

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Nov 9, 2023 • 1h 14min
140: "Unleashing Your Savage and Saint Self-Leadership" with Michael Holt
We welcome in Michael Holt, an absolute badass in the arena of masculine vitality, self-leadership and living in integrity with your highest calling as a man. His potent and passionate message of Savage and Saint masculine philosophy will not fail to ignite a blazing fire of desire to align your life with your highest calling to self-mastery. Get ready to integrate your light and shadow, your saint and savage, and become the King you were born to become!!! Let’s begin…. To connect with Michael: Website: SAVAGE AND SAINT Michael Holt (@savageandsaint) • Instagram photos and videos Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 8, 2023 • 1h 30min
139: Why Every Husband Needs To Experience A Mid-Life Crisis
The male mid-life crisis caricature is a man who drop kicks his wife and family life, buys a sports car, begins living in his local CrossFit gym trying to hang out with cool people and finds the nearest twenty-year-old girl with father issues who wants to f!ck while feeling safely held. In this episode Mark argues the case that society would be infinitely better off if every husband experiences a mid-life awakening. No need for crisis, but total need for a widespread transformational awakening of husbands authentic masculine souls to create married lives that honour their sacred inner knowing. Only then, will a husband’s heart and soul be at one with life, and from there will he be able to love and accept his married life as the greatest platform to experience his infinite freedom from. Get ready for a revelatory ride of a lifetime! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 2, 2023 • 1h 30min
138: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Ty Humphries
We welcome in our third Marriage Transforming Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles, the badass masculine heart warrior Ty Humphries from Circle#1. Lean in to this raw and radically honest heart sharing from a man whose practice of becoming at one with his inner demons has allowed him emerge powerfully into embodied masculine leadership in marriage. His embodied wisdom from the hard yards he has gained along his inner work journey so far, will open every husband up to a new world of possibility and hope no matter how challenging your marriage octagon feels today. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 1, 2023 • 50min
137: 10 Marriage Breakdown Warning Signs Husbands Don’t Notice
The most catastrophic capacity modern husbands possess in marriage is the ability to minimise and normalise how bad things really are. Listen in and wake up to finally noticing the inarguable signs that the house of your marriage may be unwittingly burning down. All marriage transformation heroics starts with the hero of the story getting radically honest with where he and his marriage are truly at. All divorces stem from husbands sticking their heads in the sand avoiding the truth. Maybe it’s time to drop your spiritual balls and have the Kingly courage to get uncomfortably real?? Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 26, 2023 • 1h 31min
136: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Andrew Grist
We welcome in Andrew Grist, our second extraordinary heroic husband in our Marriage Transformation Heroes special series. Andrew takes us on a beautifully articulated journey into the depths of his deep inner work journey from over-coming his inner demons and vices to emerging victorious in the arena of marriage and heart warriorship with his sacred Queen. Don’t miss his impromptu rapping performance of masculine spiritual poetry near the end. It encapsulates the depth of embodied wisdom the spiritual pain of his life’s journey has carved out in the character of this truly inspiring man. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 25, 2023 • 1h 12min
135: 16 Powerful Actions To Win Her Hurting Heart Back
A Queen with a hurting heart sets a formidable gauntlet before her husband. Everything her nervous system communicates says, “rise into embodied Kingship or you will never gain access to my heart again.” In the majority of such cases, both the husband and the marriage burn up in the fire of her ferocious challenge to his mediocrity in love and connection. Yet, the brave masculine souls who rise to the challenge become the Kings they were born to become and the husband she’s proud to have at her side in battle once more. This episode is their battle plan! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 19, 2023 • 1h 24min
134: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Brendan Savage
We welcome in real-life Marriage Transforming Hero Brendan Savage to share his radically authentic story of doing whatever was necessary to become a better husband and father. From his childhood cultural upbringing where emotions were savagely frowned upon and shamed to his learning how to face and embrace his inner demons and come out victorious in self-love, communication, intimacy and marriage. An inspirational story of a regular man doing irregularly intense deep inner work within Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles to become a leading force of love and presence in his family. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 18, 2023 • 1h 11min
133: 3 Secrets To Unfu!king Your Marriage
Using inspiration from John Gottman, the badass revolutionary of marriage therapy research, Mark digs deep into three essential pillars to unfu!king whatever struggles you are experiencing in your marriage. The sharing went profound and deep into challenging you to reach deeper into your power than ever before as a husband and man. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 12, 2023 • 1h 19min
132: "Soul-Centered Leadership In Marriage And Career" with David Peralta
We welcome in David Peralta to tell his inspiring story of saving his severely struggling marriage by reconnecting with his soul-centered purpose in life. This is a true heart warrior’s perspective of what it takes to battle through destructive inner demons by learning to face and embrace them head on.An inspiring story of what is possible for us as husbands and fathers if we have the courage to find the solution to all our external world problems by looking within. Let’s begin…. To connect with David: Website: The Soul Centered Founder To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?Apply to Join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.meI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 11, 2023 • 57min
131: 3 Steps To Stopping Resentment Kill Your Marriage
Resentment is the ultimate corrosive acid in love, which if ignored, relentlessly gnaws away at the foundations of your marriage. This episode will help you recognise signs of resentment and most importantly, provide a systematic conversational platform to reveal and heal this deadly enemy of loving connection. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast


