

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Nov 26, 2025 • 28min
280: How To Set a Simple 3-Step Holiday Season Family Plan That Eliminates Stress While Creating Flowing Ease Your Wife Will Love You For
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You and your wife will get to the end of the holidays feeling fulfilled and connected.2. You will be the masculine leader who set up a powerful action plan that makes everyone happy. 3. You’ll drastically reduce unnecessary holiday conflict due to habitual unowned overwhelm. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 24, 2025 • 21min
279: The Most Important Holiday Season Masculine Mindset to Absolutely Nail Heroic Husband Status This Year
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll discover a Navy SEAL mindset to obliterate regular husband small-minded holiday season complaining 2. Your Queen will be able to surrender into your all in leadership. 3. You’ll grow in pride over the holiday season with how powerful you show upWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 19, 2025 • 40min
278: How To Slay Your Destructive Dragons of Self Doubt That So Desperately Want To Convince You Divorce is a Good Option
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 17, 2025 • 26min
277: The 1 Question You Need To Ask Every Day To Go From Crumbling Distrust to Building Unshakeable Trust Your Wife Will Respect and Love
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: - You’ll be able to eliminate chances of the marriage cancer of contempt ever forming in your marriage - You’ll have one question that will help you find clarity in any conflict - You’ll be able to show your wife just how mature you’ve become as a man FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message Now

Nov 14, 2025 • 1h 24min
276: Marriage Transformation Special Series with Ida and Jake Braford
In this special episode, you'll enjoy a deep and revealing conversation on the rapid and radical marriage transformation of Ida and Jake Braford. Some of the many elements of their transformational journey discussed are:
Ida sharing her experiences of struggling with Jake's defensive behaviour
Jake explaining his decision to seek coaching after recognizing his harmful patterns.
Jake's learning path to better receive feedback and improve his emotional attunement
Leading intentional conversations together helping address the impact of patriarchal systems in their relationship.
Exploring the transformative power of emotional awareness and expression, particularly for men
A deep dive in the importance of seeking external support and moving beyond reactive behaviour to foster deeper connections and personal growth.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 12, 2025 • 27min
275: How To End Your Marriage Killing Habit of Being Stuck In your Head And Snap Into Full Trust Building Presence In Seconds When It Counts The Most
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know the most powerful moment of your day to become present for full impact2. You’ll be able to eliminate tons of unnecessary conflict creating moments by this one practice.3. You’ll simply enjoy the time you spend with your family more!Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 10, 2025 • 40min
274: 4 Simple Steps To Break The Good Boy Bad Boy Pattern That Disappoints and Depresses Your Wife While Destroying Her Trust in your Leadership
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. Become awareness of the one most destructive pattern husbands show up in marriage with.2. Know how to recognise the danger signs that lead up to an inevitable rupture.3. Discover the one way your wife can help you in breaking this pattern.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 7, 2025 • 26min
273: 1 Quote from Bob Marley That Describes The Heart Essence of Conscious Masculine-Feminine Relating in Ways Rational Minded Husbands Can Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll experience an intense re-energisation of your motivation in marriage. 2. You’ll find this wisdom will help you break the Good Boy: Bad Boy pattern that kills marriage trust and connection. 3. You’ll reframe your wife’s emotional intensity in a way that allows you get turned on by it. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 5, 2025 • 18min
272: My Simple 3-Part Romantic Email Formula That Inspired My Wife To Say It Was The Best Email She Ever Got!
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll have a winning formula to create a super high impact romantic email your wife will love. 2. You’ll eliminate the risk of rejection and guesswork knowing you are using a tried and tested formula.3. You’ll have a simple 3-part formula you can use 100s of times in future to create magical spontaneous connection with not a ton of effort at all!!!Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 3, 2025 • 29min
271: One Simple Practice To Receive All The Recognition You Want and Deserve To Receive From Your Wife
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know why specific recognition is infinitely more important for husband vs general recognition. 2. You’ll know a simple weekly practice to receive all the recognition you could ever want from your wife.3. You’ll have a counter-balancing grounding force to help you embrace your Queen’s fieriest feedback.Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsDo the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:Home - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast


