps How to Skilfully Eliminate Your Wife’s Unfair Criticism of You Forever More

Explore the intricacies of criticism in marriage and how embracing feedback can lead to personal growth. Discover the significance of trust, open communication, and vulnerability in deepening emotional connections. Learn about establishing healthy boundaries while maintaining intimacy and support. The conversation also highlights the importance of authenticity and self-awareness on the journey to better relationships. Plus, empower yourself to uplift your family and community through spiritual evolution!
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Feb 27, 2025 • 53min

232: 8 Steps To Rebuilding Your Queen’s Trust After The Devastation of your Infidelity

A husband’s infidelity can be a devastating blow for his Queen. Years of distrust, suspicion and rage mixed with grief can follow, leading many men to give up trying to save their marriage. This hopelessness is not needed. These 8 powerful steps will support you making your infidelity become the stage for the greatest inner and outer transformation you ever dreamed possible. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.meI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
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Feb 20, 2025 • 1h 1min

231: This One Simple Game Might Be The Most Powerful Marriage Transformation Tool Ever

As men we practice low tolerance of our own BS grumpy moods with our customers, boss, neighbours, friends etc. They get our highest standard communication. Then we go home and practice super high tolerance of our BS grumpy moods with our Queen and children. Our nearest and dearest get our lowest standard of communication. Low tolerance = high standards. High tolerance = low standards. The rules of this super simple game sets the scene for only your highest standards of communication and emotional state to come to the table. It's a super fun and brutally effective way to show up as the King you were born to become. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.meI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

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