What Would Love Do?

Jonathon Aslay
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May 2, 2023 • 1h 7min

Truth Behind WHY He Won’t Commit to You | Common Excuses

Truth Behind WHY He Won’t Commit to You | Common Excuses As humans we can ALL come up with excuses for not doing something. I don’t have time to exercise. I don’t know how to cook so I eat out every night. No one is hiring so I’m stuck in this dead end job. Sound familiar? In the end, whether we’re thinking of the excuses we make to ourselves or that the men in your life make, excuses are just another way to avoid being vulnerable. Vulnerability is scary, especially when you talk about committing to a partner. Vulnerability is linked with intimacy and the giving of yourself – or showing your true self – to another person. To be vulnerable means having trust in the other person. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why men hesitate to commit, even if they enjoy the companionship and intimacy with their partner. Let’s talk about…Truth Behind WHY He Won’t Commit to You | Common Excuses Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 29, 2023 • 24min

Get More From A Man | Don’t Chase, DO THIS Instead

Get More From A Man | Don’t Chase, DO THIS Instead So many women come to me with deep frustration over the dating world, mostly complaining about how inept men seem to be. Piled on top of ineptitude is the conflicting advice of other  experts who ALL have different takes on dating. So, between the confusing advice and the lifelong lessons they’re carrying around, it’s no wonder men are confused! My advice to all women is to stop the games and approach dating from a different perspective. Chasing a guy gives him the impression that you’re just out for a good time, which is the WRONG message if you’re looking for a long term, serious relationship. Chasing also suggests that you’re needy, which can be a turn off for guys who are looking for a long term relationship. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways you can interact with an emotionally mature man to determine if you’re a good match for each other long term. Let’s talk about…Get More From A Man | Don’t Chase, DO THIS Instead Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 25, 2023 • 1h 6min

Want More Than A Situationship? DON’T CHASE HIM; Do THIS Instead

Want More Than A Situationship? DON’T CHASE HIM; Do THIS Instead Are you in a real relationship or a situationship? If you haven’t heard this word before, it refers to ambiguous relationships. For example, if you’re unsure of where your relationship is going or if you think you’re being monogamous but aren’t sure, that’s a situationship. Do you think a situationship is stable? It can lead to stability but without having radically honest relationships with your partner, there’s no way to really know if you’re both on the same page. And these conversations can be hard, no doubt, especially if you’re with a guy who doesn’t think “big picture” or who doesn’t want to be vulnerable by sharing his thoughts about the future. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to move a situationship into a full-on relationship where you both agree about the path you’re on. Let’s talk about…Want More Than A Situationship? DON’T CHASE HIM; Do THIS Instead Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 22, 2023 • 19min

6 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive

6 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive I’m still amazed that there are some factions of the male world who believe women are most attractive when they are subservient to the man in their life. GARBAGE! What rock do these guys live under? If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll know that I believe wholeheartedly that women should never give away their power away. In fact, an empowered woman who knows what she wants from a man is downright sexy! Don’t be discouraged. There truly ARE men in the world who are grown up and value women as life partners. And even though we’re talking about feminine habits today, by no means do these high-quality men expect subservience. They simply want to fall in love with a woman who’s not afraid to embrace her femininity. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways men are attracted to women who embrace their feminine power and who know what they want in life and from a man. Let’s talk about…6 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 18, 2023 • 1h 13min

The No. 1 Reason a Man SUDDENLY COMMITS To You

The No. 1 Reason a Man SUDDENLY COMMITS To You Midlife men are often non-committal, usually because they’ve been burned in the past from a harsh break up or a divorce. And at times you might have felt that way as well based on your own past experiences. However, you can build the solid foundation of a relationship by having lots of honest, intimate conversations with your guy. Trust builds intimacy and intimacy builds trust.  Along the way you’ll encounter some unpleasant things about your guy or his past but do your best to listen without judgment. It’s not easy to be vulnerable with someone and share your deepest fears and shame with them. Remember that this advice goes both ways: your guy should listen to you without judgment, too. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to build an intimate relationship without judgment or shame that leads to commitment.. Let’s talk about…When A Guy FALLS IN LOVE Too Fast & Other Things To Look For Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 15, 2023 • 19min

6 Ways A Man (Over 40) SHOWS His Love To You

6 Ways A Man (Over 40) SHOWS His Love To You You know that old saying, “Actions speak louder than words”? With a lot of midlife men, especially those who are not the best conversationalists, they often find that it’s easier to show you how they feel than to talk about it. This could be a result of the traditional ways that men and women were raised 40-60 years ago (or a host of other reasons) but these actions are worth noting. So, you know me and my fondness for radical honesty; while I believe that’s the best way to form a solid relationship, I’m fully aware that not everyone is comfortable with this approach. You can still be honest but at a slower pace with your conversations. And if your guy is one who proves his love with actions, pay attention and TELL him how much it means to you. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways a man can show his love that don’t require words or making a public spectacle. Let’s talk about…6 Ways A Man (Over 40) SHOWS His Love To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 11, 2023 • 56min

5 Signs the Man You’re With is a Keeper

5 Signs the Man You’re With is a Keeper Sometimes it’s hard to tell if a guy you like is just going through the motions of dating in the hopes of getting sex or if he’s really a candidate for a long term relationship. This is especially true if you’ve been doing a lot of meet and greets and seem to be attracting a lot of emotionally immature men. You know I preach about radical honesty but I also know that not all men are open to those kinds of conversations, especially in the ‘getting to know you’ phase of dating. But we’re going to talk about 5 other signs that you’re headed in the right direction, even if he doesn’t cooperate with the radical honesty conversations. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to know if a guy is worth your time or if you should do the old ‘catch and release’. Let’s talk about…5 Signs the Man You’re With is a Keeper Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 8, 2023 • 19min

What Causes Guys to Breadcrumb a Woman

What Causes Guys to Breadcrumb a Woman There are 3 types of men in the dating world: Intentional Men go into the dating process knowing they want a companion and a relationship. Unintentional Men are often known as ‘players’ who have NO intention of getting into a relationship; they just want the fun and the sex. Lastly you have the Wounded Men who often are not healed from their childhood wounds and/or adult traumas. Can you guess which category a ‘breadcrumber’ falls into? You got it…the Wounded Men category. That’s because they know they want the relationship but because of their past trauma (most likely a divorce) they don’t know the smart, adult way to handle a relationship so they give out bits and pieces of themselves, like breadcrumbs. Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why men will breadcrumb a woman and how you can identify the breadcrumbs vs the real attempts at forming a solid relationship. Let’s talk about…What Causes Guys to Breadcrumb a Woman Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 4, 2023 • 1h 6min

Meeting the Right Man Gets Easier When You Do These 4 Things

Meeting the Right Man Gets Easier When You Do These 4 Things I never want to imply that dating is easy or that finding your perfect mate is easy. You’ve been in this dating pool long enough to know it’s not easy and it can be downright frustrating at times. BUT when you understand male behavior and you make a concerted effort to do these 4 tips, then narrowing down the dating prospects becomes a bit easier. When you know what to look for in guys – and you understand what type of man you’re looking for – you’ll notice the cues more quickly about whether certain men are worth your dating time or not. And if someone isn’t worth a second date, no worries. Don’t fall into the trap of feeling guilty if there’s no connection. If you force a connection or you start to second guess what type of guy you want, you’ll run the risk of sabotaging your efforts and ending up with someone who will only frustrate you…because you lowered your standards. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways to discern if a guy has the potential to be your Mr. Right or if you should move on. Let’s talk about…Meeting the Right Man Gets Easier When You Do These 4 Things Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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Apr 1, 2023 • 21min

Guys Over 40 Need THESE 5 Things To Commit (Without THEM Your Relationship Will Fail)

Guys Over 40 Need THESE 5 Things To Commit (Without THEM Your Relationship Will Fail) One would think that after a certain age, we would all know what makes a strong relationship last throughout the years. Unfortunately, we humans get so stuck in our ways – or we think that relationships should be common sense – that nobody really knows what the heck they’re doing! Guys especially like to believe they don’t need to learn new relationship lessons but in reality, every single person can use some help in this department (women, too). So, it’s up to you to decide whether you want to take the advice and do the work or not. I’m excited to help you on this journey so let’s jump right in! Let’s discuss the DEEPER reasons why men are afraid of commitment and what a couple needs to create a strong foundation. Let’s talk about…Guys Over 40 Need THESE 5 Things To Commit (Without THEM Your Relationship Will Fail) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

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