

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Oct 5, 2023 • 1h 14min
130: "Stop Parenting And Start Leading" with Thomas Pfanner
We welcome in the inspiring Thomas Pfanner and his heroic story of learning leadership in parenting under extreme circumstances. Having to seek legal aid to just hold his son in his arms two weeks after his birth to learning to deal with years of persistent resistance and kickback to his leadership as a father, Thomas would face an uphill battle to overcome all the odds and successfully be a great father. It’s a story every family man needs to hear. Let’s begin…. To connect with Thomas: Website: Dads Who LeadWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 4, 2023 • 1h 23min
129: 3 Ways To Stop Screwing Up Communication In Marriage
What kills marriages is poor communication. 99.99% of poor communication involves three classic steps that create nothing but disconnection and mistrust. Conscious communication involves doing these three steps in exactly the opposite order! This episode gives you the complete Heroic Husbands conscious communication approach that husbands inside Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles are using to totally transform their marriages. If you are serious about transforming your marriage, this is one episode you cannot miss! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 28, 2023 • 31min
128: This One Mindset Change Guarantees You Will Win In Marriage
A positive mentality is essential to creating success in any arena. In the Octagon of marriage, mentality is crucial. Most husbands mentality in marriage unwittingly sets them up for inevitable and severe loss of love and connection. In this episode Mark reveals the single most effective mentality with which to approach your marriage…..but only if you truly want to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship!!! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 27, 2023 • 1h 10min
127: The One Essential Move To Win Her Heart Back Forever
Ignore what’s presented in this episode and your marriage is doomed to long-term struggle or ultimate failure. Integrate this episode’s wisdom and she’s guaranteed to open her heart forever more with you. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 21, 2023 • 1h 13min
126: "How Your Phone Is Wrecking Your Relationships" with Joey Odom
Get ready to enjoy a truly passionate conversation with the legendary Joey Odom from Aro on today’s episode. Joey tells his heart-breaking stories of missed family memories because of getting stuck scrolling through meaningless stuff on his social media feed. Sound familiar? This is a much-needed no-BS conversation between family men on what is truly at stake if we don’t wake up to the damage of uncontrolled phone usage on our family and marital dynamics. Joey gifts us the #1 highest leverage and simple to implement strategy to transform your marriage starting from today. It’s simplicity will have you living out a marriage and family phone revolution from today onwards. Let’s begin…. To connect with Joey’s mission at Aro: Website: Aro | Turn Screen Time into Family Time (goaro.com) Podcast: Aro | The Aro Podcast (goaro.com) Aro (@goaronow) • Instagram photos and videos Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 20, 2023 • 1h 2min
125: 10 Hacks To Unlock Your Sexual Peak Performance Tonight
Part of a 2-part special series, this episode introduces you to ten epic techniques and strategies to get you out of your head and deeply into your animal body ready for wild sex with your Queen. Most men struggle to switch their heads off during sex resulting in women being the first to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships most of the time. Stuck in your head, the sex for her is dead! Armed with these super-simple ideas you are set up for the best sex yet to happen the next time you and your Queen are ready to get down and dirty together!!!! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 14, 2023 • 32min
124: 1 Bedtime Secret To Never Go Soft Or Explode Too Soon!
Tons of men around the planet often have the sexual experience of either being frustratingly too soft or prematurely ejaculating too soon. Unnecessary sexual shame with our inner critic beating the shit out of ourselves ensues, with us forming a love/hate relationship with having sex with our Queens. This episode shares one simple breathwork awareness and practice that will support you mastering your sexual performance when it counts the most. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 13, 2023 • 1h 5min
123: 8 Reasons You Should Never Do Marriage Therapy
Mark reveals his eight personal reasons why marriage therapy is the last thing he would ever advise a man or couple to start doing in the hopes to save their marriage. Blunt, no-BS straight talking on what could be one of the most important potential decisions of your adult life.Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 8, 2023 • 1h 42min
122: "Loving Your Queen Who's Been Sexually Abused" with Matilde Crocini
The #MeToo movement awakened global awareness of the extraordinary number of women who have experienced sexual abuse.Yet very little is spoken of the immense struggle this widespread wounding creates in the private lives of married couples around the planet. Husbands doing their best to love but feeling like their best is never enough, while their Queens often never feel seen, heard or safe in the relationship living with the secret cross of shame and alienation. In this special episode, Mark and his Queen Matilde, pull back the curtains on their journey of healing along this very path together. Filled with hope along with precise strategies and approaches to support you rejuvenating loving understanding and connection beyond the pain. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 6, 2023 • 1h 16min
121: Masculine Archetypes: The 4 Secret Superpowers of Heroic Husbands
Four untapped super powers lay dormant within you. Lying dormant, marriage will always be an unending struggle.Reactivated, these four super powers will have you rise to becoming the marriage transforming hero of your relationship.These are your 4 Masculine Archetypes: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover.Do you have the spiritual curiosity to activate them and reveal your greatest expressed power as the Heroic Husband you were born to be?(I know your Queen would be passionately curious to see what this man would look and feel like!!!!)Let's begin..... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast


