Parenting Teenagers Untangled: The award-winning podcast for parents of tweens and teens, offering realistic, science-backed advice for calmer, more connected family life.

Rachel Richards
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Mar 4, 2026 • 33min

Parenting teens in an age of AI, Nudes and Online Blackmail

Emma Hardy, Director at the Internet Watch Foundation, who leads efforts to trace and remove child sexual abuse imagery. She discusses how teen nude sharing can become criminalized, how the Report Remove service works, grooming and sextortion tactics, and new risks from AI and nudifying tools. Practical advice includes family tech rules, TALK conversations, and where to get urgent help and takedowns.
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Feb 25, 2026 • 27min

The Thing Parents, Tweens and Teens Need Most: Mattering with Jennifer Breheny-Wallace

Jennifer Wallace, award-winning journalist and author of Mattering, explores why feeling valued matters for teens and adults. She explains how adolescence and achievement pressure erode worth. Practical ideas include reducing criticism, prioritizing affection, strengthening adults’ own sense of value, and leaning into intrinsic values over social media‑driven comparison.
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Feb 18, 2026 • 35min

Parenting Teens So They Don't Stop Talking to Us When They're Older

Ask Rachel anythingWhen Brooklyn Beckham publicly announced he didn't want to reconcile with his parents he was joining a painful catalogue of family stories that have gone wrong. Estrangement is reportedly on the rise in Western societies but what's behind it? Dr Joshua Coleman spends his life working with estranged parents so he sees, first hand, the main factors that can lead to it. He highlights that while emotional abuse is often cited as a cause, it's often a matter of unmet expectations and generational differences. Some of the core drivers are divorce, children marrying someone who doesn't get on with your family, social media ideals, therapy culture and individualism. Given that estrangement can be emotionally devastating for parents, leading to feelings of isolation and loss, he advises parents to take their children's complaints seriously and to be open to therapy and family discussions.  Dr Joshua Coleman:Family Troubles: https://joshuacolemanphd.substack.com/https://joshuacolemanphd.substack.com/p/how-to-not-become-estrangedhttps://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/Teenagers Untangled Community Substack:https://teenagersuntangled.substack.com/Support the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com My website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.comFind me on Substack: https://teenagersuntangled.substack.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk
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Feb 11, 2026 • 31min

Tween and teen parenting for a healthy body image, and getting teens to do chores. Vintage

Susie Asli, a mindfulness coach and mother of three teens, brings practical mindfulness and parenting wisdom. They explore how cultural pressure and social media warp body image. They discuss praising body function, spotting warning signs, and simple, teachable ways to get teens doing meaningful chores.
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Feb 4, 2026 • 55min

Intense tween and teen friendships and the most important things a parent can say

Megan Saxelby, an early-adolescent parent coach and former middle-school teacher, explains why friendships feel so intense for 10–14 year olds. She explores the neuroscience of belonging and social pain. Short, practical ideas on validating feelings, avoiding rescue, naming behaviors instead of calling kids dramatic, and small school nudges that boost connection.
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Jan 28, 2026 • 39min

Positive Parenting: Using Strengths to Motivate and Understand our Tweens and Teens

Naomi Glover, an applied neuroscientist focused on neuroinclusion and strengths-based parenting, offers practical strategies for ADHD, anxiety and focus. She explains leading with strengths, using curiosity instead of blame, naming specific praise as powerful recognition, and simple brain hacks like routines, single-tasking and breath or nature resets to reduce overload.
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Jan 21, 2026 • 48min

Parenting Teens Who're Online: Protecting Them From Predators

In this enlightening discussion, Anna Sonoda, a licensed clinical social worker and grooming-prevention specialist, exposes the alarming stages of grooming that often go unnoticed by parents. She reveals her insights from counseling sex offenders, emphasizing that most abuse occurs at home, through familiar faces. Anna introduces her '4F formula'—flattery, favoritism, forbidden fruits, and fear—and stresses the importance of open dialogue and setting tech boundaries. With practical advice, she empowers parents to create a safer environment and foster strong connections with their kids.
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Jan 14, 2026 • 52min

How parents of teens can raise happy, successful adults

Ask Rachel anythingHint: it depends on how you define happy and successful.We all want our kids to be happy and successful but what does that mean? In today's episode, I'm joined by Giselle Goodwin, author of Can Women Really Have it All? to talk about our definitions of success and happiness, and how they impact the way we parent. In this changing landscape where what we inherit can mean more than how hard we work what expectations should we have, and what message should we be giving our kids about their future if we want them to be happy? Do we have much of impact anyway?Eldest daughter syndrome:https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/eldest-daughter-syndrome-and-the-trouble-with-parentification/The Family Dynamic and the Role of our Community in our Success:https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/141-success-what-nobody-tells-us-about-the-role-of-siblings-are-parents-that-important/Inheritcocracy: How Society has Changed the Rules of Successhttps://www.teenagersuntangled.com/136-society-has-changed-are-education-and-hard-work-less-important-now-than-parents/Dr David Yeager: 10 to 25 'Status and Respect'https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/motivation-how-to-motivate-your-teenager-and-why-blame-and-shame-doesnt-work/Perfectionism:https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/perfectionism-help-your-teen-and-yourself-overcome-the-need-to-be-perfect/High expectations episode and blog:Episode: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/standards-setting-high-expectations-without-the-pressure/Blog: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/blog/setting-expectations-without-piling-on-the-pressure/Why mothers aren't happy:https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/motherhood-and-careers-can-women-really-have-it-all/Giselle Goodwin: @gisellegoodwinwrites on Instagram and YouTubehttps://substack.com/@gisellegoodwinSupport the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com My website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.comFind me on Substack: https://teenagersuntangled.substack.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk
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Jan 7, 2026 • 49min

The One Thing Your Teen Really Needs From a Parent: Emotional Regulation

In this enlightening discussion, Dr. Jody Carrington—a clinical psychologist and author known for her insights on emotional regulation—unpacks the crucial role caregivers play in children's emotional well-being. She explains why kids don’t lose their goodness but rather lose access during dysregulation. Dr. Carrington emphasizes modeling calm, the pitfalls of rewards and punishments, and the importance of empathy. She provides practical connection strategies, urging parents to engage deeply during moments like car rides and bedtime, while championing the '30% rule' to alleviate perfectionism.
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Dec 31, 2025 • 43min

The secrets to real change, and parents breaking negative family cycles

Ask Rachel anythingI thought we'd kick off the new year with an episode on how building our own community of people we admire can dramatically change our future and break from a difficult past.In this episode, I talk with Mitchell Osmond, who transformed his life from financial instability, marital strife, and addiction to a thriving marriage, debt repayment, and personal health. Mitchell attributes his turnaround to two pivotal moments: a marital fight and a funeral that made him question his life's direction. He formed a "Iron Five" group of mentors and within 18 months paid off $100,000 in debt, lost 60 pounds, and improved his marriage. Mitchell emphasizes the importance of presence over perfection in family life and the need for men to connect emotionally with their wives and children. He also discusses the impact of fatherlessness and the necessity of role models for boys. Mitchell Osmond:  @dadnationco  Where to find Mitchell Osmondhttps://www.dadnationco.com/New Year's Resolutions:EPISODE: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/70-new-years-resolutions-love-them-or-loathe-them-the-question-is-how-can-we-make-them-work-for-u/BLOG WITH MY TECHNIQUE: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/blog/Be-the-person-you-want-to-be-not-the-person-others-think-you-should-be/Find me on Substack https://Teenagersuntangled.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/Support the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.My email is teenagersuntangled@gmail.com My website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact me:www.teenagersuntangled.comFind me on Substack: https://teenagersuntangled.substack.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/You can reach Susie at www.amindful-life.co.uk

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