Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Christmas Eve. For many, it's the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn't have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Psalm 46:10 reminds us, "Be still, and know that I am God." At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season's frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about the Christmas story itself. Jesus was born quietly, resting in a manger, embraced by peace at just the right time. That's a sacred stillness that can stir your heart for life. The K.I.S.S. ~ A sacred stillness! What if this Christmas Eve, instead of adding to your checklists, you created a new ritual grounded in stillness and gratitude? Light a candle. Share stories with loved ones. Pray or meditate in silence. "This Christmas, let presence replace pressure." ~ Kristianne Wargo Give yourself the gift of rest and renewal. Let Christmas Eve be your sanctuary from the storm—a moment to breathe, appreciate, and embrace the true spirit of the season. A Gift for You on Christmas Eve by Kristianne Wargo You, who carry all the lists, The plates, the plans, the endless gifts— Who paints the smiles on every face, While your own heart quickens its pace. Tonight, the world will spin and race, But here's a quiet, sacred place: A candle's glow, a whispered prayer, A moment caught between the care. Be still. Release the toils, the hurry, The fevered wrap, the tired scurry. This night was made for peaceful rest, For weary souls to be refreshed. Remember how the story goes— No trumpet blares, no rush or shows— A newborn wrapped in humble grace, Resting in a quiet space. So lay your burdens gently down, Let silence be your Christmas crown. In stillness find your heart's delight, And hold this calm through Christmas night. Give yourself the gift you crave: Presence, peace, your soul to save. Tonight, you're more than all you do — This Christmas Eve is just for you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Christmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it's natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the reason for the season itself. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The Bible reminds us in Galatians 6:9, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." That "harvest" is the joy and peace that come from holding steady through life's storms. But what if you're too tired to keep going? What if the mess is drowning out the music and dimming the lights? It's okay to acknowledge that struggle. Faith isn't about perfection or having it all together. It's about choosing to see the blessings even when life's mess tries to convince you otherwise. Psalm 34:18 offers this comfort: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You don't have to buy into the chaos. The mess is real, but it's not the whole story. The heart of Christmas is about hope, love, and a promise made thousands of years ago—a promise that life can be renewed, that light can break through darkness. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find joy when life feels messy! Remember the story of Jesus's birth. It unfolded not in a palace but in a humble stable, surrounded by the noise and disorder of everyday life. Even there, in the middle of the mess, God's greatest gift was given. That's not a coincidence. It shows us that joy is possible no matter the circumstances. If you're struggling this season, consider this your invitation to be a living legacy, to breathe hope into your days. Romans 15:13 says, "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." It may feel hard to believe right now, but joy is not reserved for perfect moments. It's for the tired, the worn-out, the overwhelmed. It is there waiting to be claimed. So this Christmas Eve, as the world rushes and your energy wanes, choose to fix your eyes on the blessings rather than the mess. Celebrate the small victories: a kind word, a shared smile, a moment of peace. The season isn't just about decorations or presents—it's a chance to step into the enduring joy that outshines any difficulty. Your effort to embrace this season's true meaning is the seed you plant now for a harvest of lasting hope. You've got what it takes to carry that light this year and into the new year. The mess might be loud, but your joy can be louder. Keep going. The best is yet to come. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an impact, even in the chaos? Here's the truth: You don't have to lose who you are this Christmas just because the world feels wild. Impact isn't about changing the whole planet in one swipe. It's about doing what matters most in the circles you touch — your family, friends, neighbors, church, colleagues, and community. You are meant for more. But you must be willing to find harmony in the spinning. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find harmony in the spinning! The craziness and chaos do not stop just because you wish them to. It requires you to find a way to slow down so you spin your wheels less. Here are three powerful ways to see straight when the world feels dizzy—and to let your light shine steadily, no matter the season. 1. Take Control of Your Mindset, Even if You Can't Control the World Chaos and noise outside don't have to dictate your inner world. You always control your attitude and your choices—those are your real superpowers. Paul nailed it in Philippians 4:8: "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." Make your mind a fortress of hope and gratitude, especially when everything seems upside down. Example: Start each morning by listing three things you're grateful for. This simple act re-centers your focus and sets the tone for the day, no matter how out of control the world gets. 2. Simplify Your Holidays to Highlight What Truly Matters The holidays don't need to be a never-ending checklist of parties, gifts, and stress. Too often, we lose sight of the core of the season: connection, generosity, and reflection. What feeds your soul? You don't want to leave out the most important things. So stop overlooking what you value during this holiday season. Put what feeds your soul at the top of the list. The rest? Cut loose. Example: Pick two or three traditions that bring real joy and let the rest go. Maybe it's a quiet family dinner, a volunteer day, singing Christmas carols, reading the Bible, or just giving yourself time to unplug. When you strip away the excess, the good stuff shines brighter. 3. Make Small Acts of Love Your Holiday Impact You don't have to fix the vast swirling problems of the world. What matters is the difference you make right where you are—with small, intentional acts that ripple outward. Mother Teresa said it best: "Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love." This season, your impact is in those small moments. Example: Write a sincere note to someone who needs encouragement, donate winter clothes, or listen attentively. These simple acts keep you connected to the purpose and spread light when everything else feels dark. Remember: You're not powerless because the world spins wildly. You see straight when you take charge of your mindset, refuse to be distracted from what counts, and show up with love in your corner of the world. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us, "But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." Patience, faith, and focused action will keep you steady when the world tries to pull you under. This Christmas, impact starts with you. Not because you control everything, but because you control the difference you choose to make. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Love is the word that's everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn't just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com This is love in action—God giving what mattered most, stepping into the messy human history vulnerable and exposed. That's the real deal. Remember the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). Love isn't about just feeling sorry or saying nice words. It's about choosing to act—even when it's inconvenient or uncomfortable. Loving others means breaking down walls, crossing social boundaries, and showing compassion where it's least expected. God gave you and me the greatest gift, LOVE!! The K.I.S.S. ~ Love—the greatest gift! Love won't always feel good or easy, but it's the choice that will change your relationships, your community, and in time, your world. This Advent, don't settle for a love that's just background noise. Step into the love that moves, acts, and sacrifices — just like God showed us, and continues to show us every single day. When you begin to question, 'Where is God?' and 'Does God really love me?' — Go back to where it all began. Remind yourself of the sacrifices and deliberate actions God made, the gift He gave, and the God winks that are around you every day. Love is a daily challenge for all of us, yet it's the greatest gift you can give and receive. When you lead with love, you live out the heart of Christmas every day. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you're sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you're in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It's this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it's a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again. Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in relationships. It's a mirror reflecting both your deepest hopes and your rawest frustrations. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The pressure to "make it perfect" can trigger disappointments, and the pile-up of tasks leaves little room for patience. Add busy family schedules, travel stress, and well-meaning but intrusive advice from relatives, and it's no surprise couples sometimes reach their breaking point. But it doesn't have to be that way. Christmas is more than gifts and glitter; it's an opportunity to root your marriage in grace and a deeper love that withstands storms. It's a chance to reboot your connection—to fall in love all over again by focusing on what really counts: kindness, presence, and intentionality. Love isn't found in grand gestures alone. It's found in the small, daily choices to be kind, to listen, and to nurture one another. It's about making the space to truly see your partner beneath the noise of the holidays. When couples remember this, the season shifts from a source of stress to a wellspring of hope. The K.I.S.S. ~ Shift your season by connecting! Here's how you can deepen your connection during this busy season—and beyond. 1. Choose Grace Over Grievance "The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love." —Psalm 103:8 In the frenzy of the holidays, imperfections become magnified. Your partner forgets to pick up a gift Tension mounts over family logistics Frustration bubbles under the surface But falling in love again starts with choosing grace instead of grudges. Remember, grace isn't ignoring problems; it's opening space for healing. When tempers flare, pause and breathe. Instead of escalating conflict, say to yourself: "I'm choosing love over being right." An original truth to hold on to: Love grows when we give it the room to breathe, not the weight to suffocate. Extend forgiveness freely—because holding on to small hurts only sinks the connection. 2. Create Meaningful Moments Amid the Madness "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up." —Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Connection isn't just about big displays; it's built on small actions. Whether wrapped up in holiday errands or catching the end of a Christmas movie, these little moments create "sticky" bonds that glue hearts together. Think beyond gifts: Share a quiet walk after decorating Cook a meal together Write down what you appreciate about each other. These acts signal, "You matter to me," stronger than the most expensive present. As I often say, "Life gets messy, but love is built in the moments you're both fully present—even if it's just for five minutes." Seek those pockets of genuine connection every day. 3. Speak Words That Nurture and Build "Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones." —Proverbs 16:24 Words carry enormous power in relationships, especially during stressful seasons. It's easy to default to criticism or complaints. But what if you flipped the script? What if your words became the bridge, not the wedge? Make a habit of sincere compliments, encouragement, and affirmations. Tell your partner what you love about them, what you notice they do, and how they make your life better. Speak life into your marriage. "Your voice can either deepen love or drain it—choose to speak as if your words water a garden." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Whether you're together in the same room or miles apart this Christmas, opportunities to love are woven into your daily actions." ~ Kristianne Wargo Those connections, small yet profound, make life sticky. And a sticky marriage is one that lasts. So this season, leave behind the holiday chaos as an excuse. Instead, let Christmas be the season you fall in love all over again—rooting your marriage not in perfection, but in grace, presence, and heartfelt words. That's the best kind of gift there is. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family's focus. And the good news? You don't need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy reels. What you need are intentional, standout traditions that pause the chaos and plant the real meaning of Christmas deep in your family's heart. The K.I.S.S. ~ Plant the real meaning of Christmas! It matters! So don't hold back when you think about traditions or experiences during the holidays. Secure your indescribable moments with actions. Here are three unique, extraordinary things your family can do during this final stretch—the kind of moments no one forgets and keeps the reason for Christmas front and center: 1. The "Gift of Gratitude" Jar Most families do an Advent calendar or a countdown chain. Here's a twist: start a "Gift of Gratitude" jar. Each day, every family member writes down one thing they're deeply thankful for or one way they see God's love at work. Drop it in the jar. On Christmas Eve, gather around and read these out loud. It's raw, it's real, and it redirects everyone's hearts away from the frenzy to the blessings they already have. 2. Create a Living Nativity Family-Style Forget a generic Christmas pageant. Make your home the stage. On one evening, gather as a family, assign roles, and act out the nativity story with a creative twist—improvise, use household items as costumes or props, make it fun and memorable. Not only does this bring the story alive in a fresh way, but the laughter and teamwork make the true meaning stick firmly in your family's minds and hearts. 3. The Midnight "Light and Hope" Walk When the house finally quiets and the world outside feels still, take a simple walk together under the stars. Bring flashlights. Talk about how Jesus is the light shining in the darkness. Let each kid say one hope they have this Christmas—for themselves, the family, or the world. This moment of quiet reflection cracks open space for peace amid the chaos—and builds a memory that will shine long after the holiday rush. The Christmas countdown isn't about rushing through; it's a call to pause to make the season matter. Don't treat these like just activities. They're heart-work. Seeds of faith and focus that outlive the wrapping paper and glitter. So amid the whirlwind, don't just survive—be bold and create your now; those moments that anchor your family in the true, beautiful reason of Christmas. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, "You matter," "I love you," and "This year will be the best ever." Only to find it's backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what's already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn't wrapped and tied with a bow. It's your presence. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Yes, you showing up. Sitting down. Laughing, listening, and simply being there—with no agenda to perfect the moment or achieve Pinterest-worthy magic. "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also," says Matthew 6:21. It's a simple but profound reminder that what we invest our time and energy in is what truly counts. Worrying over getting the perfect present often steals us from what really matters—unwrapping moments with those who love us, messy and real. Remember the timeless holiday classic, "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas"? It's not about the gifts but the warm presence of loved ones. The song urges us, "Through the years we all will be together if the fates allow." It tells us presence sustains joy beyond any fleeting object. The K.I.S.S. ~ Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! You're not alone in the pressure cooker of perfection. From sugar cookies burning in the oven to dashed shipping promises, chaos is part of the holiday story—just like the night in Bethlehem when there was no room at the inn. Yet, in that seeming scramble, the most sacred gift was given: Emmanuel, God with us. So if you're staring down a pile of "to-buys" and feeling the anxiety rising, pause. Take a breath. Your presence—the time, attention, and heart you offer—is a gift that can't be backordered or lost in shipping glitches. It's the only gift that matters. This season, give yourself permission to let go of the perfect presents. Instead, carve out space for imperfect, unforgettable moments. Sit down for hot cocoa. Tell that "uncle joke" again. Pick your battles and pass on the madness of the perfect wrapping paper. As Charles Dickens wrote in A Christmas Carol, "I will honour Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year." Your presence—steady, patient, engaged—is the real magic that lasts beyond wrapping paper and blinking lights. Oh, sugar cookies, this year choose presence over presents. Because no gift can compare to the gift of being truly there. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The holidays don't just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don't fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn't something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to "show up" or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That's wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your job, especially when the chaos is screaming for your attention. That means knowing when to pause, when to say no, and how to carve out quiet space for your mind and soul. This isn't just feel-good fluff. Jesus said it clearly: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you" (John 14:27). This is an invitation to tap into a calm deeper than your circumstances—a peace that exists even when everything around you feels out of control. Meet Rachel. Last Christmas, she was overwhelmed by nonstop family demands. She made one simple but powerful choice: she said no to a draining event and spent that night journaling and praying, grounding herself in gratitude. The result? She showed up the next day refreshed, less reactive, and fully present—a rare gift in the holiday madness. You don't have to accept holiday exhaustion or social burnout as your default. So, build in these mental rest points throughout your day. The K.I.S.S. ~ Build in mental rest points! Think about what you have been doing up until today. What has worked and what hasn't? Here are three mental health moves you can make now: Practice daily gratitude. Write three things you're thankful for each morning to shift focus from stress to abundance. Create a tech detox window. Even 30 minutes unplugged daily can quiet the noise and recharge your brain. Set clear boundaries. It's okay to say no. Protect your peace by limiting social events or demanding conversations. When you build these mental rest points into your holiday calendar, you don't just survive December—you claim it as a season of peace and joy. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

December screams at us with a million demands—end-of-year wrap-ups, gift lists that stretch forever, parties, commitments, and the constant pressure to "do it all." The noise is deafening. It's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. But life isn't about doing all the things—it's about doing what's worth doing; hope in the hustle. At some point, you have to step back and be okay with simply feeling the spirit of Christmas. That feeling—quiet, humble, and real—deserves the front seat in a season that so often feels chaotic. It's what holds the true meaning of the holidays: connection, presence, and hope. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Maybe you feel a little like the Grinch. Tired? Overwhelmed? Feeling "blah" or like the Grinch really did steal Christmas? You're not alone. The weight of expectations can suck the joy dry fast. But here's the thing: hope is still alive, quietly waiting in the cracks of your overwhelmed heart. That hope comes from a little baby born in a manger—an ancient, powerful reminder that even in the darkest, busiest, most complicated times, light breaks through. It doesn't come with glitter or fanfare. It comes quietly and calls you to be still, to be present, and to let go of what you can't control. The K.I.S.S. ~ Hope in the hustle! Let Go of the Past—Create Your Now Don't carry the weight of holiday disappointments, old regrets, or "should-have-beens." They're chains that keep you stuck in a season that's already happening. Instead, be present for the people who are right in front of you. Your family, your friends, even yourself. Presence is the real gift—not perfection, not overdone decorations, not a mile-long to-do list checked off. Presence means showing up with your heart and mind. It means listening without distraction. It means choosing connection over chaos. Be Encouraged This Christmas, give yourself permission to slow down. To say no to the noise. To embrace what matters most: hope, peace, and love in action. When everything else pushes for the front, choose what sustains you. Hold onto hope—not because everything is perfect, but because grace is always enough. The story of a baby in a manger is a story of new beginnings, fresh starts, and a gentle reminder that light still shines in the darkness. So don't be the one holding onto the chaos of yesterday. Be the one who brings your full presence to today. After all, presence is what matters most. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

When you think about the holidays, it's usually the thoughts that strangle the hope of the season. At some point, you have to figure out how to cut through the noise, silence the chaos, and turn up the volume of "I can." But you know that takes commitment. Trim your thoughts, not the tree. Here's the thing: It's not the physical decorations or the packed schedules weighing you down. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com It's the clutter in your mind—the relentless swirl of worries, doubts, and negative self-talk that steals your joy and energy. Your mind is your most powerful tool, but left unchecked, it becomes your biggest obstacle. Trimming your thoughts means renewing your mind. It's a radical choice to take control of your inner narrative, shift the story you tell yourself, and create space for hope, clarity, and action. The K.I.S.S. ~ Trim your thoughts to renew your mind! Here are three practical ways to start: 1. Identify and Cut Out Toxic Thought Patterns You can't prune what you don't see. Start by becoming a ruthless thought detective. When negativity pops up—whether it's fear, "I'm not enough," or overwhelm—call it out. Bring that truth into the light. Philippians 4:8 tells us to focus on what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, and excellent. Ask yourself: Does this thought align with that? If not, it's dead weight. Toss it. Replace it with truth. "Every lie you shrink from reveals the door you must boldly open." ~ Kristianne Wargo 2. Reframe with Renewed Beliefs Your mind is a garden. If you water weeds, they grow. If you plant hope, it flourishes. Romans 12:2 commands us not to conform to the chaos of the world but be transformed by renewing our minds. Reframing isn't about fake optimism—it's about anchoring your mind in what's possible, achievable, and worthy. For every "I can't," ask "How can I?" "Choosing one empowered thought rewires your brain for a hundred opportunities." ~ Kristianne Wargo 3. Practice Focused Stillness and Gratitude Amid the holiday noise, stillness feels impossible. Yet, Psalm 46:10 says, "Be still, and know that I am God." Intentional quiet gives you power over your own mental noise. Use journaling or prayer to list what you're grateful for—gratitude resets your mental filter from scarcity to abundance. "Gratitude is the mental reset button that recharges your heart's hope." ~ Kristianne Wargo The holidays won't perfect themselves. But trimming your thoughts—that relentless mental pruning—is the greatest gift you can give yourself. It clears the path for purpose, peace, and power that no schedule or decoration can match. You're not here to endure the season. You're here to own it. So, this year, skip the needle-stabbing tree and start inside your head. Your mind needs the light most of all. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.