

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Oct 31, 2025 • 23min
270: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict – Part 3 Respect and Recognition
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll know how to spot and self-regulate one of the most triggering wounds husbands have.2. You’ll discover the definition of respect and more accurately know if respect is present in your marriage 3. You’ll get a timely reminder of Inspire Don’t Require being the strongest masculine leadership approach in evoking respect in marriageWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 29, 2025 • 27min
269: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 2 Closeness and Connection
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll be able to recognise when conflict is more to do with Closeness and Connection and little or nothing to do with what’s being said 2. You’ll learn distinct differences between masculine and feminine relating on closeness and connection that are key to building trust and attraction3. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to home in with laser precision to the core of the issue.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 24, 2025 • 24min
268: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 1 Power & Priorities
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand why conflicts will always exist until you understand what you’re really fighting about. 2. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to recognise if Power & Priorities are the real issue. 3. You’ll the single universal subconscious reason what we’re really fighting to revealWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 17, 2025 • 1h 6min
267: 5 Ways To Unlock The Mystical Ancient Greek Power of Kairos Time To Help You Transform Your Marriage Quicker No matter How Little Time You Feel You Have
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know simple ways of breaking free from SSDD scheduled time and entering into spontaneous play with your Queen leaving both of you giggling like teenagers again. 2. You’ll understand how getting locked in chronos time is one of the most poisonous things for killing your marriage aliveness. 3. You’ll be able to create a relaxed and happy feeling at home by being able to conscious master the balance between using the two types of universal time.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 10, 2025 • 58min
266: The 4 Unsexy, Boring Yet Excitingly Transformative Leadership Ideas Struggling Husbands Refuse to Use and Thus Remain Stuck in their Marriage Rut
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll learn a practical time trick that ultra-high performing men use and will have you quit complaining about not having time ever again. 2. You’ll learn what is possibly the simplest and most ignored peak performance hack that 99% of husbands never use and struggle as a result.3. You know how boring leaders do boringly repetitive actions that bring excitingly brilliant results…that when you tap into will transform your marriage results.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 3, 2025 • 1h 1min
265: The 4 Mental Patterns Husbands Use in Marriage to Energise Themselves…. But Only One Leads To Happily Ever After
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll recognise the signs your thinking has shifted to one of the three connection eroding mental patterns. 2. You’ll have clear access to the ultimate mental pattern that will create connection, trust and attraction on repeat for years to come. 3. This new awareness will empower you to go from conflict to clarity in seconds no matter how intense the storm of married life becomes.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 26, 2025 • 59min
264: How To Avoid The 4 Major Potholes Where Husbands Blindly Destroy The Progress They’ve Made in Marriage
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1.You’ll know how to recognise these potholes and avoid destroying the progress you’ve created 2.You’ll learn the one mindset trick that golfing legend Jack Niclaus used that set him apart from all other competitors that you can use to enter legendary husband status 3.You make a massive step in overcoming your only enemy in marriage: your righteous high. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 19, 2025 • 50min
263: This Is Probably the #1 Most Effective Marriage Transforming Strategy You’ll Ever Hear About
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll learn the one major strategic difference between great masculine leaders in any arena and the pretenders who never reach their leadership potential.2. You understand why if you want to ever feel freedom and fulfilment in marriage you simply CAN’T ignore this strategy.3. You’ll learn how to access arguably the most powerful marriage transforming tool I’ve ever created for FREEWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 12, 2025 • 54min
262: 10 Simple Ideas To Create Rapid and Radical Progress in your Marriage No Matter How Bad Things Seem Today
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll have a super simple yet comprehensive playbook to start winning in marriage today.2. You’ll learn the highest leverage ideas all my private clients use to create massive transformation in a week.3. You’ll feel a rocket boost of hope knowing that you have the power to change your marriage for the better.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

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Sep 5, 2025 • 1h 2min
261: The 5 Oppressive Married Life Pains Husbands Are Silently Suffering And Need Relief From That Wives Rarely Understand
Dive into the silent struggles many husbands face in marriage, from emotional pain to feelings of isolation. Discover the importance of self-awareness and the healing power of solitude in nature. Learn how to navigate anger and aggression, transforming these emotions into constructive communication. This insightful discussion validates the universal challenges men encounter, offering practical solutions to enhance relationships and personal fulfillment.


