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5 Ways To Increase Your VALUE With Men And Get Them To RESPECT You We talk about the dating world as being dysfunctional, especially when the hook up culture is so obvious. No matter what age range you’re in, you will likely come across players who just want to have fun for a night or a month and then move on to the next woman. These are not the men who will be willing (or able) to give you a long term relationship. Any romantic relationship should start off with a basic level of respect for each other. Treating each other kindly during the get-to-know-you phase will go a long way toward earning trust, which can lead to a wonderful romance. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how mutual respect can grow a relationship whereas consistent arguing can indicate bigger problems. Let’s talk about… 5 Ways To Increase Your VALUE With Men And Get Them To RESPECT You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

99% of Men Feel Respected When They Have THIS! Respect is a two-way street and humans across the board are deserving of respect. Most especially, people who decide to be a couple, maybe even leading to marriage or long term commitment. If you can’t respect your partner, it’s extremely difficult to have any kind of meaningful relationship. Accepting each other’s flaws and annoyances along with all the good qualities go hand in hand. How you are treated by your partner during the good times is a sign of how you’ll be treated when facing difficulties. Everyone’s life will have ebbs and flows – good times alternating with bad times – and a strong, respectable partner will be there for the long haul and understand how to support you – or will at least be willing to learn how best to support you. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about earning respect from your partner and how to help them feel accepted and appreciated for who they are. Let’s talk about… 99% of Men Feel Respected When They Have THIS! d Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

7 Signs He’s A Safe Man and That You Can Trust Him Safety is important when dating because we’re basically meeting complete and total strangers. Friends might still set you up on a blind date but for the most part, the men you meet don’t have a mutual friend who can vouch for their character. But safety isn’t just physical; it’s emotional as well. A guy might treat you like a queen but spill the details to his friends behind your back. Feeling safe and trusting someone can take time, which is why I recommend radical honesty and lots of in-person communication. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to tell if your guy has your best interest at heart. Let’s talk about… 7 Signs He’s A Safe Man and That You Can Trust Him Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Want To Keep His Attention? DON’T CHASE; Do THIS Instead A relationship should be an equal partnership and yet may women feel it’s their responsibility to keep a man’s attention. They want to keep their man so badly that they give and give, often without asking for anything in return. Over giving actually comes from a place of chasing a man, or doing everything possible to keep him around to avoid going back into the dating world again. Whenever a relationship becomes one-sided, it can spell trouble but BOTH parties have to want to fix it. That means having connecting conversations and spending time together outside of the bedroom to find common ground and rediscover why they got together in the first place. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how men AND women can put effort into growing a relationship together so it’s strong and fulfilling for both. Let’s talk about… Want To Keep His Attention? DON’T CHASE; Do THIS Instead Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 NEW Questions You Should ASK About A MAN In The Early Stages of Dating One of the primary reasons women find dating so frustrating is lack of communication. Too often they are attracted to men who just want to have fun or they’re attracted to the superficial guy instead of learning about his deeper desires in life. Of course, women can suffer from not being open enough, too, but you’ll save yourself heartache later on by learning how to ask questions. Marie still thinks my questions were more like a job interview and even though she doesn’t agree with my perspective on some of the questions, the important part was having the conversation. We’re all humans; we’re not always going to agree, no matter how far along in a relationship you are. But learning how to speak to each other early in the relationship will only help you become stronger as a couple. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about improving your communication skills and learning how to have serious conversations with your partner. Let’s talk about… 5 NEW Questions You Should ASK About A MAN In The Early Stages of Dating Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! Knowing exactly what you want in a relationship will go a long way to attracting the type of man who can give that to you. It’s not enough to be vague, like my client who said she wants more commitment but couldn’t express what that meant to her. When you know what you want and what type of person will compliment your lifestyle and values, then you’ll be more picky about who you meet. Not every man who matches with you on the dating apps is worthy of a meet and greet. Even if he checks off 3 out of 4 boxes on your list doesn’t mean you should change anything about yourself to make him fit. That’s the equivalent of ‘chasing’ and often leads to disappointment. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine what you want in a relationship. Let’s talk about… Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Never Chase A Man. Do This Instead (5 Ways He’ll Invest In YOU!) There’s a huge difference between knowing what you want in a man and going after it versus chasing a man for a date. When you set high standards for yourself and determine the type of may you want in a relationship, that knowledge allows you to be picky when sorting through the dating apps. When women chase men, that’s often a sign of being in a hurry to find a man. During the midlife years, they often feel like they’re running out of time and might settle for a man who doesn’t meet their standards, simply because they want someone in their life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about choosing men who will respect you and invest their time in a relationship with you. Let’s talk about… Never Chase A Man. Do This Instead (5 Ways He’ll Invest In YOU!) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Guys Have a Hard Time Not THINKING ABOUT YOU When You Tell Him This I’m a big proponent of loving yourself first before looking for someone to fill that void. If you’ve done any kind of personal development or spiritual work, that void might be smaller but it was created back when you were growing up. Take a moment to think about your childhood. One of the most common desires for kids is to be liked. And if you had incidences of bullying or feeling alone, those feelings are likely still present as an adult. When we look to others to fill a void within ourselves, the relationships will likely be superficial or short-lived. Despite that famous line in the movie Jerry Maguire, no one can truly “complete” you without self-love and a desire to grow ALONG with your partner. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to love yourself in order to attract a loving partner and what will keep him thinking about you. Let’s talk about… Guys Have a Hard Time Not THINKING ABOUT YOU When You Tell Him This Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Is He Stringing You Along? Men Put Women In 4 Categories While Dating Asking questions is an important part of the dating process, especially early on and if you’re looking for a long term relationship. Consider this a way to pre-qualify the men you’re meeting. After answering your questions, do they meet your criteria for a second or third date? If it feels like he’s stringing you along after answering his questions, I suggest you take a pause and not jump to conclusions. Some men need time to determine if they like you enough to pursue a relationship even if there are some medical concerns or other yellow flags. And, as you know, sometimes it takes men longer to make a decision than women. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about these four categories and how to determine if there’s a connection worth pursuing. Let’s talk about…Is He Stringing You Along? Men Put Women In 4 Categories While Dating Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

When He Pulls Away & Then Comes Back Keep This In Mind! Attraction does NOT equal relationship success. Look at any of the celebrity couples from past or present and tell me how many have been in a long term relationship, never mind still married after 20 years. Just because you have fire-hot attraction for each other does not mean you’ll remain together when the hard stuff comes at you. Some of the most attractive people in the world have relationship disasters. Attraction and chemistry is great but unless you like, trust, respect and communicate with your partner, you’re doomed from the start. This should ring a bell if you’ve been following me for any length of time and it bears repeating because it’s so important. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about reframing the old stories we’ve made up about the dating process. Let’s talk about…When He Pulls Away & Then Comes Back Keep This In Mind! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends