What Would Love Do?

5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject) Hollywood has really fooled us into thinking that falling in love happens quickly, almost like a spell is placed on us and we fall for that perfect person and we live happily ever after. Even though we all know it doesn’t happen like that, we still hold out hope that our dream person will come along and our lives will be better. What doesn’t get shown in those movies are the deep conversations that are necessary to have in order to know someone on a deep level. The surface qualities of a guy is what will attract him to you; the deeper qualities and values of this person is what will make you fall in love. Let’s discuss the DEEPER signs that indicate if you’re headed toward love or breakup. Let’s talk about…5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)? In today’s society, with so many people wanting instant gratification, relationships are often tossed aside if one person doesn’t get what they want right away. While we don’t want to force a relationship on someone who doesn’t want to be with us, it happens all too frequently, simply because midlife men are scared to make an investment in a relationship. Some men might want to be a player if they settled down at too young an age and they feel like they “missed out”. Some men might have gotten burned in a divorce and are hesitant (or unable) to trust another woman. And some men just don’t know what they want or get scared when they start to develop feelings for someone. In no way am I excusing this behavior. Men and women alike should discover what they want out of life – and a relationship – before they get back into the dating pool. But these instances make it all the more important to have conversations early on, before the relationship gets physical or too deep. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why men look at relationships as “disposable” and how you can prevent this from happening to you. Let’s talk about…Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears) We all have hidden fears because we’re human but that doesn’t make it any easier to admit to our partners what they are. So, not only do we have these fears but now we’re fearful of sharing with the people who are supposed to care and love us the most. The reasons are numerous: fear of being vulnerable; fear of our partners not understanding; fear of being made fun of; fear of intimacy; gender stereotypes that men aren’t supposed to be afraid of anything. We need to understand why we are fearful to share on a deeper level before we can make improvements in our communication skills. Let’s discuss the DEEPER fears of men and how women can help them feel comfortable sharing. Let’s talk about…3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To Commit Commitment to a relationship or marriage at any age should not be taken lightly. This next level in a relationship has great meaning and importance but those things differ as you get older. While men in their 20s or 30s might seem to commit earlier in the dating process, men in their 40s or older often take longer, and rightfully so. Age DOES have an impact on how quickly men commit to a relationship, quite simply because relationships are more complex as you get older. Most midlife singles are divorced, which brings an ex-spouse and usually children into the picture. Many people after they get divorced will dive into personal development teachings, books, or classes, so if you’re doing that type of work, normally you’ll want someone else who has done personal development work, too. Divorced people generally don’t want to have that experience again, so they might be slow to commit just do they don’t make the same mistake. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to know if someone is ready to commit to a relationship or if they’re still determining if they’re with the right partner. Let’s talk about…Men (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To Commit Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Things A Man Will Do When He’s Emotionally Attracted (#5 is The Most Important One) When we’re talking about attraction, it’s important to differentiate between PHYSICAL attraction and EMOTIONAL attraction. As you can guess, physical attraction relates to the chemistry we feel with another person. It’s the reaction we feel based on the visual stimuli we see in another person. This is where lust and limerence some into play because those are both based on physical attraction. Emotional attraction goes much deeper than physical. You might be attracted by the physical body of someone first but the emotional attraction is what will keep you there. This includes the values of this person, how they treat you, how you communicate together, etc. The ideal formula is to find someone that appeals to both your physical and emotional attractions. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways men will show that they’re emotionally attracted to you, even if they don’t know that phrase. Let’s talk about…5 Things A Man Will Do When He’s Emotionally Attracted Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Is He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To Know We put a lot of pressure on ourselves in these mid-life years, especially when it comes to finding the right partner. Men and women alike figure it must be easier to sort out those potential partners from the riff raff because we have life experiences to draw from and know what we like, dislike, and want. Well, it’s good that mid-lifers know what they want but in some ways, dating is a little more difficult because we’re meeting complete and total strangers. A century ago we’d be meeting people within our own communities, who were already vetted by others they knew. In today’s world, especially with dating apps, we’re dating outside the communities so a little more time is necessary if you’re on the search for Mr. Right. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to protect your emotions when dating and how to determine when to cut ties or when to move forward with someone . Let’s talk about…Is He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To Know Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY’S HEAD) I’ve come to the realization that I tend to throw men under the bus when it comes to explaining why relationships don’t work out. So, I just want to clear the air that there ARE great men out there who don’t play games, who believe in doing personal development work, and who want to have long term relationships. They have difficulty finding the right women just as much as women have difficulty finding the right men. Let’s always remember that it takes 2 people to make a relationship work. If one person is checked out or not taking it seriously, it’s nearly impossible for the other person to make the relationship work without feeling resentment. When 2 people are committed, even if you have disagreements, you have the desire to work through them. Both men AND women can check out…it’s not just men who get bored. Let’s discuss the DEEPER thoughts that men want you to know about them so you can have a better understanding of our thinking. Let’s talk about…4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY’S HEAD) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How To Tell If He’s An Avoidant or Secure Man We’ve all got biological programming about gender roles in our society. Men grow up thinking that we have to be the protector and provider of our family and women grow up with the idea of being the nurturer and caretaker. While those are still important roles, nowhere in these “lessons” does it tell us how to have a happy, loving relationship. We often hear from others that it takes work for a marriage to last but few people go into specifics, especially when we’re younger. And let’s face it…younger people think they know everything and don’t have a clue about personal development, so they might shoo away the idea that they need to continuously work on themselves in order to grow. Ultimately, it’s not up to US to change our partners. We can certainly live by example and talk about personal development but if you’re thinking you can change someone, it might be better to step away. Let’s discuss the DEEPER meanings of “avoidant” and “secure” and how to recognize each of these traits in the men you’re dating. Let’s talk about…How To Tell If He’s An Avoidant or Secure Man Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU Many women take things very personally and let their emotions lead their decisions. If they make a mistake at work, they can feel solely responsible, even if it’s a team project. If they don’t get the right item or brand that their kids requested, they might run out to fix the mistake or feel guilty that they’re not providing what the kids want. And we all know the “it’s not you, it’s me” speech from the teen years and every sappy movie. Even when the other person seems to be taking responsibility for something, women feel the need to pile on their own guilt that a relationship didn’t work. Feedback is neutral, meaning they are just words that have no meaning…until WE as humans place meaning on them, either positive or negative. So, if a relationship breaks off, don’t go assuming it was your fault. It takes two to have a strong relationship and you can learn how to avoid placing guilt on yourself for no reason. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons men will retreat and go silent, even if things with their partner is going great. Let’s talk about…#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why He’s Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You) Chemistry is a tricky thing. When you meet someone new, you might feel a pull toward that person; a strong liking that makes you think about them all the time and daydreaming about all the ‘what could be’ scenarios. But over time, those happy chemicals in your brain wear off. That’s when life gets real and you have to decide if this is someone you want to continue dating and this is what scares men. Yes, they like you, but they freak out a little when the chemistry wanes to normal levels. If you subscribe to the idea that chemistry is everything, you’ll be disappointed and may find it difficult to settle down with just one person. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons men become afraid, even when things are going well between you. Let’s talk about…Why He’s Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends