

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Dec 20, 2023 • 48min
150: Eliminate Her Holiday Season Husband Criticism With This Strategic Masterplan
“Tis the season to be jolly, fa la la la la”…… and all that impossible expectations load of crap we’re bombarded with in modern marketing about this time of year. The unspoken reality behind closed doors in marriages, is that this time of year magnifies the crack lines ten-fold. The impossible standard to create the perfect holiday season for kids and visitors drive most wives to overwhelm leaving them lean in completely on their Kings for leadership impeccability….but what will his response be? Boy energy or King energy? Can he even tell the difference?If you want to dominate this holiday season like the conscious Kingly badass that you are, then strap yourself in and get ready for full empowerment mode. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Dec 14, 2023 • 1h 6min
149: Marriage Is Ceaseless Suffering Until You Build This Simple Practice
The great tragedy of men in modern society is the all-pervasive lack of felt permission to love oneself completely. Every man who enters deep men’s work comes to know he is not alone with his daily struggle of having his Inner Critic try to push him around in his inner world. So long as you are unconsciously dominated by this ruthless aspect of your Shadow, you will struggle in life and marriage. Today you enter an intimate journey travelling to the heart of where the start, middle and end of your self-healing and marriage transformation journey lies. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Dec 8, 2023 • 1h 52min
148: "Decoding The Fantasy Of What Women Want" with Matilde Crocini
Join Mark and his Queen on a unique journey to decoding what women most want in their life partners by recognising the secret signs that lie in all successful romantic fantasy books written for female audiences. The male characters in the love relationships in these books embody with total clarity how the ideal masculine partner shows up in intimate relating. This provocatively challenging episode is only appropriate for husbands with the spiritual balls to get humble, and prepare the ground of their being to raise their inner world and relationship standards like never before. This episode clearly sets down a playbook for masculine relationship greatness for men willing to get their spiritual hands dirty and do the work!!! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Dec 7, 2023 • 57min
147: If Your Wife Is Jealous Then Listen To This NOW!
Nearly every husband has experienced his Queen giving him an earful at times for how he has been interacting with other women. This distrust can be overwhelming and at times and become a major reason for marriage conflict and breakdown. Most men have never radically questioned their ways of relating with other women outside of their marriage. This episode goes deeply into one of the most important shadow topics every husband needs to get real about in order to truly safeguard his marriage and the heart of his Queen. Expect a provocative challenge to your ways of relating with your world, a challenge that will ultimately serve love to thrive in your marriage like never before!!! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 30, 2023 • 1h 32min
146: "How To Help Your Son Become A Man" with Don Ross
This is a kick-ass conversation with Don Ross on the sacred topic supporting fathers take the guesswork out of helping your son become a man. Don describes simple and engaging ways you can start today preparing your son for adulthood. Get ready for a passionate, uncensored dive into deep masculine embodied spirituality challenging you to show up in the most potent way for your son. Let’s begin…. To connect with Don: Dad/Son Challenge (manhoodtribes.com)First Tribe: Path to Manhood (manhoodtribes.com) Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 29, 2023 • 1h 6min
145: Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship
There exists a widespread felt destructive tension in marriages between a woman’s desire for a man to prioritise the relationship and his desire to prioritise his purpose as #1 in his life. Some spiritual teachings, or the interpretation of such teachings, add to the confusion and hurt this topic causes in marriages world-wide. This episode is a call to action to a deeper way of relating with purpose that fills up your Queen’s heart with love and sets the basis for her to naturally gift you her entire support for living your greatest purpose. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 23, 2023 • 1h 40min
144: "Conflict Resolution Made Simple For Rational Minded Men" with James "Fish" Gill
We welcome in the uniquely brilliant genius of Fish Gill and his beautifully simple recipe for creating connection out of any relational conflict. The greatest pain of every husband is feeling hopeless in transmitting their ocean of love for their beautiful Queen through their language and bodies in ways that she can feel and receive it. Fish illuminates a simple pathway and repeatable process to end conflict and plant incessant seeds of connection and love that actually land supporting both hearts to thrive. This ended up personally being one of Mark’s most emotional interviews yet. To connect with Fish: HEART COACH - leadbyheart.com (@james_fish_gill) • Instagram photos and videos Website: About James 'Fish' Gill — leadbyheart Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 22, 2023 • 1h 8min
143: How To Alchemise Marital Conflicts Into Hero Husband Status
Heroic Husbands learn to align their entire existence in support of gifting their authentic truth and love to their marriage and world. The only path that works is the initiatory path of claiming extreme ownership for everything in your existence….including a shitty conflict-ridden marriage!!! Here is a case study of how to use extreme ownership to turn conflict into the greatest opportunity for growth thus setting yourself up for Hero Husband status really soon.Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 16, 2023 • 33min
142: The Most Stupidly Easy Strategy To Upgrade Your Marriage Experience
There exists one practice in marriage that lies as the ultimate King of high leverage strategies (when used!!!) to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship. No matter how good or bad your marriage experience is, this is your most direct route to reaching the next level and entering Hero Husband status. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 15, 2023 • 1h 6min
141: 2 Steps To Stopping Your Inner Critic Sabotaging Your Marriage
There’s a part of every husband’s mind that secretly blames his wife and married life for being the cause of his lack of felt freedom and inner peace in life. In most cases, it’s a truly nasty voice that thinks of nothing at character assassinating the woman you love most in this world….at least during and after conflict. Right? The key secret of marriage transformation heroes is bringing this voice from the shadows and alchemising it’s raw energy into love. Here are the two secrets how to perform this miraculous transformation now. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast


