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Men (Over 40) Need This To Settle Down & Commit As the old saying goes, timing is everything. When two people get together – either for a first meeting or deciding to date one another – if the timing is off, they’ll run into challenges. Of course, life is full of challenges but why not set yourself up for success by being on strong footing both emotionally and financially? Especially with brand new relationships. If one person needs more help or support right from the start, they could be misunderstood as being needy or wanting to be rescued. That most likely is not the best way to present yourself to a new partner. With a longer term relationship, that’s a completely different story because you’ve spent time getting to know one another on a deeper level. This type of support is normal to expect from a significant other. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what will make a man want to settle down and commit to a relationship. Let’s talk about…Men (Over 40) Need This To Settle Down & Commit (The IT Factor) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Men Feel FEAR After They Met The One In the dating world, most people put up their guard or a wall when meeting new people because they want to build some trust before letting the other person into the nitty gritty of their lives. You can still be authentic in showing your personality and asking radically honest questions while being cautious with strangers on a date. When men find someone they care about and dive further into a relationship, all their insecurities arise. This comes from a state of vulnerability, where it’s time to let the other person into your life and now the fear of not being good enough or not being loveable come into play. These are crazy mind games we play with ourselves from old lessons often learned in childhood. And they can certainly cause fear because you’re vulnerable and entering the fear of the unknown with this other person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to alleviate fears while being vulnerable with a partner. Let’s talk about…Why Men Feel FEAR After They Met The One Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How To Tell A Man WHAT YOU WANT From Him Even though you might think most men are poor communicators, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to open up those lines so you feel heard. Too many times a situation or disagreement may arise (and not always serious) where the communication drops off or an argument ensues only for the issue to never really be resolved. This type of ‘sweeping under the rug’ often leads to resentment, usually because each partner feels like they’re right. They might feel that the other person isn’t hearing them – or doesn’t care about their perspective – which can feel deflating. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to keep communication open, even if your guy is the silent type who internalizes his feelings. Let’s talk about…How To Tell A Man WHAT YOU WANT From Him Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Guys Go Silent and What To Do About It… You’d think that with the advent of smartphones that communication would get easier but in many ways, today’s technology makes it easier to AVOID real communication. People easily claim that they missed a text or they can decline a phone call. Before we can resolve this problem, it’s necessary to look at the various types of communication we have. Let me preface that in no way am I condoning going silent. By the time we get to midlife, you’d think we’d be brave enough to communicate what we want and whether this person is a good match. But you’ve heard me talk about childhood lessons and traumas that have lasting effects, well into adulthood. Today we’ll focus on how long distance dating, early stages of dating, and a seasoned relationship all have different forms of communication and why it’s important to understand the differences. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about communication styles and why these differ based on the relationship stage you’re in. Let’s talk about…Why Guys Go Silent and What To Do About It… Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Don’t Chase…Do THIS Instead! What are your definitions of masculine and feminine energy? Many people (Marie included!) relate the types of energy to traditional gender roles. For instance, they think masculine energy is related to being the hunter/gatherer/provider whereas feminine energy is related to being the nurturer and caregiver. I can understand why you might think this way but everyone – males and females alike – have BOTH masculine and feminine energy. From a dating coach’s perspective, masculine energy is all about DOING and feminine energy is about RECEIVING. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to embrace both types of energy in your everyday life and why some women might be scared off by a woman. Let’s talk about…Does Your Masculine Energy Scare Men Off? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

7 Things Men Do When They’re Extremely Attracted to You Believe it or not, when men are attracted to a woman, they don’t necessarily make obvious moves. Of course, there ARE the guys who will fawn all over a woman, feeling the need to invade their personal space or give unwanted touches. But there are also more subtle things to look for which are signs that you’re dealing with an emotionally mature and intelligent man. Most importantly, I want you to remember that you are WONDERFUL just the way you are and you shouldn’t feel like you need to change anything about your personality to make a man feel better about himself. Those are the duds you should pass by. Attraction is the first and most obvious thing that brings people together but that’s just on the surface. The most important part of a person is what’s inside. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how men might find you attractive, even if they’re not vocal about telling you directly. Let’s talk about…7 Things Men Do When They’re Extremely Attracted to You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men are Very Attracted to Women Who Don’t Try I’d like you to think about this title and idea in two different ways. First, think about a woman who doesn’t go overboard with trying to impress a man. She’s confident in who she is and doesn’t feel the need to play games or ‘hard to get’. She’s putting forth effort in her appearance and in meeting up with guys but she’s doing so in an authentic way, seemingly with little effort. THIS is attractive! Now, think of a different woman who gives all her power away to the man in her life. She’s comfortable with not making decisions about where to go for dinner. She relies on the man 100% to guide the relationship, from where to eat to how many times a week they have sex. This is NOT attractive. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why women give away their power instead of feeling comfortable in their skin and confident in their life choices. A relationship is meant to be a partnership, not a ship with only one captain. Let’s talk about…Men are Very Attracted to Women Who Don’t Try Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man’s Interest **Game Changer** So many people in the midlife dating world think women have to embrace their feminine energy and men have all the masculine energy. While there’s truth to the idea that EVERYONE has an energetic makeup, it really takes two PEOPLE to connect and to determine that they want to commit to a relationship, no matter how much feminine or masculine energy they each have. Such stereotypes have existed since the beginning of time, with the women generally taking care of the family and household while the men were the hunters and gatherers. But as time progresses, shouldn’t human nature also progress past these stereotypes? Can’t men embrace their emotions and more of their feminine energy and women no longer be called the B-word when they assert themselves in the workplace? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about human behavior and how each person can embrace their true selves – regardless of masculine or feminine energy. Let’s talk about…5 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man’s Interest **Game Changer** Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

If You Want More From A Man, Do THESE 6 Things Divorce has really made men gun shy when it comes to meeting women and creating relationships. Not every divorce is contentious and not every ex-wife is a nightmare but depending on the severity of the experience, it can take men awhile to feel comfortable in the dating scene. By no means does this grant them permission to be jerks; but maybe a little more understanding that everyone has some sort of issues to work through is necessary. Building trust with another person is paramount to a healthy relationship and some people need to take that part a little slower. Let’s discuss the DEEPER ways you can build trust with a man who wants a long term relationship but needs some guidance about what you need to be happy. Let’s talk about…If You Want More From A Man, Do THESE 6 Things Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Men (Over 40) CHOOSE One Woman Over ANOTHER In today’s dating world, it’s quite common for men and women to date multiple people at the same time. While you might question how do you get to know someone if there’s always another person hanging in the background, many midlife people are tired of wasting their time and they figure why not balance two people at the same time. If you find yourself in this dating situation, eventually your guy will choose one of you over the other, especially if he’s interested in an exclusive relationship. I invite you to avoid playing dating games to try winning him over. Instead, be your authentic true self and have those radically honest conversations about what you want in a relationship. You definitely do NOT have to play the meek damsel in distress or “sit in your feminine energy” waiting for him to rescue you. Let’s discuss the DEEPER personality traits that are appealing to midlife men who want a long term relationship. Let’s talk about…Why Men (Over 40) CHOOSE One Woman Over ANOTHER Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends