

What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.
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Mar 28, 2023 • 1h 8min
When a Guy Falls in Love to Fast & Other Things to Look For
When a Guy Falls in Love to Fast & Other Things to Look For
Men’s and women’s feelings rarely develop at the same speed and that can cause some confusion between the couple, especially if the guy declares his love before his partner. Once those words are spoken, the relationship naturally jumps to another level of intimacy. But if the woman isn’t on the same page, she can start to question whether this guy is a creeper or worth holding on to.
Of course, every relationship is different and will progress at different speeds and there’s no one ‘perfect’ role model. It’s important to be honest with yourself and with your partner; and follow that intuition that either makes you feel safe and secure or that makes you want to run for the hills.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why some men can fall head over heels quicker than most women and how to know if it’s for real or a lustful desire.
Let’s talk about…When a Guy Falls in Love to Fast & Other Things to Look For
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 25, 2023 • 21min
How A Guy Knows You’re The One
How A Guy Knows You’re The One
Is there really such a thing as ‘love at first sight’? Sometimes people will feel that way when it’s really LUST at first sight. But then there are others who know within weeks or months of meeting that they want to be exclusive or married – that THIS is ‘the one.’ My assistant was just telling me she knows two couples who were married within 4 months of meeting their spouses and those couples are now married for 17 and 27 years.
Even though these scenarios sound like a plotline from every Hallmark movie, they do sometimes happen in real life. However, don’t compare yourself to these couples. Every relationship develops at their own pace and each partner needs to be committed to making a relationship work. The important thing is to keep communication open and have those ‘radical honesty’ conversations.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to know if your relationship is headed down a serious path and how to talk to your guy about what you want in a relationship.
Let’s talk about…How A Guy Knows You’re The One
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 21, 2023 • 54min
7 Undeniable Signs He’s in Love with You
7 Undeniable Signs He’s in Love with You
How do you reconnect with your guy after a long week? Do you take time each month to spend the day doing things that are important to you while talking about life’s joys and problems?
Reconnecting is so important because it’s very easy to get distracted with everyday life. When you fill your day with solving issues – either work, family, or friends – that leaves very little time for your significant other, who might start to feel forgotten or taken for granted.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways you can remain a connected couple and how to recognize that he’s still crazy about you…even when life is crazy.
Let’s talk about…7 Undeniable Signs He’s in Love with You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 18, 2023 • 21min
Never Wait For A Guy, Even If He’s Very Busy…Do THIS Instead
Never Wait For A Guy, Even If He’s Very Busy…Do THIS Instead
An important part of being in a long term relationship is having the same goals…or at least being on the same page with what you both want in life and in a relationship. When one person claims they’re “too busy” or gives off that vibe with always having to work or not having time on a weekend to see you, ignore that instinct to just sit back and wait.
Life is short and you deserve to have what YOU want, not wait around for someone else. It’s time to take control, ignore the advice of sitting in your feminine energy to wait for Prince Charming, and fill your life with people who value YOU, simply because you’re awesome.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons men claim they’re “busy” and how you can fill your life with people and activities that bring you joy.
Let’s talk about…Never Wait For A Guy, Even If He’s Very Busy Do THIS Instead
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 14, 2023 • 53min
How to Tell if He’s in Love…
If a Man Deeply Loves You, He will Do these 3 Things!
Ladies…do you agree that everyday should be Valentine’s Day? Is showing your love for your partner really limited to this one day? Certainly not. If you love and respect someone, I encourage you to let them know in some way, every single day. Otherwise you run the risk of falling into the trap of taking them for granted. Then resentment builds up and sometimes this is irreversible.
Also keep in mind that displays of love and respect will change over time. In the beginning, when everything is new and exciting, lust and limerence come into play. This is when our emotions run the game and we’re seeking the thrill of sex. As a relationship grows and deepens, those displays of love also deepen. Sure, you can still enjoy the thrill of sex but you’ll also know that your guy is here to stay for the long term.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways a man can show you love, even after the honeymoon phase of your relationship ends.
Let’s talk about…If a Man Deeply Loves You, He will Do these 3 Things!
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 11, 2023 • 26min
Confusing Things Men Say | What They Really Mean
Confusing Things Men Say | What They Really Mean
In this age of technology, you’d think that we humans would be much better at communication. Dare I say, we’ve gotten worse! Communication prior to smartphones would require actually SPEAKING to another person and problem solving with them in the room or over the phone but these conversations were more vulnerable because you had nowhere to hide.
Today, we have keyboards to hide behind and I’m sure you’ve seen this on social media where people can be downright mean and say things they probably wouldn’t say to someone’s face. But the screen and keyboard offer some protection so they feel empowered. The same is true for men who hide behind keyboards and prefer texting versus speaking on the phone. Written words can be crafted to make someone feel loved and respected but texting does not make for a strong relationship.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons men get confused over what they want in a partner and why they have difficulty saying what they mean.
Let’s talk about…Confusing Things Men Say | What They Really Mean
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 7, 2023 • 1h 12min
Love is About Timing…
Men are Ready to Commit at THIS Time
When you really sit and think about the dating process, it’s a miracle people get together at all because the timing literally has to be right for both people. Not only do two people need to WANT a relationship but there needs to be no significant life situations occurring so they can both devote their time to developing the relationship.
And by life situations I mean work drama, divorce proceedings, custody arguments, caring for aging parents. These are all major occurrences and require your attention and often leave you feeling depleted. And when you’re feeling depleted, you often can’t devote the necessary time to a partner.
Of course, others argue that you can still nurture a relationship during a major life event but it’s important to be completely honest about what you really want during a difficult or challenging time.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways timing plays a role in relationships and how you’ll know when a man is ready to commit.
Let’s talk about…Love is About Timing…Men are Ready to Commit at This Time
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 4, 2023 • 20min
Guys Will Adore You When THIS Happens
Guys Will Adore You When THIS Happens
I don’t have to tell you that the dating marketplace has changed significantly over the last several years. My clients tell me all the time that they feel frustrated, disposable, and sad that they can’t find an emotionally healthy man who wants a long term relationship.
One thing I stress to them is if you go into dating with a pessimistic outlook, you’ll only see the bad things about your prospects. Their character flaws will be more pronounced and you’ll fall into a habit of wondering, “What’s going to be wrong with this guy?”
Changing your outlook and thinking positively – or at least keeping an open mind about dating – will bring you many more pleasant experiences. Yes, you still need to take the action of going on the dates but changing your outlook and not being attached to any particular outcome will, at the very least, allow you to meet some people you might have never crossed paths with otherwise.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways women can ATTRACT men instead of chasing men while also having a positive outlook about dating.
Let’s talk about…Guys Will Adore You When THIS Happens
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mar 1, 2023 • 1h 6min
Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit
Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit
In this episode I address a comment from one of my YouTube videos in which the viewer thought I was accepting of the men who don’t do any personal development work and they just ‘wing it’. While some men certainly chuckle at the idea of personal development, not all men are like that. But not all of my advice will ‘work’ on every man you meet, either.
If you actively work on your own personal development and you have a strong idea of who your ideal mate is, then I encourage YOU to lead by example. Have the confidence to start the difficult conversations about what they’re looking for in the dating world. Ask them what their vision of the future is. Yes, some men will be put off by that conversation, and it’s OK to cut them loose. You’re not looking to change this man…you’re simply looking for someone who’s starting out with the same values and desires for their future.
Let’s discuss the DEEPER signs that men are willing to commit to YOU and how leading by example can attract a man with similar values.
Let’s talk about…Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Feb 25, 2023 • 22min
Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect You
Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect You
Over the years the message of ‘you can’t change a man’ has become more prominent; that’s after YEARS of women thinking their man just needed some kind loving and he’d change into the Prince Charming she always dreamed of. But this thinking goes against everything that a strong relationship is built on: authenticity and acceptance of the other person.
So, why is it that women feel THEY need to change in order to attract a man? That could mean acting differently at a party or bar or pretending not to enjoy something simply because their man doesn’t enjoy it. This isn’t authenticity or acceptance; this is denying your joy to make someone else happy. And if your partner is expecting you to do this – or is OK with you doing it – is that partner really worth keeping?
Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why women feel the need to change and how to earn respect from the man in their life.
Let’s talk about…Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends


