What Would Love Do?

Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!) Pursuing a man comes across as tacky and desperate; there’s no other way to say it. And by pursuing we mean always texting or calling, needing an answer to every text; basically, trying to get a guy’s attention at all costs. This has nothing to do with your feminine energy or sitting back and WAITING for a man to show interest in you. On the contrary. A strong woman who knows what she wants from a partner is confident and won’t resort to love bombing a guy to feel connected. This strong woman has high standards and doesn’t want to waste her time, so she’ll choose her potential partners carefully. When she’s confident in her choices, she won’t feel like a needy child who needs validation. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why women become the chaser and how that weakens her appeal to the men she’s choosing. Let’s talk about…Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You Wouldn’t you agree that men and women ultimately want the same thing? They want companionship and sex. We can argue that the difference begins at how much companionship men want versus women in terms of a relationship but we’re actually after the same goals. But many men have an innate fear that being in a relationship means lack of freedom. You’ve heard the age-old joke about the wife being the ball and chain, right? Some men truly believe that being in a relationship curbs their freedom, that they have to ‘answer’ to someone else for their actions. This is the type of thinking that make men avoid relationships. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways men can feel freedom in a loving relationship and how you can develop a lasting relationship with men who are ready to commit. Let’s talk about…3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man Have you ever noticed that in every romance/comedy movie the guy sweeps in to rescue the girl and they fall madly in love? That might be romantic in a fairy tale but in modern times, most women don’t want to fall into that ‘victim’ trap, needing to be rescued. When women don’t take full control of their lives and decisions – and find themselves needing to be rescued – they’re giving their power away to a guy. This might be as simple as choosing where to eat or as serious as moving across country. Relationships are meant to be partnerships, where both people have the capability of making decisions about where to eat or where to live and work. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why women give their power away as well as some surprising ways this happens. Let’s talk about…7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man (#6 Is The Worst) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Make a Man Miss You Without Playing Games Don’t you agree that playing dating games is exhausting? It’s like a massive game of real life “if you do this, then that will happen.” I’ve also heard it compared to playing a game of chess: one person makes a move, then the other, all while trying to outsmart their opponent to ultimately claim the win. But that doesn’t sound very romantic, does it? And what is the ultimate victory in dating games? Forcing someone into a relationship they don’t want? Why would you invite that type of drama into your life? Let’s forgo the games and learn to be authentic with the people we date. Then there’s no guesswork involved and you can BOTH decide if you want to see more of each other. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons couples play dating games and why it’s detrimental to starting a real relationship. Let’s talk about…Make a Man Miss You Without Playing Games Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most) If you’ve been through a break up, you can probably guess what these 3 reasons are before we even start. But it’s not enough to just hear the phrases men use to break up…we need to dive much deeper into the feelings and deflections involved. Otherwise you’ll be left wondering if he was feeding you a line of BS or if there is something wrong with you (there’s not, trust me). Acknowledging the deeper feelings involved in a break up also helps you understand his perspective. While you may not agree with his reasoning, he is allowed to have these feelings, just as you are allowed to not agree. This is where things can get sticky if you believe someone has to be “right” and the other person is “wrong” in a break up. You each will have different perspectives of how the relationship was and why it should or should not end. No matter how you feel, you’re allowed to feel that way. Let’s discuss the DEEPER feelings involved in breaking up and how to accept this unpleasant outcome. Let’s talk about…Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit What’s your definition of ‘commitment’? It will be different for everyone and there’s no wrong or right answer. Some women want a monogamous relationship that offers companionship and connection while others want to get remarried. There are lots of different levels in between these two as well and only YOU can determine what’s right for you. But many of my clients find it difficult to talk about these desires – or the word commitment in general – with men they meet, often because men are a little slow to join the personal development bandwagon. In general, most men are raised to ignore their feelings or with the belief that only women talk about feelings. That’s not to say your man can’t come around and learn to communicate more deeply; it’s just a process. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons men are hesitant to talk about commitment and why they might need help figuring out what they really want out of life. Let’s talk about…Men Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? If you’ve been dating for any amount of time, I’m guessing that you’ve experienced this situation, where a guy comes on strong to woo you and then all but disappears off the face of the earth. You’d think that by the time we reach the midlife years this wouldn’t happen and yet it continues. In this episode I explore the disconnect between a man’s thinking in his 20s and in midlife. This is rooted many times in the stereotypical gender roles that men learn in childhood and the natural inclination to ‘get lazy’ once they find the connection they’re looking for. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why men change speed once they find a suitable partner and how to keep the dating energy alive. Let’s talk about…Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 It’s a new year and with that comes new possibilities for love and success. My favorite memes for the new year are the photos of a brand new book opened to the first blank page. You alone are the author of your story and I encourage you to approach each blank page as a new chance for happiness and the man of your dreams. I’m thrilled to be sharing the mic with my beloved, Marie, as we share how our relationship began, how we both felt about a long distance relationship, and some of the challenges we face today. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways strong relationships can develop, even when it starts off on a dating app or long distance. Let’s talk about…Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men When you’re in a disagreement with your partner, do you place more importance on getting the issue resolved or on being right? In a new relationship, you might want to be right as you’re testing the waters with a new guy but as a relationship deepens, high-quality women will focus on resolving the issue. When one falls into ‘being right’ it’s much easier to fall into a victim consciousness. Once you start adapting those victim consciousness thoughts – such as ‘everyone is out to get me’ or ‘there are no good men in the world’ – it’s tough to overcome that and find your VICTOR consciousness. When you are a victor, you have confidence in yourself and believe that you can create the life you want, including finding a suitable man who meets your high standards. Let’s discuss the DEEPER characteristics of high-quality women and how they uphold their high dating standards. Let’s talk about…5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Guys Ignore You When They Like You Midlife dating comes with a myriad of emotions, mostly brought on by being unsure of how to navigate this new world. You want to find a partner but also don’t want to get hurt again. You start to question who would make a good partner. Maybe you start to doubt your judgment, especially if you’ve had some first dates that didn’t lead anywhere or the men were less than ideal. In this episode I share my own experiences about dating after divorce and explore the deeper reasons of why I could be intimate with a woman but then not have the desire to call her or want to spend time with her. It’s a complex range of emotions at play and it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve done anything wrong. This is where personal development becomes so important, especially if a long term relationship is what you’re looking for. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why guys can like you enough to be intimate but ignore you after the fact. It’s not just because they want to be a ‘player’. Let’s talk about…Why Guys Ignore You When They Like You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends